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Sep 15, 06
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-If you dont treat my friends and family with respect, or dont make an effort to get to know them, then you dont really want to know me. Adios!
-If you get to clingy, or tell me you love me (and know you dont mean it, asshole) then you need to leave and never come back -If you smell bad, act gross, be immature on a regular basis, then you are not worth my time =D => 
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Sep 15, 06
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I'm a big fan off the high five and pull away at the last second like you were just brushing your hair. Maybe even a thumb tossed over your shoulder and a "pssshhhh". Serioulsy. It works. And some girls even fall for it thrice.
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Sep 15, 06
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Any indication of normalcy is usually a deal breaker. If i can figure your out right away its game over.
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Sep 15, 06
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Also: lack of spontaneity - going to the movies too often, staying home all the time to play video games... or even going to the pub too frequently gets boring there are so many great things to see in this city I really don't think there are any excuses for this. drug dealers, stoners and guys who get shit faced 4+ times a week - other girls may tolerate it but honestly i'm at a place in my life where i'm so over this. bad taste in music - if we're naked and Nelly comes on lord knows i'll be getting dressed ASAP frequently discussing the ex or being 'best friends' with an ex - way too much baggage and not something i'm willing to make any compromises about. being overtly clingy
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Sep 15, 06
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Someone who is mean to others or talks about others in a mean way all the time.
If you talk on your cellphone when hanging out with people...instantly no interest. They're a virgin They live at home with their parents and they are not going to school. They are straight.
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Sep 16, 06
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I think it's very appropriate that I am the first person to say:
Poor/no sense of style - The first date I had after a bad breakup was with this cute guy I met at the bar. At least I thought he was cute (read: met him at the bar). So anyway, he shows up to our date in a leather jacket, baggy jeans, and timberlands. What the fuck? 1. it's august 2. you're white 3. you're white 4. I'm ME what are you thinking?! Poor manners - This includes chewing with mouth open, not using cutlery correctly, slurping your drink, cutting me off when I'm talking, being rude to server, not letting me order first, eating off my plate w/out asking, etc. Parties too much - Holy shit puke. Parties too much usually equals lack of ambition, which is extremely important to me. I am a work-a-holic and I don't have the time nor patience for those whose lives revolve around alcohol, drugs, and "living for the weekend". Sorry, pal, no dice. Disrespecting my choices and morals - I am a vegetarian, it is a moral decision. Do not make fun of me for being a vegetarian. Do not tease me with your meat dish (it's not funny). Do not suggest that your influence will make me eat meat - I have been a vegetarian for longer than you have had facial hair, it's not going to happen. I also agree with the being bff with any ex (unless they were 16 and dated for like, a month), and I hate it when guys talk about their families like they can't make a decision without running it by mommy dearest first. It's cool that you and your mom are close and all, but grow some balls.
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Sep 16, 06
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I have a few and some were mentioned
- dressing poorly - bad breath - bad hygiene - trying to make jokes to ease the mood when they are not funny and uncalled for - talking about exs or being hung up on your ex - dishonesty - manners, chivalry etc... I think all guys should be able to treat a girl with respect - too much of a party whore - lack of independence from people
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Sep 16, 06
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Another one is respectful and compassionate about the world around you and towards friends and family, I dated a guy who was really bitter about the workings of the world and hearing him moan and complain threw me off the edge...
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Sep 16, 06
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-Emotional baggage
-Calling too much (i like to hear from you, but five phonecalls a day can be a little annoying) -General Highschool emo bullshit that is seems to take so many so long to grow out of -Trying to change me.. in any way.. i was this way when we met, if you dont like it, im sure there is some pussy that you can mould into what you want out there somwhere. -Overplaying the whole "hard to get" thing. At first, its cute, and i like a challenge, but overdoing it gets tedious.
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Sep 16, 06
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1. Shows WAY too much interest too soon - yes i'm a lady but i have a life and telling me things like "your my world" within the early stages are not going to fly. Yes, you may think im your world but even so you remain a continent in mine.
2. Stupidity - saying things like "wow i am going to learn so many new words from you" fool -get a dictionary and while your at it get a new date. 3. When they are NEEDY like "oh you can just hang up whenever you want i got nothing else to do" or "your just so easy to talk to ...let's talk about how i feel about my mom telling me to grown up and get a real job" I'm happy to listen with empathy..but this is all in the first week and i have a liife to live too. There are limits. Yesterday me and wife met a resturant manager who talked about his "big bannana" for at least an hour. Like Avana, that was her deal breaker..she like argued with him over it. Last edited by Tea; Sep 16, 06 at 01:09 PM.
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