how do you get girls to like you?

[ppcock]

this is just a random post, im not looking for anything here

so how do you do it? play the nice guy? or the flipside, listen to everything they have to say?

See with me, unless its something that is really interesting.... i'll have none of it please. I dont care about how you're constantly treated like shit, take a fucking chance and dip your fingers into something new.

I honestly dont see how the players get all the girls, is beating someone up so interesting or sporting your mad bling? Driving your parents station wagon with canadian tire spinners (only $24.95), listening to that stock radio while blasting shitty hip hop mixed with britney spears?


and how bout those girls who think they "got it" and wear the most revealing clothes, they totally dont have it. *cough*cough*sonaronafridaynight*cough*c ough*

I saw this one chick wearing a body suit, a pink fucking body suit. Try to imagine the koolaid dude crossed with an elephant.. she looked like a new koolaid flavour.. Strawberry cream cheese, now with 50% more Shit.


Holy random batman.

I'm blowing bubbles with my spit right now, i feel really good doing it.

im going to now go beat my meat and go to bed. Much love trance heads and dnb'ers.

[-evil-duerr-]

make her a mixtape of power ballads.
give her some flowers you stole from your neibors garden...
or act all handsome and stuff.

[FireWire]

I dunno if the above suggestion is serious or not... but don't expect any acts of kindness to work towards your favor.

What all girls want (before marriage that is...) - is someone who is INTERESTING, ADVENTUROUS, daring, passionate, mysterious, unpredictable (predictability is boring), spontaneous, and honest. They also (secretly) desire a man who will take charge of the relationship and be the strong leader and who also doesn't take any shit from them. And finally, they want a man who has some sort of value - whether it's social value, family value, financial value, etc. - THEY ALL WANT A MAN WHO'S NOT A LOSER.

So in other words, they want a jerk. A jerk usually does all of the above.

Being a nice guy doesn't work (except after marriage cause they will then want a dedicated family man who will not get distracted too easily by other women and situations) and being a nice guy just makes you a wimpy-whipped doormat type of guy. Do you really want to be sitting there listening to all her goddamn whinning? Don't listen to everything they say or tell you to do, and just do what YOU want to do. Just do what feels natural and don't give in to their whinning, bitching, and crying. Have a head on your shoulders and follow the path of least resistance - that means if you find yourself trying too hard to gain her 'approval' - then you're taking a path of great resistance. So do yourself a favor and just walk away from a girl who starts to make your life hard (as opposed to try to stick around and make her like you).

Do the jerk guy stuff and you win.

[wishbone]

blow some spit bubbles for me marty.

gnite.

[Heffy]

Originally Posted by FireWire

I dunno if the above suggestion is serious or not... but don't expect any acts of kindness to work towards your favor.

What all girls want (before marriage that is...) - is someone who is INTERESTING, ADVENTUROUS, daring, passionate, mysterious, unpredictable (predictability is boring), spontaneous, and honest. They also (secretly) desire a man who will take charge of the relationship and be the strong leader and who also doesn't take any shit from them. And finally, they want a man who has some sort of value - whether it's social value, family value, financial value, etc. - THEY ALL WANT A MAN WHO'S NOT A LOSER.

So in other words, they want a jerk. A jerk usually does all of the above.

Being a nice guy doesn't work (except after marriage cause they will then want a dedicated family man who will not get distracted too easily by other women and situations) and being a nice guy just makes you a wimpy-whipped doormat type of guy. Do you really want to be sitting there listening to all her goddamn whinning? Don't listen to everything they say or tell you to do, and just do what YOU want to do. Just do what feels natural and don't give in to their whinning, bitching, and crying. Have a head on your shoulders and follow the path of least resistance - that means if you find yourself trying too hard to gain her 'approval' - then you're taking a path of great resistance. So do yourself a favor and just walk away from a girl who starts to make your life hard (as opposed to try to stick around and make her like you).

Do the jerk guy stuff and you win.

WERD. Girls don't like nice guys, well they do, buy only as friends. Then you get stuck listening to them bitch about their asshole boyfriend (who they never will leave). CONFIDENCE is key. If you don't care what she thinks, and she knows it. It will subconsiously make her want to impress you. Seems to work most of the time anyways. Remember, if you work hard, and put up with shit just to get her in the first place, what kind of relationship are you setting yourself up for anyways? Don't get me wrong, you can still be charming and not be a doormat. Just remember, she should be lucky enough for YOU to be interested in HER. Not the other way around.

Nitey nite you silly bastard :p

[Flip]

I get em drunk and tell em I'm a DJ.

[Prissypants]

Meh, I'm a nice guy and don't have any problems getting with the girls I want...but then again...I don't go for twits.

[*STARFISH*]

Originally Posted by FireWire

What all girls want (before marriage that is...) - is someone who is INTERESTING, ADVENTUROUS, daring, passionate, mysterious, unpredictable (predictability is boring), spontaneous, and honest. They also (secretly) desire a man who will take charge of the relationship and be the strong leader and who also doesn't take any shit from them. And finally, they want a man who has some sort of value - whether it's social value, family value, financial value, etc. - THEY ALL WANT A MAN WHO'S NOT A LOSER.

So in other words, they want a jerk. A jerk usually does all of the above.

how on earth does being:
INTERESTING, adventurous, daring, passionate, mysterious, spotaneous, HONEST, a LEADER, and having value
make someone a jerk?

[wishbone]

Originally Posted by Prissypants

Meh, I'm a nice guy and don't have any problems getting with the girls I want...but then again...I don't go for twits.

pretty much.

notice it's the assholes saying to be the assholes.

[G3N3R4L]

i dont do anything other than what i would normally do.

(i.e. be myself)


if a girl likes who i am .. great .. if not.. no sweat. probably wouldnt work anyways.


people who do things to "try and make girls like them" only last so long until they fall back to being themselves. its just a way of putting up a false front for the sake of someone else.. not worth it in my opinion.

[G3N3R4L]

Originally Posted by Flip

I get em drunk and tell em I'm a DJ.

if all else fails. this works too.

[mojo]

I agree with G3N3R4L. your problem is you are trying to get them to like you. Thats their job, you just be yourself and hopefully they will dig it.

[Skitzo_Style]

Originally Posted by ppcock

this is just a random post, im not looking for anything here

so how do you do it? play the nice guy? or the flipside, listen to everything they have to say?

See with me, unless its something that is really interesting.... i'll have none of it please. I dont care about how you're constantly treated like shit, take a fucking chance and dip your fingers into something new.

I honestly dont see how the players get all the girls, is beating someone up so interesting or sporting your mad bling? Driving your parents station wagon with canadian tire spinners (only $24.95), listening to that stock radio while blasting shitty hip hop mixed with britney spears?


and how bout those girls who think they "got it" and wear the most revealing clothes, they totally dont have it. *cough*cough*sonaronafridaynight*cough*c ough*

I saw this one chick wearing a body suit, a pink fucking body suit. Try to imagine the koolaid dude crossed with an elephant.. she looked like a new koolaid flavour.. Strawberry cream cheese, now with 50% more Shit.


Holy random batman.

I'm blowing bubbles with my spit right now, i feel really good doing it.

im going to now go beat my meat and go to bed. Much love trance heads and dnb'ers.

holy shit marty, is something wrong?

[cutienikki]

show them a nipple!!!

Originally Posted by FireWire

I dunno if the above suggestion is serious or not... but don't expect any acts of kindness to work towards your favor.

What all girls want (before marriage that is...) - is someone who is INTERESTING, ADVENTUROUS, daring, passionate, mysterious, unpredictable (predictability is boring), spontaneous, and honest. They also (secretly) desire a man who will take charge of the relationship and be the strong leader and who also doesn't take any shit from them. And finally, they want a man who has some sort of value - whether it's social value, family value, financial value, etc. - THEY ALL WANT A MAN WHO'S NOT A LOSER.

So in other words, they want a jerk. A jerk usually does all of the above.

Being a nice guy doesn't work (except after marriage cause they will then want a dedicated family man who will not get distracted too easily by other women and situations) and being a nice guy just makes you a wimpy-whipped doormat type of guy. Do you really want to be sitting there listening to all her goddamn whinning? Don't listen to everything they say or tell you to do, and just do what YOU want to do. Just do what feels natural and don't give in to their whinning, bitching, and crying. Have a head on your shoulders and follow the path of least resistance - that means if you find yourself trying too hard to gain her 'approval' - then you're taking a path of great resistance. So do yourself a favor and just walk away from a girl who starts to make your life hard (as opposed to try to stick around and make her like you).

Do the jerk guy stuff and you win.

BITCHY GIRLS ONLY GRIND UP ON JERKS, RIGHT?!?!?!

[dj_soo]

i can actually feel my IQ dropping significantly after reading this thread.

Originally Posted by dj_soo

i can actually feel my IQ dropping significantly after reading this thread.

check karma Terence!

[dj_soo]

^ meh, you know... busy long weekend and all.

ps, it's "terence"

Originally Posted by dj_soo

^ meh, you know... busy long weekend and all.

ps, it's "terence"

what are you talking about? :p

I hear you.

ps - already booked off time for swave next year. can't wait.

[dj_soo]

^ you still got it wrong after the edit :P

I give up. :(

[cubed]

I'm a firm believer in just being yourself.

So far it's worked for me.

[RiCeY]

80% Nice guy
20% Ass

If your to nice it's not a good thing...My sous chef told me this about I was way to nice to people and that being 20% of an ass at times would be good...So far it seems to work with the girl I'm interested in/seeing :)

[Alex]

Depends on the girl. Depends on her confidence/self esteem

[Ashley*Dawn]

Nice guys are a part of ppls imagination. All guys start out as nice guys, then they turn into the jerk.