liar liar

[Ms.Tarantula]

I have a friend who I know for a fact (because they told me) that they are lying to people who trust them. This raises a few concerns. I know the people who are being lied to. Do I tell them? Everytime I'm around them I'm going to feel like a bad friend knowing that they are being lied to and not saying anything. But then, it's not really my situation to get involved in.

I'm beginning to seccond guess the friendship completely, knowing that if they are lying to other people who trust them, that I shouldn't trust them. Its obviously a common charictaristic of said person to bend the truth or avoid it altogether.

I'm torn between being faithful and keeping a friend's nasty little secret, or saying fuck it.. the asshole is a liar and probably lies to me, too.

Advice?

[Webber]

sucks that you got brought into this situation

if its a little white lie leave it alone, otherwise you should let them know or set it up that they find out on their own

[Sue Bitch]

My first question is why did this person tell you they were lying? It has put this person and you in a very vulnerable position. Not really fair for this person to tell you this and have it sit on your shoulders.

Does this person ever plan on telling the truth to your friends?

[Cool-Water]

This is so deep, i think its time for the song :
" Listen to ya hearrrrt "

[Pussy*Kat]

Umm Leah, thats not right, and you know it. You can either lose one friend by letting all your other friends know that they are being lied to or you can lose a bunch of friends cuz you kept that they are being lied to away from them.....

its a moral dillema

[B-rizzo]

if they are lieing to other people, whos to say they arnt lieing to you.

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

You need to evaluate your friendship with this person. If keeping their dirty secrets could cost you other friendships..then its not really a friendship.

Lose the loser. =D

[sarahnmittens]

don't be a tattle tale

[Ms.Tarantula]

so much conflicting opinions. I'm not wanting to go tell the world about this persons choices that I dont agree with. just the person they are lying TO and ultimately going to hurt when/ if they findout.

ugh. fuck.

what a disgusting situation.

[C_squared]

kick it like nike and just do it...

[goes back to drinking his rum & coke]

[Capt.AA]

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

so much conflicting opinions. I'm not wanting to go tell the world about this persons choices that I dont agree with. just the person they are lying TO and ultimately going to hurt when/ if they findout.

ugh. fuck.

what a disgusting situation.

I think it's a bit easier. If that person can lie to others, what makes you different? People who lie are at the top my list for pet peeves so I'm totally up for you booting this retard out.

Good luck.

[crackdragon]

Originally Posted by sarahnmittens

don't be a tattle tale

tattle tales get there mouths washed out with soap

[crookedking]

nobody likes a rat.

especially when they have fuzzy tails.

[Ms.Tarantula]

I kindof feel like just staying the hell out of it.

but.. how would I feel if I foundout my friend knew I was being lied to.. and never said anything

[Vitamin-X]

You could just get a gun and start shooting...
:070:

[Ms.Tarantula]

I like the way you think ^

[B-rizzo]

Leah,

Its time to kick ass and chew bubblegum...

And im all outttta gummmmmmm

[wishbone]

i think a lot of the time the people being lied to are aware that that person is a liar, and to take things they say with grains of salt anyways.

[t-skywalker]

i HATE liars

[Lil Jenna]

Good luck!

Sometimes it can backfire on you...

I would tell said person to man/woman up tell the truth or you will do it for them.

[Ms.Tarantula]

haha I'm having a hard time remembering who this was about. Man I'm glad that situation is long over haha.

[Lil Jenna]

LOL I didnt even see the date on the first post!!

I wonder who this could have been about hmmmm

[Ms.Tarantula]

yeah I have an idea.. but at the same time I'm really not that interested to think about it again.

Seems like I was really stressed out about it haha.