2nd chances

[Rayeine]

as Brian Eno would sign for the feather boa he just ordered ....
ENNNNNN O.

i agree with the often elusive obscure.
.....oneitis
....................i find music helps.
stay away from oberst...he is your ticket to the dark side.
And not the good kind black metal comes from..

[-evil-duerr-]

the bad kind that darth vader comes from right?

fuckin darth vader screwing up lukes life... he just wanted to be loved.

[B-rizzo]

I realize letting her come back would be like saying its acceptable but i donno theres a part of me that is like 'maybe she is sorry for what she did, maybe she did realize that she fucked up'

[stabmyhead]

She didn't respect you enough before to not cheat on you. She will respect you even less if you go back to her. Guys that let girls shit all over them stink of desperation. I think it's a serious cop out for you to say that you'd be the happiest guy in the world if you could find a nice girl, yet you settle on some girl that fucked you over. HAVE SOME STANDARDS. I find it outrageous to believe that in a world full of people you cannot find ONE nice girl.

Didn't you make some post about how "nice guys finish last?" Stop being such a fuckin' pushover and please grow some balls.

[rawb]

ANGRILY FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF HER THEN CHEAT ON HER

[Mista Fitz]

^^^ aawww. . totally beat me to it! (I wasn't going to be quite as eloquent as Rawb, but who is?)

[robyn]

once a cheater always a cheater is such boring, amish bs. people make mistakes and fucked up relationships are the best.

[obscure]

Originally Posted by robyn

once a cheater always a cheater is such boring, amish bs. people make mistakes and fucked up relationships are the best.

that's the spirit!

being committed to a safe, secure and trusting relationship with only one other person is boring. monogamy should have been left in the era of the horsedrawn buggy.

orgies are where it's AT!

what's the harm in making a bit of cash from sex while we're at it?

[Gusto]

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[robyn]

i just don't see what the big deal about forgiving someone for making a mistake is.

[obscure]

Originally Posted by robyn

i just don't see what the big deal about forgiving someone for making a mistake is.

forgiveness is encouraged. stupidity is not.

don't hang on to any hard feelings but give your head a shake before you give the slut another chance.

[mekim]

Originally Posted by robyn

i just don't see what the big deal about forgiving someone for making a mistake is.

making a mistake is starting to get down with someone and realizing that you're fucking over the person you love.

cheating on someone is cheating on them.

[robyn]

like one time i had this friend who got super drunk and cheated on her bf of three years. he forgave her and they went on to have a beautiful puppy together.

[obscure]

Originally Posted by robyn

like one time i had this friend who got super drunk and cheated on her bf of three years. he forgave her and they went on to have a beautiful puppy together.

i don't understand what one example of an insipid eunuch has to do with forgiveness.

[robyn]

(the part where he forgave her and things turned out ok)

[obscure]

Originally Posted by robyn

(the part where he forgave her and things turned out ok)

i feel sorry for your boyfriend.

[decypher]

B-rizzo if you get back with her your going to have to think about the other guys wrinkly balls for the rest of your life...











Do you like wrinkly balls?

[robyn]

Originally Posted by obscure

i feel sorry for your boyfriend.

me too

[robyn]

wait i don't think we're talking about the same thing anymore

[thechix0r]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

Yea i know once a cheater always a cheater, but i sorta believe in the three strikes your out kinda thing, she told me right away that she is remorseful for it, like everytime i talk to her she says shes sorry, and i just ask her not to bring it up. I knwo that trust would already be up in the air again and shes telling me she'll do whatever it takes to gain it back sorta thing, but theres always that fear that you know she will do it again. She's a really wicked girl just jaded by her past and the thing that i guess draws me to her is that i think i can be the one to prove her wrong sorta thing, to like you know Let her finally believe that someone can be genuine and everything and actually mean it.


So im at like a cross road, take diggers advice and kick the hoe in the junk or to you know be the nice guy i am and give her a second chance.


Oh jerry springer WHERE art thou?

All bolded statements sound like you are trying to make excuses for her cheating on you and the fact of the matter is.. it's not right and I don't care how fucked up you are or how jaded you are, you don't do that to other people.

Not to mention that she's telling you she's sorry all the time doesn't relaly fly with me either, it sounds like she's tyring to make it so that you will take her back... tell you the truth she sounds desperate. She doesn't sound like she has enough self respect to shrug if off if you don't want to get back together with her. No girl or guy should ever resort to begging for another person to be in a relationship with them.

Final thought, you're not going to change her, she is only going to change when she wants to, and even if she does, she's going to have to realize that there are people out there that aren't going to "take her back" friend or not because of her jaded past.

[B-rizzo]

After reading everyones posts i feel like i just drank a quick cup of "Your a Fucking Idiot"


thanks! :D

[thechix0r]

^^^ Not an idiot, just a little blinded and it happens... hang in there

[Prissypants]

Someone I like recently really hurt my feelings... Not from cheating though...It's something different...I know I shouldn't give a second chance but I know I would if she asked. :(

[B-rizzo]

unfortunatly theres alot of people out there who hurt others and dont realize it :(

[t-skywalker]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

Whats everyones take on second chances? my ex cheated on me but lately we've been talking alot and shes hinted she wants to get back together and shes sorry for doing it etc, and i donno im sorta thinking maybe? Is it worth it?

i have no idea what u chose to do, but i hope it worked out for you:)