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Feb 22, 07
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Feb 23, 07
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I don't think single has anything to do with it.
I have learned, girls with shitty guys often have low self esteem and need to at least know they are 'better than him' they don't have the confidence to demand more for themselves. If she/he don't break up with the person they COMPLAIN about all the time then i'd pull the "i'm sorry but i am not going to listen to this anymore you know how i feel and if nothing changes i have nothnig new to say on the matter." I know it sounds harsh, but let her know you'll be more than willing to listen when the right guy comes around. I have one too many friends with NO complaints in terms of their guy, and that makes me realize one day the bickering should stop and if it doesn't you're probably with the wrong person. Last edited by Tea; Feb 23, 07 at 12:13 AM.
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Feb 23, 07
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robyns my favorite
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Feb 24, 07
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My best friend just got back with her ex which caused us to fight cuz he is a complete prick. Ohhhh he is gonna change he loves her and they are gonna move in together. She finds a condom in his house. He slept with his ex 3 days after they got back together all the while telling her how much he can't wait to move out with her and that she has nothing to worrry about and she can trust him. So hard not to say I told you so!!! If she gets back together with im agian I refuse to talk to her until they break up again. Grrrrrr I hate how her relationship stresses me out.
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Feb 24, 07
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if I had the choice to be around asses, or be alone... I'd choose to be alone. asses are just stress. Not to mention that they cost more to be around, cuz you gotta drink shitloads of booze to tolerate them.
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Feb 24, 07
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Feb 24, 07
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I've lost a few friends because of my opinions of their significant other. I think the only thing you can do is be supportive.
I know how it feels to just want to vent to a friend about a shitty situation, and I hate when they reply with "oh hes such a jerk...you should just break up with him" Your suppose to listen to her problem. That is why you are her friend. Your not really allowed to have too much of an opinion. (unless they are being abused) You wont mind as much when your seeing someone yourself and need a shoulder to cry on every once in a while
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Feb 26, 07
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as annoyed as i get with hearing about other ppls relationship prob that affected me to not talk about my own relationship prob (not that i have any right now)... hello social problem. so just suck it up open ur ears and hear them out... most of the time if they're asking for advice they already have the answer in mind before asking.
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