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Jul 11, 02
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Indecisions
This seems kinda silly.
I'm at that point in life where I don't want any guys around me. No dating or even idle flirtation going on. I need to focus with what's up with me and follow a path that I wanna take. I have it in my mind to just party and nothing else. :smoke: So simple right? WRONG! Everything is out of whack. I have this really nice guy who has this crush on me. I'm trying to ignore it and maybe he'll grow out of it. He's fun and a great friend to hang out with. :310: I just don't or can't have a relationship at this time. I need to focus. It makes this whole partying situation rather difficult. I also suck at delivering rejection but I still talk to him like a friend. I don't want to encourage him. HELP!!! Advice please. 
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Jul 11, 02
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don't worry ice, everything will be fine. have you talked to him about it? u were saying that ur not really good at rejections but just as a friend let him know what you feel or want? maybe a trip away, like a little vacation to be on ur own to just think of what you want and how to approach things.
hope that i helped just a little! =) hey ur from winnipeg? so am i?! i didnt know there were parties over there!
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Jul 11, 02
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when u're not lookin for someone, a perfect one comes along.. i guess that bullshit thingy is workin for u. hehehehe
seriously concentrate in life if u're determined to~ bahaha its a good reason to "reject" the guy too.
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Jul 14, 02
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Hey ice... In this particular case the only thing you can do is tell him seriously how you feel. IE: you are not looking for a relationship right now and really need to focus on other things. Trust me, if you don't do it now, it may grow into something that will be REALLY difficult for you to reject.
Peace.
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Jul 15, 02
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Kraig,
I dunno what I feel. I know I don't feel that SIZZLE, which is kinda important. BUt I do know that he's super super nice to hang out with. He's funny and makes me feel a different way than I normally do. LOL Basically, he thinks I can do no wrong. :) Ya, let's face it, I'm one confused girl.
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Jul 15, 02
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Focusing on a hedonistic life of just partying and cheap thrills is nothing really worth focusing on, IMO at least. Yes it does sound a lil silly that you would make such a set decision as to what you want to do in your life, that being just partying and having fun. How hard can it be to just focus on partying? Unless that side of you is telling you, "HEY, MAYBE YOU SHOULD BE DOING SOMETHING MORE PRODUCTIVE WITH YOUR WEEK THEN JUST PARTYING!" Sure, it's summer, let's have fun, but why limit yourself? This constraining lifestyle you want is just going to make you kick your own ass later on.
Just take life as it comes. If the guy says anything tell him you aren't looking for anything but you would still like to have him as a friend, and that anything could happen. Don't feel obligated to go out with him just cuz he's a nice guy. There are plenty of potential nice guys in the world, I don't have the time, patience or heart to make note or acknowledge all of them.
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Jul 16, 02
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Listen here people,
What I do productive or not with my life is still my life. If I decide I want to share my "Indecisions" with you guys, then I will. I don't appreciate people passing judgement on my LIFE. Who's to say that I don't have a productive life and such. Partying and guys are generally only ONE aspect of everyone's life. Sorry but if people can't differentiate between that and thinking it encompasses the whole. Ignore this post and get lost. Note: THose of you who are really genuinely helpful, I thank you guys. :) You guys are super nice and sweet!
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Aug 01, 02
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Aug 01, 02
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Marshall, don't be a hypocrite.
I remember when you used to spaz out because people were passing judgement on you because you were a tek. I agree with Ice, no one here should be passing judgement on her life because they don't know the whole story, and she only asked for advice, which is NOT the same as judgement.
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