when your ex finds someone new

[Bitchin]

Originally posted by Guice_39:
Forget about it man, that was the only way I got over this girl who I was sooo in love with (well shes the only one I've ever cared about). But that was like two years ago and me and her talk like once a month now and its very brief. I was way over her after we stoped talking, though I felt bad cause we were best friends and she valued that more than a girlfriend/boyfriend realationship. But you gotta look out for your feelings even if they might be hurting others'. I knew if I kept talking to her, even just as friends, I would still want her so much.

fuck, thats like exactly what I'm going through... I care about my ex soo much but he wanted to be friends instead of a couple.. though there is another girl involved and blah blah... but we'ed prob still be going out if that chick hadnt came by :( but yeha.. I feel horrible that Icant talk to him anymore cause all I think is that I want him back...

Christ its hard!

[Guice_39]

Originally posted by Bitchin:


fuck, thats like exactly what I'm going through... I care about my ex soo much but he wanted to be friends instead of a couple.. though there is another girl involved and blah blah... but we'ed prob still be going out if that chick hadnt came by :( but yeha.. I feel horrible that Icant talk to him anymore cause all I think is that I want him back...

Christ its hard!

Yeah its a real shitty situation but give it time and be patient.

[mushmellow]

=(...even just reading this makes me realize how dumb i am...been hurt by the same guy soooo many times...but i took it....so i think everyone here can be strong together....<3<3<3

[Djag]

I got ditched for another guy, it really sucked! All she did was abuse my kindness, but I still liked here. To damn naive and blind to notice all the other girls that liked me.



Now there is a 3 inch wide holein my wall from my fist. Fortunatly thats all it took to relieve most of the stress.

[Bitchin]

Originally posted by Guice_39:


Yeah its a real shitty situation but give it time and be patient.

heh, been givin it both.... I've been fine.. but that prob cause I havent seen him at all..

GRRRRRrrrrrr

[Guice_39]

Originally posted by Bitchin:


heh, been givin it both.... I've been fine.. but that prob cause I havent seen him at all..

GRRRRRrrrrrr

Yeah well maybe thats a good thing then. But when you do see him act like your not even interested just cause hes talking to that other girl, or play hard to get, come on you girls know what I'm talking about, you all do it most of the time. Make him realize how much your really worth and how fucked up he'll be with out you. But if he really just doesn't care anymore then I don't know what to say, I know how much it can hurt a girl if guys just don't give a fuck or even if they act like they don't and vice versa. I had to do it once, at first I guesse I was acting like I didn't care because I really liked this chick but as time went by with not talking to her anymore my feelings died. Don't get me wrong I didn't do it just to hurt her, it was for the best of things and for my feelings too.

[natasha]

if ur ex finds someone ...that just means "it's over between you and him/her"! go on with your life and don't be sluttin around with him back...then if you do..thats just means you still want him back...right? well, u cant do that ! especially when ur with someone already...disgusting!

[justa~gurl]

Originally posted by LoveKat:
why is it when you really don't want anything to do with him anymore and you realize that he is such a different person than the guy you once fell for.... knowing that he has found someone new hurts SO fucking much???

awww.. that is one of the worst feelings

i hate it.. you feeel so jealous and hurt and angry and sad... practically everything at once
you feel totally helpless cause there isn't really anything you can do about it....except move on.. slowly

:(

aw poor nathaniel

[LoveKat]

Originally posted by justa~gurl:



awww.. that is one of the worst feelings

i hate it.. you feeel so jealous and hurt and angry and sad... practically everything at once
you feel totally helpless cause there isn't really anything you can do about it....except move on.. slowly

:(

aw poor nathaniel

it's ok cuz i'm a lot better now :kimmie:

*bighuggles*

will you be @ apex this weekend?
or pride on sunday???

[justa~gurl]

noooo!

i was planning on going to both!

but i had no ride to apex
and i slept through the parade AGAIN
(did that last year too)
grr