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Jul 15, 02
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when your ex finds someone new
why is it when you really don't want anything to do with him anymore and you realize that he is such a different person than the guy you once fell for.... knowing that he has found someone new hurts SO fucking much???
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Jul 15, 02
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i dont know..
its hard to get over.. you start to see the good qualites.. and miss out on the bad ones when your ex is with someone new.. its a jealousy forbidden fruit sorta thing.. and seeing them so happy makes you wonder if you made them that happy.. /me hugs nathaniel :) you'll find better so dont even think about him!! if you start to think about it too much.. youll hurt.. for no reason... move on and let go..
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Jul 15, 02
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The feeling of rejection when someone finds comfort in the company of someone else still hurts, especially if you've been with that person for a long time...
Like Christine said, you see them together so happy and you miss the happy times you had with them. When someone has found someone new it's automatically a sign they're "over" you, although they may not be, it sure looks like it... I suppose it could also hurt because it seems like he's completely over you whereas you might still have feelings, or they have been brought to your attention since your recent situation... I suppose it's also a whole "replacement" thing, where you feel like you've been replaced by someone new, and you wonder if they're "better" than you were, if your ex likes him more than you, etc. Personally, most the time I'm VERY glad when my exs find someone new, cuz that means they leave me alone.
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Jul 15, 02
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actually stabby you made a good point :)
at least i don't have to worry about him icqing me and telling me how lonely he is and how much he misses me that was just pushing me to the point of insanity :( especially when i told him that i missed him too and then he would reject me all over again time heals wounds and i know that i am a fighter :) i'll be fine tomorrow :)
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Jul 15, 02
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Hey Nathaniel,
I think you should go take some kick boxing lessons. ;] It's some kinda break up ritual, you sing "I will survive" and put on some boxing gloves in your room and go nuts. heh.. Seriously, people are comforted by the idea of being wanted by their exs, that's why he might tell you he misses you to see if you feel the same way, just so he has the knowledge that someone wants them.. it's just human nature to want to be accepted and loved. "I WILL SURVIVEEEEEEEEE" <-- sing it. Oh and "Raindrops keep falling on my head", and if you want, "Tesko Suicide" (Sneaker Pimps)
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Jul 15, 02
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w00t kickboxing sounds like it would be fun fun fun!!! especially to "i will survive"
i agree with you about the needing someone to miss you. i was smart and deleted him from my icq list 2 weeks ago. that was around the time he hooked up with the boy so i haven't heard from him since then. i just want a slurpee!!
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Jul 16, 02
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ugh, I know how you feel Nathaniel... ugh...
its sucks... and yeha it hurts a lot.. but my situations a bit diffrent.. cause yeha.. you should know/read ugh... but we can get through this hun, were strong!!! We'll go fly a kite one alright?
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Jul 17, 02
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Quote:
up to the highest height lets go fly a kite and send it soaring up through the atmosphere up where the air is clear lets go fly a kite and send it soaring john 2899131
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Jul 17, 02
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Thanx nathaniel!!-huggles to ya too babe-
Mike, I'm sorry.. it pissed me off... and the candle was lonely burning in that fire all alone.. what did you expect me to do? John, your not fat but cute!awww... hes singing!
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Jul 18, 02
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I totally know what you are talking about.
You can convince yourself that you have no feelings for them or even that they totally repulse you...but seeing them move on still hurts like a bitch. You've been totally replaced in some ways and you know that you've lost whatever you had that was good with them to begin with.
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Jul 22, 02
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boyz confuse me
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Jul 22, 02
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they wanna be together then they break up w/ u then they wanna be together again....and they treat u like crap and say they dont love you anymore because u supposedly hurt them so there scared to love...when they actually hurt u first....and they are just toooo confusing...ahhh...my brains gunna explode....
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Jul 22, 02
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it has now been a week
and he is constantly icqing me and calling me wanting to be my friend and not understanding why i don't want him around it's amazing how much he is trying to hold on when he realizes that i am now prepared to leave
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Jul 23, 02
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Stay strong babe!!!!I know you can move on:)
Though... I beleive I do know the other half and am friends with him... He can move on to. Obviously you've come to a point that you need some one else, it will hurt at first.. trust me ugh... but you can do it! heck we can do it together hun!!its been just over a week... a christ... I'm a mess.. but I'll get by it and if I can theres no doubt in my mind you cant!!! -HuG-
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Jul 23, 02
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Forget about it man, that was the only way I got over this girl who I was sooo in love with (well shes the only one I've ever cared about). But that was like two years ago and me and her talk like once a month now and its very brief. I was way over her after we stoped talking, though I felt bad cause we were best friends and she valued that more than a girlfriend/boyfriend realationship. But you gotta look out for your feelings even if they might be hurting others'. I knew if I kept talking to her, even just as friends, I would still want her so much.
Last edited by Guice_39; Jul 24, 02 at 03:19 AM.
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