Perfect relationships

[Pegasus]

they're not always what they seem.

[Sh4n3]

oh i hear ya dude....... i HEAR YA!

[M!SKA]

/me gives mike huge plurry hugs

[Pegasus]

:(

*choke*

[walkin]

there is no such thing as perfection....you know what Mike? maybe u should try 'playing for the other team' *wink*wink*nudge*nudge*

[Sh4n3]

haha that guys hittin on ya mike
rofl

[Pegasus]

ok dont get me wrong here, but i even thought of that. :(

thats pretty sad

/me is fried

[stabmyhead]

Spend too much time looking for perfection, spend too much time trying to find flaws, you'll most likely find the latter a whole lot easiar.

Like Walkin said, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PERFECTION. Realize that all humans are tainted and dirty and none will never be any bit closer to perfection than the next.

[Starberry]

Yah man, I find that the most "perfect" couples are the most troubled ones -SOMETIMES-

Either that, or when they're perfect, they're perfect---when they're not, they're NOT......well, that's how mine is, anyways. But love conquers all....right?! riiiight.......=)

*Jen*

[Glendita*]

hey without the flaws you won't be able to notice the good times


hahaha that was sooo chessey ... ehh some work some don't smoke a blunt you will feel better

[stabmyhead]

All you'll ever need: http://realdoll.com

Fuck women! They're all venom pumping blood sucking harpies if you ask me. Which you didn't, but I'm gonna reply again anyways.


AHH!

[GiggleyGal]

Perfect relationships...I don't think there is such a thing. Relationships R always changing, sometimes 4 the good and sometimes 4 the bad. They're oh soo confusing!! :(

[Pegasus]

Originally posted by stabmyhead:
Spend too much time looking for perfection, spend too much time trying to find flaws, you'll most likely find the latter a whole lot easiar.

Like Walkin said, THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS PERFECTION. Realize that all humans are tainted and dirty and none will never be any bit closer to perfection than the next.

point taken and agreed.

but! i believe that every single person has a perfect match.
out there.
somewhere.
most people haven't found their perfect match yet, and some never will

you just need to look hard enough.

[~lazee_grrl~]

or maybe u just don't need to look at all mike?...

sometimes things just come to u when ur not looking for them~

[Pegasus]

so true.

but i always need something to do

[stabmyhead]

Anyone can be MOLDED into your view of perfection. Sometimes people get desperate enough to find their "soul mate" that they mold the person they are currently seeing into something they are not. Whether they do this by living in denial of their mate is inadequate and convince themself, and others that their mate is perfect, or pound in the image to their mate going through great measures to make sure their mate does things the way they want them to, people are obsessed with perfection.

Then again, how can your mate be perfect if you are not? Sure, it's nice to think that the other person is just perfect for you, but personally, I do not believe in perfection or absolutes.

There's also a difference in what you want in a mate and what you need from a mate, where someone might make you happy, but they really aren't what you need. So this perfection will also be tainted by these flaws, but like it's been said, it's the flaws that make the person real, unique, and in the end will either bring you closer to them, or push you away.

[Pegasus]

i know what you mean. some good points
:)

[Guice_39]

There never what they seem, you always see the outside of shit and never the inside....well unless you are part of it.

[deja]

Well, that just burst my bubble!

[walkin]

not perfection....but acceptance, everyone has some faults, you just have to realize that they have flaws and figure out whether or not that particular flaw(s) is worth 'tolerating' or if ya can't deal with it, then move on :)

and i was kidding about turning to guys...guys are just ten million times worse than girls.... (from the ones that i have met anyhooz)
cuz *most* girls know what they want, and go for it, guys like to play mind games....and that just sucks.

[Sh4n3]

lol i got called an idiot... and givin bad karma for joking around... sad sad
/me shakes his head

[SNowWhITe]

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Perfect relationships

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Figment of Imagination........


Everything is "perfect" while the sex is good, what happends next??

the good old.. I'm confused, Idunno what i want,... blah blah blah
when really the truth is.... idunno what friend of yours to fuck next..

on a serious level..

is anything perfect? for something can only be perfect if u work for it

[galaxie]

I think that my relationship is about as close to perfect as a relationship can be.

I mean, of course we have our ups and downs - but at the end of the day I wouldn't ever want to lie down beside anyone else.

I think it all really depends on how much you have in common and how much you truly care for one another. If one (or both) parties isn't willing to calm down and discuss problems honestly, then you have no chance for the relationship to work. It all comes down to how you deal with conflict between the two of you.

Good luck though Mike, it sucks when you see everything as being okay and the other party doesn't. I've been there, too - - I think we all have. But in the end it's an important experience to have because it leads to personal growth and will most likely affect your future relationships in a positive way.

[Pegasus]

^thats very true. im kinda glad tho... cuz at least now i know she wasn't the one.

:\

[justa~gurl]

Originally posted by PegasuS:
point taken and agreed.

but! i believe that every single person has a perfect match.
out there.
somewhere.
most people haven't found their perfect match yet, and some never will

you just need to look hard enough.

i was just gonna say that....