trying to be accepted

[galaxie]

^--- the drugs are with you, Marty...they're your friend!

heh.

Anyways, on a serious not, you have to be careful who you call your friends. There's a fine line between friend and acquaintence, and a lot of people aren't exactly sure where that line is drawn. As you go through life and experience many different types of relationships, you'll learn just where to draw the line.

If someone you consider a friend does something un-friendly, the best thing to do is to discuss it with them in a non-confrontational manner. That way, it's easier to avoid saying things that you don't mean, and it's MUCH easier to avoid getting angry.

My advice : talk to the friend (or friends) that have hurt you, and get to the bottom of the problem. You may have a bad friend on your hands, or you may have a total misunderstanding. If you confront the problem, at least you'll know for sure whether or not they're your friend.

Good luck!

[(val)Liam]

Originally posted by SoniK:
who needs friends when you have drugs?

who's with me!?!?

fuck drugs... its all about 24/7 headphones... I love the ability to drone out people with goa...

[Chi Chi]

Fuck you Haydn, you know I luv you!!!!!! Now letZ go play in some traffficccc@!

[Guice_39]

^^^Hey Chi Chi where do you work?

[PokemonMasta]

Originally posted by Chi Chi:
Fuck you Haydn, you know I luv you!!!!!! Now letZ go play in some traffficccc@!

lets run with scissors while were at it! :)

[Liqwid]

^^^^^^^^.......can i play too?

[walkin]

you shouldn't "try" to be accepted, either you are or you aren't.

if you aren't accepted by a certain person or group of people, then they aren't your type of friend!

[MistressSpankME]

buahahahaha
sorry But I had to laugh at Sammy's last comment

ANYWAYS, sometimes making adjustments is in order, but you shouldnt have to bend over backwards for a true friend to "like
you. A true friend wouldnt make you do that, nor is it worth trying because you probably shouldnt be the persons friend in the first place (and vice versa) if you have to change yourself so much hun.

[MistressSpankME]

Oh and Narc, You're a fucking genius. Just leave the "scene" haydn, all your problems will be solved. WHY didn't we think of this earlier? because we all know all the shitty people are crammed into one "scene" right? No one else in any other scene sucks shit, am I right?

/me grumbles at the fucktard

[miss.myra]

Originally posted by MistressSpankME:
Oh and Narc, You're a fucking genius. Just leave the "scene" haydn, all your problems will be solved. WHY didn't we think of this earlier? because we all know all the shitty people are crammed into one "scene" right? No one else in any other scene sucks shit, am I right?

/me grumbles at the fucktard

is it always necessary to be such a spazz?


I think in Tom's experience, it was what worked for him, and it has worked for others as well. While it might not work for some, or even yourself, is it your place to call people names?

[Breezy]

Originally posted by wALkiN:
you shouldn't "try" to be accepted, either you are or you aren't.

if you aren't accepted by a certain person or group of people, then they aren't your type of friend!

I agree..... the sad reality of life~ a lotta ppl out there are jus snotty lil fucktards not worth your time.... and it's not all about the "scene" although there are a lotta ppl who pose as your friend in the scene, in time they'll all sift out though and only those that truely DO care bout u will be left... no worries haydn