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Aug 19, 02
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trying to be accepted
sometimes i just bend over backwards for some people. i know i shouldnt have to but all i want is some real people to call my friends...
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Aug 19, 02
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awwwww haydn...
you have my sympathy. you'll ALWAAAAAAAAAYS be my best friend. sidenote: bending backwards?? weird...i thought you liked to bend FORWARD.
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Aug 20, 02
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I know how ya feel. I used 2 "bend over backwards" as u call it all the time 4 others. Then I realized, it just wasn't worth it and, people should accept u 4 who u r. U shouldn't have 2 worry or be something you're not just 2 impress them. Be yourself, and people who like u 4 your true self, u call your real friends.
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Aug 20, 02
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i moved here from asia 6 years ago and i'll admit it was hard to adapt to Canadians in the first year. but the thing is i had to make friends for my own good and sometimes you're going to have to change certain things about yourself just so you can fit in. Deep down in your heart and soul, you're the same person and no one can take that from you. but the thing is, people have different things that appeal to them and different things that dont appeal to them at all. its all about learning how to respect everyone for who they are, and in return they will give you that respect back. once this mutual understanding takes place, a good long potential friendship is hopeful.
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Aug 21, 02
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i know what u mean...
for me...it's just hard finding friends who treat YOU like their friend i always go all out for my friends..but sometimes..i don't get it back~ it's quite depressing i think those ppl who have one or 2 GOOD friends..and i mean good...are really lucky...i would rather have that then to have a bunch of ppl "i hang with"..who aren't true frnds at all..~
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Aug 21, 02
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100% agreed
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Aug 21, 02
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Re: trying to be accepted
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like me.....
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Aug 22, 02
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ya dalyn!
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Aug 22, 02
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ya haydn just ignore those who arent your true friends..
cuz your true friends will always be there if you need to talk :Power-P:
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Aug 22, 02
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awww, haydn your a good guy~ people are shit, and the smellyones can go to fukkin hell!!!!
I agree with myra tho...... friendships grow over time and people don't jus accept ppl right away... friends are the ones that are there for ya no matter what ya do, cheer up, in time you'll learn whos really your friend and whoz not worth the effort.. truuuust me.
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