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May 30, 01
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Have you had a relationship with someone that you just cannot forget?
Just curious to know if anyone else has found and parted with someone that they just can't forget.
Or still think of every so often. Sometimes I wish that the MDMA would hit that specific portion of my memory and set me free. :( Last edited by MC Hammered; May 30, 01 at 02:58 PM. 
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May 30, 01
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i have two.
two guys that i still try to keep regular contact with - even from the other side of the country. it's hard but it's worth it. no one knows me better than them and they give exactly the right advice all the time because of it. when you're in a relationship with someone for any period of time they get to see a side of you that no one else does. of course thats important and hard to forget. they are 2 of my best friends and i'll never let them go. even though the relationships are over - that doesn't mean the friendships have to be..right? mind you it took us years YEARS to get to where we are now.
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May 30, 01
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A True little story...
August 15th 1997
I know I was young, too young at fact! but I don't believe you are too young to fall in love, but too young to realize what love really is. The summer with him was great, sunny days or rain we spent them together, and metro became like a second home to me that summer, since I lived in surrey and him in the east side of vancouver. Nothing went wrong, I simply had no complaints and neither did he, and then school started. I had grown so attached to him that I cried my eyes out thinking, this is it! before I entered a skytrain with him that day. He held me and told me that we weren't going to break up when school started. and we didn't, well not untill a month or so into school. We broke up 2 days before Halloween that October, and I had to tell my friends in tears, tell you the truth, my friends didn't believe me, which made me cry harder. They thought it was a joke, before halloween and all, but when I stared into their eyes and said I was serious, the embraced me and embraced me with hugs ever since. I had not ever in my life till then receved so much hugs, and I got better within the next 2 months. But I don't think I really fully recovered from him, until this year really. I saw him on my birthday . September 29th of 2000. It was the first time in 3 years I've seen him, since we broke up. And the 2 nights before that I went to his school to visit my god brother, we talked until the early morning, reminising of the old days, and how good they were. I knew that there was so little chance of us getting back together, and we BOTH knew when we saw eachother for the first time in 3 years, that we would only go so far as good friends. Later on since we saw eachother, we gave eachother relationship advice, ironically how we went out before, but we know it's time for us to put the past behind us. He has a girlfriend and I, I have a boyfriend, which I know I will make happier memories with.
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May 30, 01
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i tend to try and forget....
i tend to try and forget i ever went out with them and try to take the new relationship like its my first... and not interperate what they do as any referance to the past... i dunno. i find it better this way... i find it hard to remember relationships before the one i'm having... but this time its different.. the relationship i'm having... i never want to forget.. even if i have alstimers (sp?!) sappy mood... stab me.
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May 31, 01
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Obviously I won't be able to forget it yet, cause it was one that I was just in. But I honestly feel that it's something that I will never forget, and will hold dear in my heart forever. We got along so well, and I felt so comfortable around him. I felt like I could tell him anything...even my deepest, darkest secrets that I've never opened up to anybody before. We shared so much, and we helped each other heal in ways that we weren't able to before. Even though it's come to an end, I've been so blessed to be able to remain best friends with him. It's definitely a friendship that's going to last for life.
Erica :AZN:
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May 31, 01
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yeah.....someone i wish was still there....we sorta split in two different paths and havent really talked to each other since.....just certain things i miss, but then i realize how fuked up our relationship was in the end so i forget about it...
-adam
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Jun 03, 01
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oogabooga
friendships count as a relationship too right??
well this person. i haven't talked to him in a while now.. but i really valued our friendship... but only now do I realize how much it meant to me... sure, i'm only 16.. sum may say 'oh ur too young to know wut true friendship is" yah fuck you i think like an old rotting lady sumtimes so leave me alone :( i think I've ranted about this subject so much with stabby that I'm not so sure wut else new to say on here... My brain says: shuttup yoko get over it BITCH and these song lyrics are on constant replay in my mind: "have a feelin, now believin that you were the one I was meant to be with so would you give me, another chance to love, to love you, love you the right way again got till it's gone got till it'sgone don't it always seem to go? that u don't no wutchoo got till it's gone" -janet jackson *bye*
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Jun 03, 01
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lyrics....
"Sometimes it Hurts
Six o'clock in the morning My head is ready to explode I can't believe I made it home alive I don't remember where I went Or what I was drinking And now it's made me sick And I'm not denying That I get this way When I try to get over you I get this way When I try to get over you Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love I tried so hard to hate you But it only makes it all worse I only end up hating myself And as my hatred grows So do the lies It's hard to face the truth sometimes God I feel so useless God I hate myself When I try to get over you I hate myself Will I ever get over you Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love And after all this time you'd think I'd understand the way you feel But no I only think about myself And it's driving you away I always knew it would one day Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love Sometimes it hurts So much to lose the one you love" wut can I say. I'm a lyric lover.
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Jun 04, 01
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i hate long distance....
so anyways i met this guy, and we hit it off pretty good, but he lived a ferry trip away and it was really hard. I liked him a hell of a lot and he told me the same. We went a a bunch of parties together and he came and visited me and i went over there...but then the stupid ass one day just started to act all wierd on the phone an dstuff...and he starts saying shit like "yeah i'm going to dinner with a hottie tonight" and "ya i think i like her so...blah blah..." I was so choked, we still talk sometimes and he's comes to vancouver and i party with him sometimes.... but it just isn't the same...like when i think of him i'm just like uggh i miss him, i just wish he wasen't with anyone else! it sucks, the distance sucked too..i don't like him anymore, but i bet if i saw him i would be like...ugghhhh WHY!!!!
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Jun 07, 01
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for sure!!
i've so had that happen to me.....some of you know what i'm talking about or who i'm talking about.
one was just last year that was like my first relationship but it's cool now and we're just friends but just a few months ago where theres someone else. someone that i will not forget no matter how hard i try to forget him he'll still be with me.....i sound so sappy so i'm gonna stop but yeah some relationships are just stuck with you till who knows when?!
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Jun 12, 01
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I think everyone has one of those...
Honestly, I don't think I'll ever be able to forget my first love. I mean when you spend -so- much time with that person, and you know them like the back of your hand, it's hard to forget.
You give them everything in you, your heart, head, emotions...mine will be in my mind and heart until forever. That doesn't mean that I want him back, it doesn't mean I'm sad what happened happened, it means that he made an impact on my life, and it's one that I can't erase =0) Sure, it may be painful to think of at times, but in the long run, it's good because it's a learning experience.
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Jun 14, 01
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yea unfortuantly ive been in dat situtaion, but doesnt every one usually end up there one day? yes it can hurt but once it has happen u remember the good times u had w/ that person and what u have learnt from them and how to handle things when it comes around again, if it ever does.
to me im happy it happened, it did hurt but i was fortuante to have friends that helped me through it and just the thought of the things that had happen between us... things happen fer reasons and when u figure out y they did, it help u prepare for the future!*smilez* luv jovi 89112991
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Jun 18, 01
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YES!~ I have one, I donno if I'll ever b able to forget him since everything reminds me of him! But it's not often that I'm like this, normally when I start liking someone else I'll forget completely about the others and move on. I think it's just because he moved away and in the back of my mind I wonder if he'll move back and we'll be together [not likely]...
*~when one door closes, another one opens. But we often look so regretfully upon the closed door that we don't see the one that has opened for us~* *muah* ~breezy
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