Wanting someone that's already taken

[Aimee-Yu]

Don't you hate when you find a guy that you
want and he's already spoken for?

Sometimes I wish I had a big machine that could clone men.
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[MC Hammered]

Define 'taken'.

I don't believe anyone is taken until they have that ring aound their finger, and even then it's possible to woo them away! (but would you really want them then?)

If I wanted someone bad enough, I'd find a way to get them.

[wundergirl]

so i like this guy, and i see him pretty much every single day.
and i'm thinkin SWEET.
and then i find out he's dating this chick - sho i also see pretty much every single day.


the wheels start turning when i see that they be havin problems, but then....
the chick starts confiding in me and shit....like fuck

now if i were to make a move i would be a bad person...cuz now i'd be backstabbing in a way.
DAMMIT
i think she knew i liked him and did this on purpose.
fook!

[powerpuffys*]

I totally disagree with you
Why? Because once a guy is taken.. He should be dedicated to his girlfriend.. No other girl

If you find out that the girl/guy you like has a bf/gf.. Move on..There's always more fish in the sea..

Trust me..

Stealing away ppls bf/gf is not good..It's not right



Toodles~


Aimmey Yu- That's too bad for you =O) I hope you find your special someone soon..

[omega_image]

hmmm i'm partial to both sides.......

cuz if there was a gurl that i wanted, that was taken i dont know if i would wait, do what i could to get her, or just move on......never been in the situation b4.....
-adam

[MC Hammered]

I didn't say I would steal someone from someone else. That's wronf, but if that person is thinking about it, why can't I try?

What I stated was if I wanted someone bad enough, I would find a way to get them into my life.

That being said, once I do find that person, I am 100% faithful and loyal to them.

I live the way of the sign of the Dog I am born under. I will be loyal to you until the end, but don't break that bond or I'll take your head off.

*bark!*

Winston

[c.tard]

if someone was taken..i would try to move on..cuz what's the point??

i mean the way i see it..if there with someone..and they'll leave someone like that to be with you..who says they won't do it to you?? nad leave you for someone else??

[MC Hammered]

Cheryl and Winnie,

I know what you are trying to say and I understand.

That is why in my original post I stated 'but would you really want them then?'

In a way I'm being a hypocrite. I'm being loyal to the one I am with, but when I am single I believe anyone is fair game.

You are right, there is nothing stating that what I say would happen to me and I understand that. That is why there is something called faith and loyalty.

But I guess your question is this: If someone begs/borrows/steals someone from another, is that person faithful or loyal at all? To you?

That's a pretty vicious circle if you really think about it.

[Cowboy]

haha...me and beatITfarmer stole girls from these guys...hhaaha...both of the guys are older...he's already had a couple of confrontations with the other guy..who is MUCH bigger by the way...but a bitch...and ive been receiving threats...even though the girl i stole went back to her bf after a bit...hehe...shit happens eh...but i doin'[t think id go about the same way again...id wait a lil longer and wouldn't have moved so fast,,,it was obvious she wasn't totally over him..despite the way she acted and spoke to me..

don't steal ladies and gents...what goes around comes around...

corrie

[c.tard]

Winston ~ i get what your saying...

my post was just my opinion..not anything really to yours. that's just how i feel about the subject.. i mean if i get into it'll get kinda complicated..so i won't..but ya..

i understand what you were saying and ya..

this whole hting is like a bad question..well not so much a bad question but like the answers are complicated...i mean it's like it has so many things that depend on other things adn stuff..it's so complicated..2 meeh anyways..

[Erica]

This happened to me recently, but I was lucky in not letting myself get attatched. I don't think it's right to go after a guy/girl if they already have a partner. It's a different case though if they show interest in you, and they initiate something. In that case, talk to the person about how they feel, what they want to do, and take it from there. If they want to be with you, then don't start anything until they break up with their partner (advice from a painful past experience). If they want to stay with their bf/gf, but they're still showing interest in you in 'that way', then make it clear that you're not up for that, and that you're not avaliable to them.

Wahhh...it's a messy business. Much simpler to just find somebody that's single.

Erica :AZN:

[Somatic]

Yeah, stealing isn't cool, but once in a while you meet someone that you can't resist. You never know if this person will turn out to be something special......... but how else will you know???

Do what you gotta do. But think about it first.

Is it really worth it???

-Dwight:Somatic:

[Serotonin]

i wouldn't want someone macking on my girlfriend and trying to backstab me so i don't think i'd do it to someone else, it's all about respect and i think if you expect it then you should dish it out first.
Oh ya by the way there are tons of fish in the sea it just seems that in some certain areas they're all contaminated, but it's all good just move to a better ocean:017:

[yoko*]

the answer is, there is no one true answer. :D

but my answer in my world is that......

i have no answer. I can't say I am a certain way cuz I'm not. I can't say that I would do a certain thing in a certain situation cuz I'm not in that situation right now so I really don't know how I would act. But most of the time frum how I've acted in the past, if sum one is taken that's already quite a turn off for me..

no one said that it's wrong to cheat cuz there never were rules in the first place anyway..

gee you people are so confusing!
this reply required too much thought! stoppit! *boink*

[Bitchin]

well if u decide to steal them away be careful cuz the other gurl can be a real bitch about it and want to kick the crap out u...
just seriously becareful cuz u never know whats in store if u steal em' and u may not know who u could be hurting and perhap lose a friend over it...

luv jovi
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[yoko*]

i couldn't say either or......

i have this feeeling that i Have a deep dark bitch within me that would step on any one to get what I wanted.....
i'm pretty sure she's there...

haven't found her yet but I think she *does* exist..

yoko are you there?

>:)
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[c.tard]

i can be a total bitch sometimes..but if someone stole my bf away from meeh..i wouldn't do anything..cuz if you think bout it..

one...it means i obviously don't mean that much/enuff to him...
and two...he doesn't wnt to be with meeh..so whatever makes him happy y'know?? iw ouldn't wanna be with someone that doesn't wanna be with meeh..so y'know

i'dj ust let him go (tho it'd be hard)

[stabmyhead]

man i know i would be damn pissed off if i was in any of those positions.

girl stealing bf: id feel like a whore.
gf of bf: i would wanna slit her throat to show the lil tramp that she was no more higher than me and that she was human just like me and she has no higher rights.
bf: everythings fine and dandy with gf then tramp comes offering to get with me. fuck things over. or does tramp and feels like a whore. then gf finds out. dumps him. he finds out he has herpes. kills tramp and buries her and ends up in jail. :)

going after ppl with gfs or bfs is very VERY grade 9 highschool life.. i dunno i kinda lose respect for ppl that are so selfish as to their own pleasures.. even if they are friends..

i dunno this kinda shit has happened to me before.. and im usually a big bitch about it and overprotective possessive over the guy and if i get the chance.. id probably bash her knee caps inside out and tie her to a tree with the sign "IM A DIRTY SLUT. FUCK ME" and smear lipstick all over her lips so it would stain whoevers dick shes suckin. LALLAA. experience: twinkie girls making on bf at bus stop as i was there. he ignoring them. i say loud enough: "are those FAT twinkies bothering you?" kinda blunt... and smerky.. whats mine will not and cannot be yours. haha.. i like to keep what is mine.. MINE. stabby doesnt know how to share.. and if she did. she'd be doing it as a reason to win your trust and break your arms. :)

oh but if he went for it. i'd just be like fuck it. and dump his ass and hope he gets herpes or something.
PLUR!

[starsprite]

Yah that is the worst!!! Especially if the GF is really really nice because its so hard 4 u to hate her! hehe and what is also bad is if u fall for a guy and you find out that he is gay...:024: ack that really sucks!

[BeatItFarmer]

It's the worst when u want someone that ur friend is with and then that person likes u....(don't worry omega this isn't about "D"...it's about someone else in our group) it's so annoying especially when u start to want them...

[*addy*]

Ya... I did the whole "wanting someone who's taken bit." It's no good. But then I actually "got" them... and unfortunatly, it didn't work out! So i felt extra bad... cause you know?? Broke up a perfectly good relationship... damn homewrecker!
sometimes it ain't worth it... never doin that again...

[stabmyhead]

you know chances are if he did go for you and dumps his gf (or keeps seeing her secretly..) he'll do the same to you.. girls are such sucker for the whole "ohhh.. i made him forget about his lover when i came around..awww.. im so speciall.. (JUST LIKE EVERY OTHER GIRL HE'S DONE THIS TO)" :003: