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Nov 19, 02
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My friends a ho
Okay so the first girl I met out here...Corie.. who was my best friend...dissappeared 2 months ago. Apparently some black guys got ahold of her and shes in montreal workin
 I am so scared for her I keep dreaming about her. I am so sad.And I hate it cuz there is absolutely nothing I can do to help her. Im so worried about her. Her mom&dad r too fucked up on drugs to care.I hate this. Im sick to my stomache with anger and sadness...I fear that shes dead. I havent heard from her since September. Ive talked to her friends and my friends who were friends with her too and they have heard nothing. She said she was only going to be gone for 2 weeks and that was over a month ago. Shes 19 so shes an adult and obviously consenting cuz shes naieve.I hate this. I hate them I wanna find those fucking guys and kill them. so ya thanx 4 listenin and dont any of u fuckin assholes such as twiggy and bob or any of u other cunts post on here negative bullshit ok this is serious shit so if u dont have anything nice to say dont say it at all please thanx:014: :266: 
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Nov 19, 02
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Sorry to hear that. I really am *hugs* its never easy to deal with the hard thigns. If you ever need a *hug* call me or PM me or something. I can relate to what your saying but i know its never enough to just relate cuz it hits people differently. I just pray and think good thoughts.
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Nov 19, 02
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awww thats seriously so sad, that must really suck...i have no idea what id do if one of my friends got wrapped up in that stuff...thats awful, just keepyour chin up and hope for the best, maybe she'll call and tell u how shes doing...:)
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Nov 19, 02
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thanx guys. Ya it really sux cuz a couple of my other gfs when they were messed on drugs started ho`in and i was able to help them... and it just sux cuz now i cant help.
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Nov 19, 02
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it's not going to do you any good by fearing the worst for your friend. sure, it's fine to feel bad that you can't help her... but sitting there brainstorming the worst possible situation she's in isn't gonna benefit either of you.
let's recap. you called your friend a naive ho. called her parents druggies. and then you call me and sammy fucking assholes. great post. but next time, if you wanna post something suitable for this section, try to lay off the fingerpointing. it's okay to cry and bitch a little... but if you're gonna start saying fuck this and fuck that, take it to the gripe section. i don't want things to get out of hand here again (like the ricey post). oh and there's no such thing as "can't" ... instead of beating yourself up over not being able to help your friend, maybe you could try and figure out something that you can do. all you gotta do is try. even the smallest bits of effort might help. if it's really as serious as you think it is, contact the RCMP, put out a missing persons notice, do something. don't think that the cops aren't going to do anything, cuz that won't get you anywhere. if you care about your friend enough, she should be worth the effort.
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Nov 19, 02
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let's recap. you called your friend a naive ho. called her parents druggies. and then you call me and sammy fucking assholes.
she got lukemia when she was 14 and spent yrs in and out of the hospital tryin to get better. She was in an abusive relationship during her illness she just got out of the relationship a yr ago. She knows next to nothing of recruiters and thier tactics because she was stuck in the hospital sick or stuck at home getting beaten. Yes her parents are drug addicts her father is an abusive blow feind and her mother is a meth head who likes to sit there and do drugs with her 16 yr old daughter and her 15 yr old friends. I know this because ive witnessed it first hand. I had to beat er father with her crutches(she had hip replacement surgery due to lukemia)because her father didnt get his fix and starting getting violent. When we went up to Squamish this summer wher her mom lives... her mom was all jacxked up on meth busting rails with cories lil 16 yr old sister and her lil 15 yr old friends. so ya. she has a hasrh low self esteem because of everything she went through and I tried to help her but she just couldnt let go of everything her ex boy friend said and did to her. Thus makin her easy prey for those fucking goof bastard pimps. And ya filing a missing persons report is a good idea... I think Ill call her auntie (who was her guardian) 2morrow and see if she has done anything of the sort. I just found out all this shit about Montreal earlier 2night when one of my ex friends messaged me with all this info so ya. anywayz i dunno what else 2 say :finger:
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Nov 19, 02
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bob the worst is almost inevitable... its the sex trade for christ sakes
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Nov 19, 02
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There is always something you can do. If her parent's aren't capable to help her, then her only chance is her friends. Maybe you are the few "true" friends. If you were a "true" friend you would be able to do something. Call the police in MTL and see if they have any information on her. They might not be able to arrest her, but atleast you could contact her.
Start from there. Once contact has been made, you can make an attempt to sway her opnion. Hopefully that'll work. Good Luck!
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Nov 19, 02
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im just afraid that if the police do get involved the guys who have her wont be impressed and will harm her
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Nov 19, 02
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i had a friend who i think may turn out that way. i tried to warn her, she knows shes over the top but unwilling to change. it put a block between us ... harsh. *shrugs* she thinks its a game of ambition to go to the doctor every second week to see if she picked up an std ...
-la.darling.
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Nov 19, 02
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That's horrible. I don't even know what to say, or what you COULD do.
The only thing I can think of is trying to get ahold of her and smacking some sense into her, OR her parents. I don't even know if that would do any good, i'm sure the guys that got her working in the first place wouldn't just let her prance off one day. If that doesn't work then there's nothing much you can do, and even though I know you're going to worry about your friend it was HER choice and you shouldn't let it ruin YOUR life.
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Nov 19, 02
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A lot of the girls I knew when I was a kid became hookers. It's a shitty thing to witness.
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Nov 19, 02
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One more thing.. This isn;t an attack on you or anything, but it might be a little more compassionate if you didn't call her a "ho".
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Nov 20, 02
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well thats what she is/ should i be politically correct and call her a prostitute?
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Nov 20, 02
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so guess who calls me this afternoon?apparently she was in montreal stripping... i find that hard 2 beleive because of the fact that...she just had surgery on her one hip and she needs surgery on her other which still bothers her...she cant walk for a great distance cuz it hurts her 2 much. Im so like fuckin fucked up i feel a million emotions right now. Shes taking off to Jamaica for a "vacation" Im really worried and i dont know what 2 say to her I just cry.
Ive been crying all fuckin day I hate this. I dunno what 2 do
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