having your parents upset with you...

[*STARFISH*]

grr.. i usually get along great with my parents..
until recently.. i think ive really let them down..
theyre extremely disappointed in me..
and i feel horrible about it..
i decided today that i was going to drop my classes because of medical issues, which my parents understand.. but definately arent too pleased about..
and within the past week my parents found out that i smoke.. and i got a giant lecture about lying to them about it.. which i feel horrible about because i dont lie to my parents about anything...
oh and when i got my industrial on thursday, my mom didnt speak a word to me for two days.. :soak:
i know i need to "tighten up my game" (*LOL*)
especially because my dads out of town and i want to make things easier for my mom.. but i really cant stand the tension thats going on right now..
argh.. anyway.. thanks for letting me ramble.. just needed to bitch and whine :)

[Gold Streaks]

At least you're not like most kids who criticize their parents for careing.

[~lazee_grrl~]

i really hate it when my parents are disappointed it me...cuz i know it's my own fault..just give it some time christine..the tension should lighten up..~

[Candy-Kid]

I know what you mean. You gotta live up to the standards that is set for you by your parents. I get that alot myslef. Just try you honest best not to hate yourself for wht happens and just be pleased with what you do. If you put 100% in the stuff that matters then no one can honestly ask more from you..

dunno if i help ever

*plur

[M!SKA]

glah I hate when parents pull the 'dissapointed' thing. It's the worst.
Lying about smoking I can understand. Well lying about anything is a good enough reason for them to react that way.
But the earing thing... You're almost 20. If they don't like you having a piece of metal through your ear, thats their problem. Tell them to take a look around, and be thankfull that its JUST your ear :hehe:
It all comes down to the fact that they care about you and want you to go somewhere with your life.
You have to show them that you're not just a school-dropout, ear pierced, trance dj that smokes :)

yah she won't hate u forever about smoking...she won't ever like it..but she won't disowne u...i hate parents who do that.

[*STARFISH*]

Originally posted by M!SKA:
You have to show them that you're not just a school-dropout, ear pierced, trance dj that smokes :)

OMG... what am i then?!?!?!
:014:

[Aki]

ahhhh
my parents are mad at me right now too.
i hate being in fights with them because it usually lasts a few days to a week of us not even talking to eachother about the stupidest things.
i hate it when it's actually them being unreasonable about something and them getting mad at me for something that they brought on themselves.

[M!SKA]

Originally posted by *STARFISH*
OMG... what am i then?!?!?!
:014:

You need to figure that out for yourself. What do you want to do with your life? What are your goals? If you don't have any, maybe thats what they're dissapointed about.. like I said, they want to see you succeed.