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Nov 19, 02
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BlackMailed!
I am being blackmailed by my brother. I dont wanna hear awwwyou should be friends. We arent. I am just here to tell everyone whats going to be happening with me and stuff. I am feed up taking this crap from him. I am either going to not party any more or just be thrown in jail. I have done alot of stuff i am not proud of and he knows alot that can still get me put away not to mention in rehab from my parents. I have done drugs and been to parties and he wants cash and other things from me. Now its comming to the point where i can give it to him anymore. He wants me to waste my time and other resourses because he doesnt want me to party anymore or go out. He doesnt have alot of friends and i think he is doing this beacuse he is mad at the world and me.
Jelous and other things for having a life and friends that he doesnt he wants to get his revenge. I plan to tell my parents everything that i have done and see the results. *plur any advise. 
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Nov 20, 02
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Kill your brother, bury his body in your neighbour's back yard. Act as if nothing happened.
Repeat if neccessary.
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Nov 20, 02
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i am serious. I dont know what to do. I wouldnt say death is the answer because its never the 1st choice but only the last in my mind.
I think i'll just tell them knowning what might happen to me... i might not see alot of you guys again *plur
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Nov 20, 02
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You just got back from the army did you not? Is that not a good thing? I don't know the situation but it sounds like a no win one. Maybe confess to your parents about all this shit your not proud of? At least your bro wont have this power over you anymore.
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Nov 20, 02
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yeah once you come clean with everything. (or once he spills the beans on you) discuss it with them, be HONEst. once you do, the things he will say, wont matter, because you know the truth.
and once you have no secrets, there will be nothing to blackmail you about anymore.
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Nov 20, 02
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kidnapp ur brother and take him partyin with u! win win situation
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Nov 20, 02
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he sounds like one of those snotty little kids that thinks his nintendo is more important than the real world...
so... take his toys hostage, and turn the tables on him... tell him if he wants his stuff back unharmed, then he better back the fuck up off you. if you guys can't resolve your differences, you might as well stoop to his level while fighting him. if that doesn't work, take stabby's or sean's advice.
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Nov 20, 02
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Isn't he your twin brother?? I'm going to go all psychological and use my non-degree (my 100% un-certified, un-real degree) and assume that he wants your parents to look at you as the bad child so he can be admired all himself. What he's doing is sneaky and wrong. Come clean to your parents and he'll have no holds over you. Once you come clean you'll feel better. What's the worst that could happen? It will probably sound better coming from you.
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Nov 20, 02
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Yes hes my twin. LOL i have alctually broght him to Apex: Twisted 2002: Slinky 2002. The wrost thing that could happen. Major trouble. Bu thanks for your advise guys. I really thak you for it. Its going to help me with my decision that i will be making soon.
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Nov 20, 02
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neal, play my game..let him tell ure parents wutever u did and start making shit up and tattle on him as well. my sister tries to blackmail me all the time..but i know her weak spots as well (the way her ex's dumped her is her weakness...tehehehe). if he tells ure parents uve popped e...tell ure mom he's done acid..LOL it works. damn siblings!!!!
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Nov 20, 02
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Acid won't be a good example as it doesn't have shock factor like crack or cocaine.
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Nov 20, 02
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hey winston i dont wanna kill my parents now!.. acid and e is already bad enuff...if i told them my rebellious sister does crack and cocaine... they'd have a stroke and kill themselves. im revenging against my sister...not my luvable parents. :hehe:
THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN!
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Nov 20, 02
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Awwwww Neal...
Everyone is telling you that you should confess to ur parents... and I agree just do it slowly. Its not as easy as everyone thinks it is. Everyones parents are different.. LOL well if it helps u .. u can tell my mom.. she wont care... she's been through it with me and she'll help you.. :) As for ur bro.. shove a sock in his mouth and tie him up. Place him in the closet for a couple days and ur parents will think that he never came home. Lol then when ur ready let him out and he'll get in shyt.
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Nov 20, 02
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dude!
why is your brother being such a bitch?!?! that's fucking bullshit!!! dude, bring him to brandy's place so me,pat and jay can beat him with socks filled with bars of soap! after we're done, just tell him "you're gonna tell mom and dad that u got jacked! if you say a word of this to mom or dad, or anything about me partying or doing drugs, these guys will fuck you up again!" he'll never peep a word of it again, GARENTEED!!!
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Nov 20, 02
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lol I dont think he would ever wanna touch u or even see u after getting a beating at Brandie's place!! lol * ouchie those soaps would leave a couple bruises but he deserves it *
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Nov 20, 02
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Since he is your twin why not show your parents pictures of you when you are messed up on E and say that is a picture of him that you took at a party?
Isn't that the best part of being twins?
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Nov 20, 02
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Leaves no marks this way. Please get it right! 
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Nov 20, 02
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neal...fight him.
i fought my sister yesterday cuz she fuckin pinched me.. i have a huge bruise on my arm but she has a lot more bumps and bruises on her today. oh the sisterly love. neal..if this is about ure parents not knowin u party... let them know its for the best of both worlds.
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Nov 20, 02
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Hey neal, I'd tell you'r parents you party and tell them some of the stuff you do but maybe not all...
You might also want to let them know some of your bro's secrets well your at it but at least clear it up so he can't black mail you!!! Don't you have anything you can use against him??? And just so everyone knows(not that they really care but) Brandi's name is spelt B-R-A-N-D-I no e and no y!!! hope it all works out for the best!!! Let us know!! luv ya, sidewayz luv!!!
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Nov 20, 02
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but seriously, neal we'll all do it and you'll never have to worry about your brother saying anything ever again! i promise!!! :keebler:
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Nov 20, 02
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or you could just tell him you'll tell mom and dad that you caught him in this room with a blindfold on and one of his very few friends jerking him off?
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Nov 20, 02
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HAHAHAHAHA Now that would be a funny sight
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Nov 21, 02
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Well, I think the (serious) advice that was given was prob. the best...regardless of his motivation (cash, attention from parents, taking U to his 'freindless' level) in the end he has the power right now. U can't change his motivation, and I doubt U can really reason with someone who resorts to blackmail, and blackmailing him back with either truths or lies just screws both of U over.
Bottom line is you need to take away his power, and the best way to do that is to tell your folks. I remember when we chatted U said that one of your parents is less 'strict' than the other...I would tell that one (I think it was your dad) first...he may be able to communicate your wrongs in a more sympathetic way to your mom. You can prob. also get away with watering down the truth just a little, as in lowering the number of parties or the amount of drugs you consume. There is one other point to make here, and granted, every parent is different, but...try and make sure that U have all your shit together. U seemed like U did, but I don't know in detail. Then you can also say that yes, you party, yes, you experiment with drugs, but that U're also smart and responsable and have you shit together. Really, illegal drugs can often be just like legal ones (i.e. booze)...in the sense that they have the potential for abuse which can seep into other areas of life, or can be used with a degree of common sense and control. Last but not least...no matter what U choose to do...best of luck...U're a cool person to hang/party with so it would be a shame to 'lose' U...!
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