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Nov 18, 02
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maybe i am really a bitch
well friday night I went to the giants game and met up with my bestfriend. later on we ran into this guy from school that my best friend use to like. I ended up leaving the game with him and his friend along with my friend who came with me cause Lindsay (best friend) already had a date that night and had to go home with her dad
the night was crazy with being pulled over and seacher by the cops but we finally ended up back in delta in a hotel room just for some place to chill. by now i had picked up my best friend so now there were 5 of us in the room. no one eles was smoking pot so josh and i hot boxed the bathroom. we ended up making out but i felt so bad about it i told lindsay right away. the next night we hung out with him and his friends for a bit but nothing big. yesturday josh (the guy) calls me up and askeds to hang out with him. I said ok i just had to rake the backyard for a bit. 5min later lindsay calles and i tell her i cant go out i have to rake tha back yard. after all the raking is done i get dropped off at josh's friends house. we smoked some pot and then went for a drive to get more pot. I decided not to invite my friend cause everytime she smokes pot her ribs hurt in the morning plus there was no room in the car cause we were picking up people. now she calls me on my cell while we are driving around and todally jumps to conclusions and i end up hurting her real bad. i get home my parents know about it and i cant talk to lindsay cause she has gone to work. now i just feel like shit i talked to her a bit today but she is still really pissed off and i dont know what to do cause i cant loose her and i like josh and josh likes me but doesnt like linndsay grrrrr. is there anyway i can have lindsay and josh or can i just have lindsay? 
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Nov 18, 02
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did she say you weren't allowed to go after him.. did either of you call the boy or have any sort of discusion about this? cause if you did.. then.. Iwould think your in the wrong.. but if you didnt then.. he's up for grabs.
Plus its not like you planned this evil plot agaisnt her or anything.. it was random and quite innocent from wut it seems.. talk to hewr.. and if shes not gonna listen.. then give her time to cool down a bit , then try talking to her again.. and tell her to listen if anything.. like hear you out.. likeI'm sure she may have done something liek this to you before.. maybe not the exact same thing.. but you know wut I mean.. only time will tell. And no your not a bitch for doing that.. it wasnt intetional.
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Nov 18, 02
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well she never told me hands off but i knew she liked him but she also likes so many other guys to and well i thought she was hooking up with this other guy anyways. so ya i knew she liked him and i liked him to but never said anything and he likes me and on likes her as a friend
I bet this seams confusing
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Nov 18, 02
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the best thing is to talk to her about it. ask her if she wants this guy josh. if she doesnt then like bitchin said, hes up for grabs. if she says yes then back off and let her through. there will be boys that come and go but there won't be a best friend that will come and go as easy.
let her know how you feel about him and she must understand if shes your friend. its best if you talk to her......
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Nov 19, 02
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are they dating? have they dated? will she get over it? no, no, yes ... rite?
if he hasnt been touched ... he -should- be yours and she will get over it. best friends are meant to understand, she should be happy provided he treats you accordingly. remind her of this and talk it out with her. communications your key =0)
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Nov 19, 02
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This sounds really confusing! Hmmm...trying 2 thinkof what 2 say......:047:
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Nov 20, 02
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Well if she wants to act like nothing happen, then just tell her your going after him.. cause that should get her attention.. and if she has a problem with it.. tell her that she has to speak up and be honest with you cause your willing to do that with her.
But if she is acting like nothing happen.. maybe the boy never really ment that much to her?(just a thought)
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Nov 20, 02
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hey its sue's "best friend" here Lindsay. I'm not acting as if everything is o.k. Way to make the story look one sided and make me look like the stupid one. Obviously josh was hands off just like he has been since gr.11. you know i still like him we've gone over this for the past couple of days. So much for not talking to him cuz I know you were hanging out with him last night again after you said you wouldn't. You're right you don't have a conscience and your not all there. friends don't do this to eachother and since when have i acted like nothing was wrong. This isn't the first time you have treated me like shit and don't make it seem like its all about a guy its about you betraying your best friend. You ditched me for him COME ON!!! you have known him for a total of 5 days. Get the hint he's using you for your pot and because you are probably the horniest and easiest person we all know. your stupid for thinking that I wouldn't find out. Now who on this website thinks susan was in the wrong. I'd hope all of you would agree with me. Only if you knew the whole story BOTH SIDES. So susan :finger: :pissed:
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Nov 20, 02
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obviously you've never had a best friend. You also don't know the whole story and you don't know what it feels like. you really don't know much. ur a guy so you don't get it. so shut up. LINDSAY
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Nov 20, 02
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i have way more friends than she'll ever have. The "friends" that she does have are all mad at her so there must be something wrong. think about it
Lindsay
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Nov 20, 02
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I guess Cheryl's gonna be in the middle of all this...that sucks.
Girl friendships are so frustrating eh? I think you both need to talk to each other face to face. And don't bring up what was typed on here. When it all comes down to it, maybe Sue's relationship with this Josh guy may turn into something amazing...he could just be the one. Lindsay, I know that it is incredibly painful to see your best friend hook up with the guy you like, and it will hurt for a very long time, but sometimes you need to stop and think that maybe by keeping them from each other, you might be ruining something great for her in the future. So I've learnt from past experiences... Err....just my two cents...sorry...that is all. *Jen* p.s. I'm not saying that what Sue did was/is right or defending her. Don't get me wrong. I just see that she obviously feels guilty...otherwise she wouldn't be posting about it.
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Nov 21, 02
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Nov 21, 02
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Sue, I'm full of sucK, insight..haha.. I think you mean such.. and thanx.. I think.. haha..
Lindsay, your BOTH in the wrong.. seriously.. your not making yourself looking anybetter by saying the shit you did in that first post by you. If anything that makes you look weak. and don't give me the 'oh you've never had a best friend before' bullshit.. Cause I have.. you don't even wanna know wut I did to my best friend but we worked things out.. and were friends.. and all it is.. is a bloody boy.. they come a dime a dozed for gawd sakes.. Your post seriously makes you look like your looking for pitty.. well sorry.. your not getting it from me. And I dont believe cheryl should give it to you to. I dont knwo wut makes you think your better then sue.. butyour NOT. And if the both of you have problems with this boy situation you should really talk it out instead of talkin shots at each other. Cause if you dont.. its just gonnaget worse.. and some one will seriously get hurt.. and thats all I have to say about that subject.. (well not really.. ) Things like this.. make me seriously embarassed to be girl.. you have no idea!!!!
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Nov 21, 02
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^^^ ya i am a bad speller but you still understood what i said. and yes l still talk to josh because everytime i call you or page you you never return me pages and you never pick up or whatever. I have no clue what your feelings are right now cause you have just been talking to everyone but me about this ( you even told foley) It would be nice to resolve things. and I hope you are having fun turning all of "our" friends against me. I guess they really arent my friends. And NO Josh does not use me for pot and I am not a slut like you have tried to describe b4 cause if I was you would think I would have already fucked him or some shit. when you decide to talk to me about this instead of everyone else give me a call :soak:
Last edited by Sue Bitch; Nov 21, 02 at 01:37 PM.
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Nov 21, 02
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Nov 21, 02
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I c I c. I dunno I just think this whole situation sucks 4 them. :(
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Nov 21, 02
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man it sure sounds like lindsay hates u... its gettin heaty on this post!!
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