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Oct 29, 02
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jealousy?
it's natural for a person to be a little jealous of their ex boyfriend or girlfriend right? if they have a new mate then good for them, you should be happy for the both of them right?.......but how come i'm not? i dont like him anymore in bf way, i still care for him as a friend.....i was the one who broke things up because i knew it wouldn't work but then i still have this pain of jealousy inside me when i hear him talking about a girl he's seeing or dating. what is wrong with me? i didn't even go out with him for very long either and i feel this way?
oh man.....whats going on? 
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Oct 29, 02
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Seriously I know how you feel...errrrrr
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Oct 29, 02
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i totally understand where youre coming from..
i broke up with my bf quite awhile ago... it was mutual and we parted on good terms. we're still awesome friends, but when he told me about some girl he was seeing it still sorta hurt, which is weird, because i was over him.. and i had been seeing other people too... i think you just need to push it out of your head and move on... but its hard to let go when you love someone...
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Oct 29, 02
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we both ended it fine....we still care for one another.....i'm not trying to be mean, but i just wanted to be the first one to find someone after our break up.
and i wasnt really in love with him just yet after such a short dating time so i'm not jealous becuase i still love him. more of i wanting to be the first one.
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Oct 29, 02
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dont worry, youll find someone better then he did.. and thats what really matters :)
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Oct 29, 02
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It's totally normal....I remember I absolutely HATED my ex for a while, but when I heard he had moved to Kelowna with his new gf, I was sooooo hurt.....and, like you, I was the one who broke it off in the first place.
It's true that you don't know what you've got til it's gone...and it's also true that you always want what you can't have.... *Jen*
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Oct 29, 02
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its not fun but itll pass.... jsut remember u are better than the new girl will ever be... lol no go get some ice cream and chow down... lol i dunno but ice cream always makes me feel better... or drinking.... lol
no but seriously i know where you are coming from and it is weird that u feel jealous... even if u ended things... its jsut becuase you are so used to them caring about you that when their are eyes are on someone else it kills you... starberry is right it is always more desirable when u cant have it... dont worry jsut try not to think about it .... these things take time
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Oct 30, 02
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thanks you guys, i'm slowly trying to block it out and forget about it and finding other things to think about....like you guys said, it will take time i guess but i want it to go away now! =(
i turned to chocolate since it's the halloween season right now, theres so much of it everywhere!
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Nov 07, 02
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Hey punk
It's your X, y post all this on here?? Can't you talk about this in private with someone u trust?! Y post it all over the internet?? For those ppl that replied to her.... sorry guys..... i'm just upset over this matter..... it's got nothing to do with you guys.... so don't take this into any offense Can't you deal with this within your friends?? Someone brought this to my attention and i thought i should check this out...... So you wanting a bf ahead of me?? Y so you can make me jealous??!! Dude whatever?! I liked you and hung on to it for about a month!!! And you always told me to get over it and move on... and you said it in some pretty nasty ways too...... It's all Karma....... you got what was coming to you........ have a nice life!!! PEACE PS. In reply to what <yourlilbaby> said, "jsut remember u are better than the new girl will ever be", i'm sorry but she's wrong...... VERY VERY VERY VERY WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Nov 08, 02
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^^^LMFAO!!! BUSTED!!!!
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Nov 08, 02
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OUCH !!!!!!!!!!!!!! ....
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Nov 08, 02
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sorry i even posted this
i was just upset and you didn't say ne thing back when i tried to tell you how i felt. i'll email you and tell you to your face rather than over the boards
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Nov 08, 02
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WOOO DRAMA! I smell some make up sex for the two!
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Nov 08, 02
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So........ what now?? Where do we stand??
Oh and by the way <stabmyhead>, there's some drama here but trust me there won't be a "make up sex" here.......... NON-Existent.......... Peace
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Nov 08, 02
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wouldn't it just be dope if the girls were real outgoing and most of the time they made the first approach. I'm probably one of the most shyest on this board and it would be the shit if girls just always made the first approach rather than expecting me to do so. But you gotta do what you gotta do, you should go up to her, chances are she won't come up to you.......just go up to her, smile, ask how things are and introduce yourself.
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Nov 08, 02
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^^^ lol! wrong thread broda!
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Nov 10, 02
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KILL.
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Nov 12, 02
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mick?
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Nov 12, 02
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whoa adam, just a little slow arent we? haha kidding =P
of course mick...who else would i have been talking about?......you?
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Nov 12, 02
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whoa....ouch
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Nov 12, 02
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don't take it personnally ok?
i didn't mean any of that......=P
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Nov 12, 02
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She didn't name names, and this section is for advice and venting, hence being called "Heart to Heart". If you don't care for her any longer then why is it a problem for her to vent? I think you're just bitter about the situation. I mean, why else would you have "hung on to it for about a month" if she wasn't a good person? It just doesn't add up.
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Nov 12, 02
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thanks galaxie......thats what i was thinking too when i read his post.....but its all settled now so everythings back to normal
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