=(...the sadness

[mushmellow]

my grandfather passed away this morning...im so sad...i stayed up all night in the hospital and listened to him breath...everyone else left or fell asleep somewhere....my grandmother is sooo upset and it hurts me so much to see her like that...this is too hard...me and my brother were both very close to him since we were tiny....we basically lived w/ them....and now its all over...i wont have any more memories w/ him now.....my grandmother on my moms side passed away about the same time last year just about a month later....i dunno...this is to depressing

[GoGo_Gurl]

u just have to remeber all the good times, its like the saying "dont be sad because its over, be happy because it happened"

Dont think if death as a sad time, think of it as a release, if he was in the hospital, i'm asuming he wasnt very healty at the time, and u have to ask youself would it have been better for him to live longer? was he happy, was he is pain? and just because he is not with you in body, doesnt mean he isnt always with you, in ur heart mind body and soul! He is probaly alot happier now, no more hospitals!!!!

Just remember all the good times.... thats what i do!

[Ragga_Wh0re]

death is not the end its only the beginning he will be with u in spirit until the day u die:)
keep ur head up

[starsprite]

My grandpa died a few years ago and he was closest to me than any other person in my family and it is really hard to let go. My sympathies are with you. :(

[Bitchin]

Hun,I went through the EXACT same thing whenI was 13 I believe.. it was terrible.. I cried for 2 weeks straight with my grandma..

I know its hard, but theres nothing you can do but accept wut has happen..

I'm seriously not sure what to say.. being as we handle death in diffrent matters!!! gar..

/me hugz you

but if ya wanna chat msg me, alright babe?

weeeee

[yourlilbaby]

aww hun i am so sorry... i really dont know what else to say to mkae u feel better.... i know how u feel.... just try to smile and if u wanna chat pm me

[mushmellow]

Originally posted by GoGo_Gurl:
if he was in the hospital, i'm asuming he wasnt very healty at the time, and u have to ask youself would it have been better for him to live longer?

he was actually fairly healthy....he was walking through chinatown and hejust collapsed....he had a brain anerism (sp?) and he had bleeding in the middle of his brain....my parents are trying to get me to go to school and work but i just cant do it...im goin to go to work tonight...maybe keep my mind off stuff...but i dont know how easy it'll be...but thanx for the support everyone....it means alot to me