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Nov 28, 02
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lenny..that was really touching and cute. awww.. *tears up*
there are lotsa golddiggers out there lately..just cuz the whole cliche deal makes it sound like a guy MUST pay for everything and girls just expect it. its stupidddddddddd. i dont need a guy payin for my food, my entertainment and crap... i just need a guy to keep me company. all gold diggers need a job. its the lil things the guy do that will keep the smile on my face.. bums should be able to have girlfriends~ =) 
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Nov 28, 02
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people tend to go for people with the same attractiveness level as them. However, there will be times when someone will want to be with someone who is much more attractive than them. but because they cannot compare to their good looks, they must offer something in compensation.... that's where MONEY comes into play. which is generally why these so-called "hot chicks" you speak of appear so materialistic and vain.
ever notice why rich, old men tend to go for young, hot chicks? anyways, it doesn't always have to money though that's compensated.. it could be intelligence.. great personality.. whatever... so for those who have no money, don't fret! there's still hope :) --Joanne :P Last edited by Joanne; Nov 29, 02 at 12:09 AM.
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Nov 29, 02
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*yes dear, i'll take care of you... so... i'm going to be in your will, right!?!*
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Nov 29, 02
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go out w/ jLO, cuz her "LOVE DON'T cost a THING"
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Nov 29, 02
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you know
we're indirectly paying for pussy you may as well go out and get a hooker
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Nov 29, 02
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dude i hear ya its so true its so true
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Nov 29, 02
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I beat my bf up everytime he tries to pay for me.
You're just letting yourself be stepped on. if some girl asks you to buy her things, tell her, "BITCH, GET A JOB AND I'LL BUY IT. OR LEARN TO SUCK BETTER!" Or something... uh.
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Nov 29, 02
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PUSSY POWER!!!!!
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Nov 29, 02
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yeah shit i agree... lol if your girl is costing you a fortune.. either u are spending too much monmeny of your own free will or shes demanding it... either way you're pussy whipped! lol
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Nov 29, 02
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this whole post is very very very very true, this is one of the reasons why I am single... don't get me wrong I love spending money to make someone feel happy and myself at that matter, but i think 50/50 is the best way to go on it. gurls that like the 50/50 are hard to find but, they are out there! I know this cause i see them all the time with other guys though.. haha
well maybe one day i'll find one! Peace Cinto
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Nov 29, 02
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im not really a fan of when people buy me stuff because i always feel cheap or like i owe them something. its just me but id rather pay for them sometimes too.
it just works better that way. and if a guy ever bought me clothes id be scared.
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Nov 29, 02
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Girlfriends and boyfriends both cost freakin money! But in the end it doesn't really matter as long as if you love them and you want to spend money on them.
But then again everything cost money! Money makes the world go around!
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Nov 29, 02
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I haven't read the whole thread so I don't know if this statement will still be revelant but even independant woman seem to be gold diggers. I don't care because I make good money, and I would not go out with a woman who does not work or go to school.
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Nov 29, 02
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i agree with caitlin!
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Nov 29, 02
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Girlfriends cost money.
Guess the women's liberation movement brushed that one under the bloody carpet in self interest, eh? HEY we want jobs HEY we want rights hey we still want you to buy us drinks and presents and stuff though haha
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Nov 30, 02
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Yeah i have to agree that a girlfriend does coast alot but it is the same way for us girls when it comes to our boyfriends. Whenever i'm at work there is always somthing i want to buy my boyfriend. And whenever we go out it is really hard for me to pay because he usually hides my wallet from me and he pays ... eh there is the odd time when he just admitt that he's broke and then he let's me pay or i hide his wallet first... ooohh boys. But most of the time i'm lucky to have a relationship that goes both ways.
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Nov 30, 02
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Nov 30, 02
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That's total crap!
In a few of my previous relationships I basically supported my bf! I paid for dinner, I paid for gas, I paid for outings, etc, because he was a fucking broke ass!!! IMO, it should be split down the middle. I buy my bf nice little things once in awhile, and he does the same for me. On Tuesdays he pays for movies and I pay for treats...and when we go out for dinner we generally either spilt it down the middle, or I pay one time he pays the next. Retro1 : not true. I donno where you meet your girls but not all attractive girls are like that!
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Nov 30, 02
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Caitlin, i feel the same way too. I've gotten in arguements with people that want to pay for shit of mine because i feel bad for taking their money. Especially when they refuse to pay me back grrr.
And sir k, i'm quite offended by what you said actually. Do you actually believe that selfish, shallow, SLUTTy girls expecting to have a man take care of them for the rest of their life have any respect for themselves as a woman? Trust me, if we were back in the 70's those girls would NOT be burning their bras. Nat, you are right. As I said before I know alot of attractive girls who are either independant, successful, awesome people, or all of the above. You guys are just fucking lazy. Stop taking home the first chick that drops to her knees at the sight of your car or pay cheque. Do a little research and find a nice, good looking girl who can take care of themselves, and also wants to take care of you as much as a significant other is supposed to. It's called 50/50 as someone mentioned before. And there are good looking girls out there that know what that means. There's alot right here on this board actually. And for the hundred millionth time, stop thinking with you wee willy winky and hold it out for a girl thaqt might not have her tits popping out of her shirt, but will give as much as she takes in a relationship.
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Nov 30, 02
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not to worry. I actually beleive that bf & gf should have equal share in the finances, cleaning, childraising and other household duties. If one party wants to schluff off, say on the cleaning or cooking, then they should buck up to pay for a housekeeper or something so they're doing their share. My comments were more tongue in cheek at the goldigger ho bitches out there than at the actual progress made by the womens liberation movement.
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