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Nov 28, 02
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Gf = $$$$$
ok whenever someone ask's me if I'm looking and I tell 'em "No I can't afford a gf" the guy's know what's up but the girl's are alway's like "Gf's don't cost money, you don't need money to have a GF"
The truth is... Girlfriends cost money, not all but most... why?? because they expect you to go out with them all the time.. MONEY they expect you to pay for dinner, movies, etc.. MONEY do random sweet things like flowers, chocolates, etc.. MONEY buy them clothes sometimes... MONEY Drive them places, pick'em up.. MONEY I'm not saying all girl's are like this, but most of the considerably HOT girl's are very vein and materialistic and this is typically the type of girl I attract.. /me loves independant women.. but where the fuck are all of you? 
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Nov 28, 02
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buddy..u have it all wrong!
I am as independent as they come...and u make it sound BAD to spend money on a girl. Well maybe yah if your the only one doing it...but it takes TWO to tango. If u find that your wasting money b/c you're the only one who is putting in effort, then say something. Dont bitch about it and say Girls cost nothing but money. My last relationship, it was the other way around. I WAS the one who spent it on him, b/c I love to spend money on ppl I love. And i never got anything in return really...and yes..i wanted flowers and what not...it makes a person feel good. But the girl has to give something in return. It just feels nice.
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Nov 28, 02
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What the shit!?! What kinda girls do you hang out with? And a lot of that sounds like some boys I know. If a boy EVER drove to my house and picked me up I think I die of shock. Well, except for Christopher. But I'm always driving stupid boys around. And I can't even count how many times I've had to pay for shit. I don’t care if I have to pay for me but when I have to pay for the both of us, well what the hell’s that? And you've met girls who want you to buy them cloths? Well that's just creepy.
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Nov 28, 02
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^^^ Werd No offence but why would you buy a girl her clothes?
If she doesnt like you for being you and just your cash then there seems to be something wrong. I mean paying for a girl is fine as long as she likes you for you and not your cash. Thats what i think But then agian i havent had too many Gf's but the ones i have had have lasted. sooo i dunno balances out. Gotta give a little and take a little me thinks *plur
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Nov 28, 02
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hahahahaha
in most cases, the better looking the girl is the more expensive she is. i mean it doesnt matter how good looking you are, these girls need money to stay pretty doing their nail jobs, facials, make up, fashion designer clothes, nice car and so on. but if you're lucky, you can find a girl who is fully supported by daddy AND is absolutly madly in love with you, even if you dont really have much bling... then damn whadda you know, shes gonna be the one paying for everything! hahaha its funny but its true... but you also have to look in different places.... if you're accustomed to go for girls who dress really well and know how to look good in classy shit, then i guess you have to look elsewhere if money is an issue. =) theres so many gold diggers out there and theyre all pretty damn hot. all down to earth girls know that money doesnt buy love and in the end, you dont have to sweat about spending alotta money.....
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Nov 28, 02
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Werd to da L and da J with the F.
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Nov 28, 02
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i find relationships in general cost money! :P
i don't expect the guy to always pay (does that mean i'm not hot?! hehehe :P) it all evens out if you want it too.. you pay for some things, they pay for others.. go half.. or whatevers. i'd feel bad having someone pay for me all the time.. it's just weird. and i like buying my bf things.. like taking him out to dinner.. but he doesn't like letting me.. *evil glare...* :P i'd say go find different girls.. :P there's lots out there that don't expect everything to be paid for for them. you just gotta find em.. :P
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Nov 28, 02
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this is what rocks about not being hot, at least i get to preserve my dignity.. nothot4lyfe! wee..
When you set yourself up to be used, there isn't much to complain about. So if you're looking for the right kind of girl, don't try to impress her with WHAT YA GOT, try to impress with WHO YOU ARE. Strip them bare of their material possession and you're left with a non-existant personality. Every one is materialistic to some extent, we can't escape that, but for some people it's to the point where material possession are what defines them, cuz they don't have much else to give. Getting a high-maintenance chick is prob not too hard (especially if shes gonna use you for your $) as long as you can give her what she wants. But if that's the only thing she requires of you, what's the relationship worth but your bank account? And what's the point in staying in, or even starting up with a relationship where you play the role of the almighty provider, and that's all you're good for? where's your dignity. Like others have mentioned though, any relationship is going to cost you some amount of money. Not necessarily by sending it on your significant other, but just by going *out* with your significant. But that goes for all relationships, even friendships. As the people mentioned above, make sure you do it because you want to, not because you feel you have to to "maintain" them. You want girls that are big enough to wipe their own asses right? If not, i'll have to report you.
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Nov 28, 02
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Conor if you were my boy, I would sooooo slap you for buyin me anythinglike that... ugh! seriously.. it wouldbe nice to have a guy like that.. but I much rather be independent!
gah.. and splitting the cost is sooo much better.. !!! seriously.. if you were with a grl like that.. I would slap the,, fucking gold diggers..!!!
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Nov 28, 02
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yes a GF is a very expensive Hobby! Alot of people think Spinning is expensive LOL
My gf racks in alot of my $$, pik her up & drive her evreywhere! Buy her food! Take her to the Club (OUCH!) Buy her the new pants that she just gots ta have! But heh u luv em u dont even notice, I just realised it when I read this post LOL
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Nov 28, 02
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*cough choke cough*
Ok. I will give you the harsh reality that SOME girls are expensive...BUT I have had a few boyfriends that have no money or are in debt and I have had to pay for most things when we wanted to go out. Yah. so it goes both ways, but you mainly hear about the girls costing you money. My boyfriend now doesn't like me spending my money when we go out. He doesn't think that I should be paying for dinners, movies, whatever. So he was paying for the longest time. Now, he's paying off his car and insurance every month and I don't feel obligated to pay (and he doesn't like it when I do) but I do because what's money when fun is involved? geez! It's just money. But honestly. Girls that won't even offer to help pay for something aren't worth being with. -OR- if you ask them to go out, you should pay. If they ask you to go out, they should at least offer to pay. This topic can be argued forever and ever. It's not just girls though! There are cheap cheap guys out there. ugh!
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Nov 28, 02
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those "hot expensive" girls you talk about, are usually promiscuous, vein, yappy, catty, untrustworthy and all those great things. GENERALLY, this is what i have seen and these are how my old "hot expensive" friends were.
I ask WHY oh WHY would you ever go out with someone like that in the first place? Fuck them or whatever, but if you want a good girlfriend go for someone that doesn't expect you to buy them CLOTHES?!? I can't believe someone would get their significant other to buy them shit that should be bought with either their parents money or the money they should be making at a job. grrrrr. I know some VERY good looking girls that don't bicker or expect their b/f to support their every need. Sheesh. These girls also aren't hiding under 100 pounds of makeup and crappy, expensive clothes and dye jobs. CONNOR.. you can do better the Barbies you seem to be raking in :P
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Nov 28, 02
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AHAHAHA my girlfriend's the best i spend more money on booze & cigarettes than i do on her... but yea, i've said it before... "i can't afford a gf"... it's true, and it's no big deal to me... afterall, "it's just money"... and i have no problem spending money on a girl, cuz if it's gonna make her happy, then it's gonna make me happy... and that's money well spent...
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Nov 28, 02
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yes some girls cost much money.
then there are girls like me. you could give me a old shoe and i'd be happy just because you gave me somthing. maybe i think too much about the thought be hind a gift
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Nov 28, 02
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"can't afford a girlfriend? Have a YOKO*! she's cheaper than booze and cigarettes!"
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Nov 28, 02
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^:357: MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY MONEY!
BUY ME THIS BUY ME THAT! :027: Is this the consequence you men should be suffering for having a penis? I highly encourage you all to start a male-ist movement. down with WOMEN! EQUAL RIGHTS FOR ALL MEN!! or not.
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