does knowing someones like you change your perspective of them?

[ebbomega]

Um, nope, can't respect someone who tells me not to be friends with someone because of their own drama bullshit.

If he ended up banging her, quite frankly you got what you deserved by mandating your friends on who they're allowed to be friends with.

Like I say, you can tell him to not bang her or go out with her or whatever, but the simple act of talking to someone? Pretty selfish for you to decide who your friends are allowed to do that with.

[superstarrr]

yeah i guess u dont understand guy code. thats cool. maybe it will bite you in the ass one day...maybe it wont. who knows. regardless i told him he might as well bang her now.

/thread.

[ebbomega]

Apparently you can't tell the difference between a harmless conversation and people banging. That's a shame.

As for biting me in the ass, I've had a best friend fuck my ex right after we broke up. So you can understand how ridiculously trivial I consider a freaking conversation to be.

[GSG9]

NO DAVE!! YOU DONT GET IT!! YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THE CODE OF GUYS!!! THE CODE DAVE!!!



by a show of hands, who has a copy of this code book?... i know barnes and noble doesnt carry it...





men should strive to be leaders and to be able to make their own informed decisions based on their own interactions. if a man cannot make his own decisions based on his own interactions, he might as well not be a man at all.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by GSG9

by a show of hands, who has a copy of this code book?... i know barnes and noble doesnt carry it...

Right here

The appropriate article though is article 1:
Thou shalt not sleep with your Bro’s ex-girlfriend.

Nothing about talking in there.

[G3N3R4L]

Originally Posted by superstarrr

3 weeks ago!?!?!?!? are u fucking kidding me?!

if i see your fucking punk ass on the street youre fucking dead.

you know who i am you fucking bitch.

maybe it's a different girl? the OP was pretty vague.

[cubed]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Right here

The appropriate article though is article 1:
Thou shalt not sleep with your Bro’s ex-girlfriend.

Nothing about talking in there.

The Bro Code is something to live by.

[stabmyhead]

In regards to the original post:
If I don't like the guy in a "more than friends" way, knowing he likes me actually kinda puts me off and have in the past, even annoyed me (ie: obsessive guys). Especially when I specify that I am not interested and they still persist then it makes them seem kinda pathetic.

In regards to Mr. Superstarrr:
If you broke up with her, then she can do whatever the fuck she wants. You aren't her bf anymore, and even if you were, what right do you have dictating who her or anyone else talks to. Get over yourself.

[EPID3MIK-7]

The Bro Code is a code to live by... with such codes as...

(ARTICLE 62)
In the event that 2 bros aquire the same target. The Bro with the longest dry spell gets dibs. Should both dry spells be at equal lengths, a discrete game of roshambo shall determine the outcome.

Yeh, there isn't anything in the Bro Code that says you can't talk to your Bro's Ex. Sleeping with her is another thing though.

HOWEVER...

A man shall not date a fellow friend's ex before the "backslide window" has closed. The backslide window shall be as long as the couple were together plus one day. After the backslide window has closed, said man is required to ask said friend for permission to date said ex, and said friend is required to say yes with optional warnings.

:P

An authentic photograph taken at the actual declaration and signing of the bro code:

[omega_image]

Marc nailed it. Even though the bro code has it's exceptions, I think the relationship between superstarr and mrektion definitely was considered to be of "bro" status.

Originally Posted by stabmyhead

In regards to Mr. Superstarrr:
If you broke up with her, then she can do whatever the fuck she wants. You aren't her bf anymore, and even if you were, what right do you have dictating who her or anyone else talks to. Get over yourself.

Everyone seriously needs to take a few steps back. I don't think superstarrr was pissed about them talking, he could probably care less. The fact of the matter is, mrektion asked, got denied, then went behind superstarrr's back and did it anyways.

I don't think it was a simple "hey can i talk to her" type question, but i could be wrong. Then again, if he was planning to do it anyways, he just should have told superstarrr and hoped for the best, rather than asking for permission in the first place.

Let's all get over the "none of us really know what really happened, so let's step in anyways, pick posts apart and take out the new guy"

[GSG9]

Originally Posted by stabmyhead

In regards to the original post:
If I don't like the guy in a "more than friends" way, knowing he likes me actually kinda puts me off and have in the past, even annoyed me (ie: obsessive guys). Especially when I specify that I am not interested and they still persist then it makes them seem kinda pathetic.

In regards to Mr. Superstarrr:
If you broke up with her, then she can do whatever the fuck she wants. You aren't her bf anymore, and even if you were, what right do you have dictating who her or anyone else talks to. Get over yourself.

as far as i can tell, tis argument isnt about limiting what she can do, it is about limiting what he can do. lower your fist che.

[stabmyhead]

Hey, we can only assume right? Okay, I'll try to be a bit nicer.

Were you guys actually room mates or were you just letting him stay in your dope ass apartment? Because if he wasn't paying rent and went behind your back to talk to her (with what appears to be with intent to bang her), that's pretty shitty.

[Revolver]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

holy shit, are you half retarded?

I admit, it's not cool for your friends to do that shit, but what about the girl? Do you understand she had a choice in the matter and obviously played a role in all of this happening? This is 50/50 and the fact that she moved on so quickly after you broke up speaks more about you than anything. If she wasn't over you and you were a decent enough guy for her to still care about she wouldn't have agreed to go on the date in the first place.

the point was is he told his ROOMATE,after he had asked, that it he was not cool with it so he should of known better instead of chasing tail and destroying their friendship. thats what he is pissed about and rightfully so.who knows? maybey the girl prolly wasnt completely over it but dated roomate to help get over it faster.

[Revolver]

Originally Posted by superstarrr

sorry its gotta go down like this bro, but you're fucking dead...again....

how you handle yourself in situations like these defines the man you are, and the man you will become.

Yes, in this situation you got fucked by who you thought was your friend. Take this as opportunity to learn who your friends really are and be thankful that you have seen true colors.

Creating a new account to post up threats of violence is the worst thing you could possibly do which lowers yourself very badly.

try to 'de-tach' from the ego hurt and notch this situation in the belt of life and let it be. Sure, its easy for me and the rest of us to preach and all that not knowing what exactly happend but from posts like the one here that i quoted you deff need to take a step back and really think about what kind of energy your putting out there. violence and spiteful actions will just further compound the problem and make it all much worse

[GSG9]

now im tring to figure out why they had this conversation on fnk instead of in person or over the phone... i dont wanna know about drama bs.

[Mr Ektion]

Wow. wtf happened to this post.

1. I feel terrible about what happened between my ex roommate and i.
2. I didn't sleep with her. And they were never b/f, g/f.
3. this post went up a week before any of that drama happened.
4. this thread was triggered by a different girl that thought i'd sleep with her but i didn't.
5. i asked superstarrr for 'permission' because i had already asked the girl. then it occured to me. maybe i should ask. she said not to care because they were never an item. we still went, and didn't tell him because we thought he'd over react. i was going to tell him eventually but he found out in the worst way possible.
6. if he does jump me, i'm pressing charges for when he already attacked me inside our apartment.
7. bro code. okay. you got me there. i should have just straight up told you i was going to take her. but let's talk common sense here. all the things you've done after the fact have just been insane and retarded. vandalizing my bed room. throwing shit at my brand new tv. contacting my friends about it? going onto a web forum and broadcasting it? drinking my booze and waiting for me to come home? i'm glad we're not living together because i don't want to live with a violent person who wyles out and over react when he's drunk and angry. over an empty concert seat.

Sorry, Devin.

[ebbomega]

[cubed]

^Just to let you know, I'm suited up right now and flipping through my copy of the code.

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by cubed

^Just to let you know, I'm suited up right now and flipping through my copy of the code.

Can we get a ruling on this one here? I think this falls under Appendix B - Termination of Bro-ship.

[GSG9]

remember mrektion, the best defence, is a good 9 iron.

[cubed]

Dave...

Step one - shave the goatee, it doesn't go with your suit.

Step two - buy a suit.

[G3N3R4L]

Originally Posted by GSG9

remember mrektion, the best defence, is a good 9 iron.

i prefer the wedge myself.

[GSG9]

hm yes, ive heard the wedge favored among some men.
so long as it not a grass hockey stick (or a grass cane as i call it) it should work.

[Mr Ektion]

mehhhh