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Jan 04, 03
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heart broken....
Me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago and I'm having such a hard time getting over it....I still love him so much and i'm pretty sure he still cares about me...we're friend now but it's soo hard for me to be around him....i just want to curl up in his arms and tell him how much i love him...but i can't. At one point he said that he might want to get back together with me after he gets some things sorted out in his life....and the reasons that i've heard for why he dumped me was that he thinks that we are going different places in life and he doesn't want to hold me back....also, we didn't see each other enough and that it wasn't fair to me. I really did'nt mind though....I saw him and talked to him enough to be happy.....maybe he needed more but i really dont know....I love him with all my heart and I'm having such a hard time accepting him as just a friend.
I know that there's not much i can do but get over it, but if he was serious when he said he'd want to get back together with me then I'd want to wait for him because i feel that he's worth it. I just wish i knew the answers, or that he would have done something nasty so i could hate him for it..... I really don't know what to do..... 
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Jan 05, 03
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I didn't just join a message board to find someone new.....I chat on here under a dif name...I know a few ppl who have made a new alias to try to get some advice without everyone knowing who they are......I chat on f&k all the time soo there!!!
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Jan 05, 03
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awwww hun.... by telling u that stuff hes jsut going to keep u hoping, and if it doesnt work out its going to hurt alot more. My advice is to for now remove all the memeories, pics etc, and try to spend time with firends as much as possible doing things to keep your mind off it... keep your chin up it can only get easier
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Jan 05, 03
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I can kind'a relate...forget em...guys are ass holes(well most of em are....)
Sorry I'm in one of those moods right now....
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Jan 05, 03
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he told you that he might get backt with you to make it easier for ou don't wait for him
its over
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Jan 05, 03
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^^^^ that sounded real bitchy and it wasn't supposed to
im sorry forget about him though
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Jan 05, 03
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I think you guys are trying for friendship a little too soon... try giving each other some alone time so you aren't picking fresh wounds and pouring salt all over them... The more time you spend together right now (during the inital after break up time), the harder it's going to be to 'give him up'. Chances are that if you guys are going different places right now in life, you're going to continue going these seperate paths for a while and the answers won't be resolved in a half hour tv sitcom special.
Even if he was serious about getting back together, it isn't something you should use to fall back on... There's always the chance where he's just saying it because he thinks it'll make it easiar for you to deal with the break up, when really, it's just giving you a false sense of hope, a glimpse of possible future with him... Not telling you to give up on your dreams, but maybe it's time to grow up/out of them.... There's more to life than someone you can cuddle and 'love', maybe now is your chance to find that.
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Jan 06, 03
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hrmmm
i was just thinkin someone in here posted something or other earlier it was a guy thinkin about breakin up wiht some chick... related?
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Jan 06, 03
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Aww....I'm sorry to hear of your dilemma, that you have to go through this pain, and I really feel for you... since I am no councillor, I would just recommend putting on some strong tunes (Leann Rimes, Life goes on), thinking about how beautiful and sexy you are, looking around at all the guys that are potentials (even if it is too soon to get involved), and just getting through each day once step at a time...Oh! And my best advice is to listen to all of Stabby's advice....=)
Best of luck....=) *Jen*
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Jan 07, 03
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It's so difficult to get on with life when you're still into someone, especially like when they're your all. it probably is for your best if you move on with life, since your relationship wasn't compatible for both of you, and that is ideal, isn't it? plus, there are better guys that will be in the right part of life to fit your nitch. you could still go on with it if you persisist, but there will always be those little problems that will vaunt and haunt you. :soak:
cheer up tears. (R) stina
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Jan 08, 03
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^^heehee you put a rainbow in your post!
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Jan 10, 03
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hehe you put 2 ^ when you really meant to put one ^
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