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Jan 10, 03
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girls/guys after your guy/girl
hey people ok ..
my boy friend it always out...and he tells me bout these girls hes hangin out with i mean i dont think hes cheating on me.. but i never know.. he gose out drinkin and dose alot of drugs so i just dont know.. i lovehim soo much .. and i dont know how to fix things cuz there starting to fall apart at the moment.. if you have any comments or maybe some help plzz and thanx that would be great.. -batgirl 
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Jan 10, 03
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Aawww Ashton talk to him about it, from wut u've told me about him I don't think that he would cheat on u but make sure u talk to him about it!!
P.S. do u have Kayleigh's MSN? That girl is a fuckin whore...
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Jan 10, 03
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tell him 2 fuck off hes a big a-hole and should be treated like one
or give him a taste of his own medicine and see how much he likes it ;)
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Jan 10, 03
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don't play into his games
he is trying to make you jealous and it is working. if he is the one always going out where are you? why aren't you going out? don't sit around and be the victim, go out and hang out with your friends and forget about him
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Jan 10, 03
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this all boils down to a matter of trust, do you trust him? if he's telling you about all these people he's with thenb he probably isn't cheating, because if he was he'd be very deceptive and just say that he was out with "a friend" or something...maybe you should speak to him about it before you jump to any conclusions. but i feel thats he's probably being faithful to you.
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Jan 10, 03
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first off, no one deserves to be cheated on. that is a really rude and immature rebuttle to my comment. second off, why is she not out with him and his friends? if they are all so innocent and stuff why isn't she out there with them? third off, yes guys are smart enough to do this kind of thing. I know because an ex boyfriend of mine did it to me. We talk a lot now about our relationship and he told me that he did it. So there, coming from the mouth of one of your own.
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Jan 10, 03
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nice use of rebuttle!
muhahha i say u guys just scrap.. or have a dance off enough talk, lets escalate to the next level
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Jan 10, 03
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What is bothering you? You mention "things" are falling apart. What things? I need more info if you want an honest opinion.
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Jan 10, 03
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yes tell us every detail of your Life.
seriously though...i'll follow him for you. see where he goes, who he meets up with...that kind of thing.
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Jan 10, 03
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DICKS COME A DIME A DOZEN DONE GET MAD IF I FUCK UR FRIEND or UR COUSIN!!!!!!!!! hahahahahahahahahahaha
throw him in da gutter and go find another... serious hes a big a-hole quit sitting there like a lil whiny weakliing crying baby !!!!!!buy him a pack of tube socks and a jar of vaseline and tell the fucker 2 give er! then leave
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Jan 10, 03
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Vinny's girl, just because you had a bad experience with a guy doesn't make them all evil. You seem to have this, 'I'm female, I'm a victim of the cruelty of men' attitude and it's rather pathetic... Yes, guys cheat, girls cheat, HUMANS CHEAT. (animals too you know).
Chances are your bf is telling you about the girls because he doesn't want you to worry, he wants you to know the kinds of people he is hanging out with. He isn't doing this to neccessarily make you jealous (well maybe he is, I'm not him so I wouldn't know)... let's face it, most girls get paranoid and silly over such matter... it's I guess, 'natural' for you to be feeling that way... If it bothers you so much, you're telling the wrong people/person about it....
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Jan 10, 03
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Its natural for him to chill and hang out with other girls if there within his group of friends.......if he cheats then its different. Then again it is also natural for you to hang out and chill with other guys......but what would he say if you did????
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Jan 11, 03
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i find it humourous that you think you know me from a few posts on a message board. thats cool though... i guess next time you might want to read my posts twice just incase you miss something for next time you are goign to try and slam me. thanks for coming out. oh and another thing, not everyone cheats. weak people cheat.
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Jan 11, 03
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vaseline
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Jan 11, 03
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If things are falling apart for you then you need to address the issues with your man. In the same token though, you have to listen to what he says and be willing to compromise with him.
I wouldn't worry about him going out with friends just because they are girls. It is okay if you come along with him sometimes but if you start making a habit of it, it may just piss him off. No offence but you don't really have the right to know who he is hanging out with, you're not his mother after all. He is choosing to tell you which should make you happy. It sounds like you may be a little insecure about the whole thing. <--sorry if this sounds mean, I don't mean it to, then again I am only forming a loose opinion on the few sentences of info I have been given please only take it with a grain of salt. Besides, why would you be worried even if girls are hitting on him unless you don't trust him, and that IS something you should probably address in the relationship.... You can "love" someone without trusting them after all.
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Jan 11, 03
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Originally posted by vinnys_gurl:
actually stabby if you actually read my post, you would have read that i said "don't sit around and be the victim" Actually if you read my post, you would see that I said, you 'seem to have', as in I get this assumption. Selective reading much? i find it humourous that you think you know me from a few posts on a message board. thats cool though... i guess next time you might want to read my posts twice just incase you miss something for next time you are goign to try and slam me. I am not slamming you, I am making an observation. Put your cock back in your pants and calm down and quit trying to make trouble over trivial matters. thanks for coming out. Perhaps next time you can visit. oh and another thing, not everyone cheats. weak people cheat. Weaker people stay with those who cheat.
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Jan 11, 03
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as for batgirl... if you didnt expect ppl to tear your post a part then why bother postin git.. were not all here to just say 'oh you poor lil'girl, man your boyfirends a bastard' your gonna get MANY DIFFRENT VIEWS on wut ppl think is going on.. so if you cant take the heat, GET THE FUCK OUTTA THE KITCHEN!!
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Jan 11, 03
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sit down and talk to him
communication is the key to most problems.... and it doesn't neccisarily mean it ends up making YOU feel better.... there could be a happy ending or an unhappy ending... but at least yoyu kknow what the hell is going on right?
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Jan 12, 03
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Hmmm. I think you wrote the title wrong.. judging from your post, it doesn't seem as if guys/girls are after your boy at all... In fact, it seems more like he's going out and after these girl is more of your concern.
Trust is a big issue most girls can't get over... the constant need for reassurance in their partner gets tiresome after a while. No one wants to date someone that's going to hammer them for information everytime they leave the house.. it only makes the 'investigator' gf/bf look like some insecure, clingy bastard of emotions... the accusations get annoying and can even pose as an idea never thought of by the 'guilty' partner who is constantly going out. I think you're putting too much thought into this because you think you're in love with him, when it SEEMS (okay, let's read that again, it SEEMS. okay, thanks) as if you don't even know him that well... with knowledge, comes trust. Both of which you seem to lack. Communicate or watch it deteriorate.
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