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Jan 16, 03
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Sex or Love??
Why and how do so many people mistake sex for love? Just because someone's having sex with you doesn't mean they love you and in most cases, the only reason people are together is because of the sex. What's up with that? No spiritual soul searching with your partner, no getting to know who they are and what they stand for, JUST SEX!! How can someone have a relationship based upon sex? Sex is the least important part of a relationship, shouldn't having sex with your loved one be the last thing you do with your partner, after you've gotten to know, love, understand and accept who they are, faults and all. What the hell is wrong with people?
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Jan 16, 03
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yeah totally, but if you love someone you;re sleeping with it is probably the most amazing thing you can ever expereince... but yeah i see how sex is easily mistaken for love
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Jan 16, 03
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Sex is very important
If you love someone but you have bad sex, chances are it's not going to work But I'm a beliver in the more you love someone the better the sex is, because then it turns into emotional and physical and can get fucking crazy
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Jan 16, 03
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only in a perfect world would people do so. im sure there are some people who do it the "right" way, but sex is good. The reason why people dont avidly do it the "right" way is because they are sexually attracted to the person... u see someone ur like they hottt u arent thinkin about "jeez i wonder what thier thoughts and feelings on lifes inhumantiys is" we see tits we see ass we see a pretty face we see muscles and we wonder how big his member is. we wonder how tight she is. we are all shallow sex crazed maniacs. Deal with it and move on.
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Jan 16, 03
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however, sometimes (or most times) sex is chosen as a recreation, and i think thats fine. what's so wrong in just having sex for fun? or having sex because you want it? sure, relationships that are based entirely on sex wont last, but they will fulfill the needs of both sides of the relationship. and besides, we're all still pretty young. if you've found true love already, good for you! if you havent, then i dont really expect you to wait until you've found your true love. that could take years! what's the point of living if you cant feel alive? ("you" is being used generally) john 2899131
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Jan 16, 03
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I've given up casual sex until I meet someone that I can date. I just found that sex with out the emotions get boring after awile...yeah it feels good/great/fantastic PHYSICALLY, but in my case anyways, there's no emotion anymore, and it's gotten boring and stale.
So hooray for temporary abstinance! Well, it's intended to be temporary...for all I know, I'll be singel forever... 
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Jan 16, 03
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ok, first off I'd personally like to say that for the most part, I agree with what you wrote SomeGuy.
but here's something to think about: sex=love is not as intuitive to everyone as you think. it's a matter of opinion, and I don't believe there are any actual right or wrong answers. not everyone wants to find "the one" and wait for that special someone to "make love" with. sure, there may be many people who want to have sex with those they love. but I'm sure there are also many others who simply want to have sex because hey, why the heck not? and I disagree that everyone always mistakes themselves for being in love with the one they're having sex with. some people just simply don't mind no-strings-attached, casual sex. and no, sex isn't always the least important part of a relationship to everyone. many people I'm sure actually consider sex a big part of their relationship. and who are you to judge whether that relationship is healthy or not? so what the hell is wrong with people, you ask? well, it appears that there isn't as much anything wrong with these people as much as they're just different from you or me. --Joanne :P
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Jan 17, 03
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Jan 17, 03
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I believe in casual, consenting sex, no problem with that, if that's the fix you both desire.. But I may not have explained myself well enough.. I know people who have an entire relationship based upon sex, this girl never stops complaining about her BF, yet she is still with him, she tell's me that she loves him yet, not once have I ever heard her say a good thing about him. I dunno, I just don't understand this type of relationship.. seems very disfunctional to me.
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Jan 17, 03
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yeah no shit!!!! lol sound like my brother and his gf,.... theres is a ompletely sex based relationship which is sad cuz hes only 15 and it makes me wanna yack....
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Jan 26, 03
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I'm with ya on this one.. but we all know.. I'll be single forever.. :P boys fear me apparently.. ?! lisa, we can start a club?? BAHAHAHAHAHA.. no..
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Jan 27, 03
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