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Jan 18, 03
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Feeling like a fool
It seems like every time I meet a guy, it's the same story...I'm all good to hang out with, but they're always looking for the BBD(bigger, better deal).
It hurts, and I'm sick of it...I'm starting to think it's me, because it's the same story every time... I give up...I tired of hurting, tired of the same old routine over and over and over again...I'm tired of being stuck in a cycle I don't know how to get out of... I just give up... 
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Jan 18, 03
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Good to know that it's a possible avenue for exploration then. :247:
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Jan 18, 03
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^ you just need a good double stuffing.
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Jan 18, 03
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NO DOUBLE STUFF FOR J00!
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Jan 18, 03
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Try not to put hope and faith in those you know will dissappoint... in the end, everyone, including yourself will leave you disappointed.... well maybe not neccessarily, but the more hope you put into something, the greater the disappointment if things do not go according to plan.. Just go with the flow, let things happen, if they do, yet be cautious. Everyone is a potential mate... but they are also a potetial heart breaker... With each experience you learn to filter them out better.. or hopefully you learn...
The next man that comes to you, chain him to your bed and throw away the key.
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Jan 18, 03
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^Only if he's cute.
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Jan 18, 03
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Or you could just collect them all and start an army of pleasure giving male slaves... SELL THEM ON EBAY!
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Jan 18, 03
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Lisa I just think you need to throw your self about for a while. Go out and have lots of sex.
oh yes,,, muy phone number is... hahaha j/k
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Jan 18, 03
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If you notice the same thing happening over and over again, then what are you doing wrong? It's not always 'tough luck', lisa. Where are you meeting these people? How? What kind of people are you meeting?
do you notice a pattern? I find most often feeling sorry for yourself and giving up is pretty uneffective. Start fresh, change. M
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Jan 19, 03
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heh, I gave up.. and still wond up in the same cycle.. :014:
but then again.. we're talking about me here.. and I just have the worst luck with boys.. so yeha.. ugh I'm sure you'll find the right guy one day lisa..
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Jan 20, 03
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I agree with chels_45 the best relationships I have ever had all started when I wasn't looking for anything...If relationships work out great, if they don't that can be a good thing too...at least then you know it wasn't the right one. :)
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Jan 21, 03
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dont look let them find uuuuuuuuu
casual relationships are much easier 2 deal with :)
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Jan 22, 03
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^EXACTLY.
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Jan 22, 03
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nothing is worse then a girl who is looking hard for that serious relationship.
every girl i have ever met like that, it just turns me right off. nobody wants the pressure. when you stop looking for it, and start living your life without always thinking about being in a relationship and why your not in one, is the day you'll find what your really looking for. its hard to do, believe me, but once you do stop looking, you'll be better off.
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Jan 22, 03
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I disagree.. even when your not looking for one and.. ya do end up in one.. it can be a crappy one too.. so its not what your looking for.
with my experience.. dont matter if Im looking for one or not.. I'm always getting hurt in the worse way possible.. and I dont know why.
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Jan 23, 03
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Exactly! This guy has got it, as harsh as it sounds.
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