2 guys holding hands

[Liqwid]

i once had a boy friend who asked me if i would hands with him in the mall.........i know he wanted to do it so he could make a point of showing the rest of the world he was proud of who he was....

i said no, not because i wasn't pround of showing eveyone eles who i was......but because i was afraid of what other people might do....

do you think that was wrong?

~Dalyn :008:

[miss.myra]

I don't necessarily think it was wrong because I think that the time of really coming out and showing the world who you are comes at a different age....

My older brother is gay, and everybody knew it for years before he could really come out in public and be himself without feeling ashamed of what he is..

It's not an easy thing to do, and for a lot of people it just takes time..

It's funny how something as innocent as holding hands is so taboo to do if its two guys..but people wouldn't care as much if it was a teenage heterosexual couple engaging in nauseating PDAs in public...

M

[p.s.- can you show yourself now? :)]

[Liqwid]

^^^...........yeah......but i still won't in public like that, cause i fear other people who might not really like that.......

~dalyn

[bob]

YUCK to holding hands alltogether

[Bitchin]

Bah, dalyn hold hands all you want!!!
I think any 'type' of couple has the right to do that..!!! and if people have a problem with that you know wut.. its THIER problem.. not yours!

[cinist]

it is wrong that you are made to feel that way, but its not wrong that you do feel that way. how can you help what you feel? it's not you who is wrong, it is the people who are judging you that are wrong. you shouldn't hold hands in public if you don't feel comfortable with it yet, there is nothing wrong with that. you should never do anything you are not ready for, take your time. it doesn't mean that you are not proud of who you are, it just means the world you live in isn't as up to date as you are in terms of acceptance.
fuck em all!~
peace

[Miss T]

^^

exactly!

[Liqwid]

^^^...................totaly agree......

~Dalyn

[Sammy Skillz]

don't worry dalyn...my ex used to like holding hands in public too. and for starters...i'm not really down with hand holding when it comes to anyone and secondly, i felt the same way you did.

but i dumped him. so that's old news!

[Liqwid]

Yeah, we're not going out anymore.....but we're still friends........

[yoko*]

/me holds bob's hand
/me applauds to cinist's post...

took the words outta my fingers, except the words weren't there to begin with. :145:

[Riot]

No, its not wrong. you ,at the time, just wernt comfortable....
this last summer was the first time i ever held hands with my boyfriend (now ex)

[SEAN!]

Originally posted by Liqwid
i once had a boy friend who asked me if i would hands with him in the mall.........i know he wanted to do it so he could make a point of showing the rest of the world he was proud of who he was....

i said no, not because i wasn't pround of showing eveyone eles who i was......but because i was afraid of what other people might do....

do you think that was wrong?

~Dalyn :008:

no man i don't think so, i was thinking the other day about how much harder it would be if i was a gay guy...people would harrass me all the time and id always face the chance of being stomped by some insecure neo-nazi fucks...so that ebing said i don't blame you for not wanting to show it because you could have someoen react very badly to it.

[SomeGuy]

I think you should do what you want Dalyn, if you feel like holding his hand than hold it, fuck what other people think, you have the same rights as everyone else does on this earth.. I know this situation must really difficult for a gay guy in today's society, so many people are still homophobic.. I hope people smartin up soon, LIVE & LET LIVE!!

[juice]

a lot of what i would have said, has been said already.

[LoveKat]

i love holding hands
and i'm not afraid to do it in public
but i used to do worse things than holding hands that would have attracted harrassment or bashing

i was lucky that nothing ever happened

but dalyn, i totally agree with you that you should not be rushed into anything that you aren't comfortable with. especially in shopping malls -- the home of the white trash family

just be yourself and be happy where you are most comfortable at! :) no one should judge you for not feeling comfortable and if they do, then i'll tell them off for you :)

*huggles*

Eddie the new guy I work with is gay..he just came out a year ago. Hes so awesome :)

[Liqwid]

Aww...........Yall....R Soo Supportive!!!!!!!!!!

~Dalyn

[Brad_Influence]

i think you were right... if i seen some faggets holdin hands in metro or something i'd probably be sicked out and shout some exploitive comment at them...... not that theres anything wrong with that........ So i think you did the right thing....

[c.tard]

^^ wtf??

There is *NOTHING* wrong with holding hands. Whether it's a boy+girl, boy+boy, or girl+girl doing it.. NOTHING is wrong with that.

If you don't agree with people being gay, that's your problem. But get used to it. People are going to be gay, straight, bi, tri.. whatever the fuck they want. You might as well just let them be that. They aren't harming you or anything so just shut the hell up and leave them alone.

[Ryan Ross]

Originally posted by Stoner_B420
i think you were right... if i seen some faggets holdin hands in metro or something i'd probably be sicked out and shout some exploitive comment at them...... not that theres anything wrong with that........ So i think you did the right thing....

I like how you pretend to be politically correct by saying that there is nothing wrong wth being gay, yet you call them faggets and openly admit that you cant see to guys holding hands without shouting some exploitive comment.

Make up your mind.

To me it sounds like your a homophobic biggot

[Liqwid]

^^^.......thats wuts up!!!!!!!!!!

thanks rye..........


~Dalyn

[bren]

hers the motto to any healthy relationship

IF IT FEELS GOOD>>>DO IT

hey - if you cant do that - then you know what...re think about how you really feel. secong guessoing yourself is a sign of insecurity, and insecurity destroys relationships.

bren

if it feels good...do it

[Liqwid]

^^^^.............no thats whats up!!!

~Dalyn

[stringbeans]

its like in that simpsons episode...

"BE LIKE THE BOY! BE LIKE THE BOY!"

(do whatever makes you feel good)

john
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