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Jun 30, 01
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Not liking quiet people.
I didn't know where to post this so I decided to post it here. There is this one girl I don't like cuz I think she's a big time biyaach. But then when I stopped and thought about it, I figured that she was just really quiet like me. I think that from an outsiders point of view, I'd think Im a prick too cuz of the fact Im really quiet and shy around strangers. Well I respect people in a way, that if their nice to me, Im nice back... well Im just nice in general but I guess i have to be more comfortable with the person I meet. I still don't like her cuz she's kinda rude...like I wouldn't treat people like how she does ... but whatever.... But uh yeah... what do'ya peeps think about us quiet people? :P
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Jun 30, 01
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quiet people..well..sum peopel really are shy and just aren't open and stuff...they gotta keep to themselves..but at the same time..there is teh certain type of quiet thats bitchy quiet..like the snobby type and the i don't like u quiet...lotsa types...but i guess if people wanna be quiet they can...i myself can be quiet and loud and ??.inbetween...so yeah..??..not sure...but yeah..quiet people are fine..as long as its not a bitchy type of quiet?..lalala..:Lazee:
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Jun 30, 01
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I am quiet, I am not shy. I am an introvert, I like to stick with my thoughts, they are safe, and one sided. I can be an asshole, or I can be the biggest sweet heart... Depends on my mood, the day, and the scenery....
tricky tricke trickeee! ~j
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Jul 01, 01
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I am such a quite person.. that i don`t think i have the right to say that i hate quiet people. hee hee. like if I`m not used to my surrounding I clam up..
this characterstic about me has been more.. exaggerated ever since I started dropping.. i notice this more and more.. i never used to be as shy as I am now... at least before I was able to cover up this personality trait.. now it`s just become a part of me.. I used to give bitch looks to people.. as a way to defend myself.. but not any more.. ppl say I have areal scary bitch look.. i dunno i `don`t practice infront of the mirror so how would I know.. i just know that if I need to use it, it`s there ;D
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Jul 01, 01
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you damn quiet ppl!
everyone thinks i am this big social butterfly bitch when deep inside i can be a really anti social hermit nun character... i can be really shy *gasp* yes.. i am usually shy around ppl i like.. but once i open up i am really a doesnt shut up type of person unless you put a gun (or seafood) to my mouth. hmmm. my friends used to think i was some big flirty happy girl.. HA. i dunno generally i dont mind shy ppl cuz i can kinda relate to them. but i find them more "real" than those crazy outgoing ppl.. then again i am lil miss mood changing going kinda nuts about to twitch and snap lalalalal er. what was i talking about?
this post is pointless. cuz i hate everyone equally. <--- bad mood today. PLUR.
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Jul 01, 01
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I think everyone begins a new "hello" with a bit of shyness/quietness...don't they?
I know I do...and it's because I don't know the person, and I don't feel comfortable around them yet to be myself... Does that portray me as a snob or a bitch from an outside point of view just because I *seem* like I'm asocial? I hope not... I think it's because when people meet people they put themselves in a immediate "defensive" area and show people only what they want seen... Like the saying goes..."Don't judge a book by its cover" Always be open-minded to new things and new people :259:
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Jul 01, 01
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Im the type of person..... pretty much silent....
so maybe people think Im a snob or whatever.... :( But when I get to no someone, Im alot nicer... it's pretty akward. But some people are easy to get along with and I open up alot faster than normal...
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Jul 01, 01
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k actually...i'm pretty shy myself...especially around..yea ppl i like!..but if i'm just your normal..rave acquaintance..then i'm pretty outgoing..even tho there mite be moments where i dunno what to say..haha..
but one thing about being around shy people...sometimes their shyness leads you to think.."hmm is it me..how come he/she's not saying nothing..one way convo..must be what i'm wearing..damn knew i shoulda stuck with blue instead of green.." u kno?..like..their shyness in effect makes you more shy cuz you dunno what they're thinking.. ok maybe i don't make sense...ahh wellz..that waz an attempt to say wha i think...:148:
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Jul 02, 01
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oh man quiet ppl:310: used to bug the hell out of me ..... i dunno i guess i'm just really loud .... hee hee i bet that more then half of the shy ppl that i have meet probably wanted me to just SHUT-UP AND GO AWAY but that rarely happens.
But now i have surprisely become much more quiet .... when i'm w/ a group of ppl i don't know , i barely move let alone talk :351:. When i'm around my crush i can't even say two words but i usually run the other direction when i see him. Sometimes i find it better to just sit and say nothing ...... ehhh listening can be a good thing too. If i'm friends w/ u , u will never hear the end of my rambling conversations :294: , so if u don't like loud ppl u don't want to get to know me. Mojojojo have u tried to talk to her ...... if u have and she has just brushed u off ( but in a rude way) she isn't shy she is a bitch:373: (that is just my oppion) or maybe she likes u hee hee. :Kimmie:
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Jul 03, 01
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yeah sumtimes I don`t know wuts wrong with me. Like at times I try to avoid as many social situations as possible.. ones where I don`t know any one.. i had being the centre of attention and on the spotlight.. it makes me so nervous I usually look down...
i often hate it when ppl loudly critisize or compliment my art.. or sumthing i`ve written. so it``s much easier on the internet for me to post things or say things... i rather prefer the silent criticisim or the silent admiration.. i mite seem like sum one who talks a lot juss becuz i talk a lot on here.. but if u see me for the first time u mite notice that I walk around with my head down if ur new to me.. or else I mite even try to avoid speaking to sum one for a long period of time.. i dunno i guess I juss get so nervous that i try too hard in my mind to think up sumthin to say..so i end up with nothing to say... i hate this characterisitic in me.. the silent part.. but i agree with stabby that to me, extremely loud ppl seem a lil dense and fake to me.. they juss seem too transparent and boring. Like they are fun to be around and fool around with.. to talk to and all, but they don`t seem to be able to think beyond a certain level.. and I like the type that can at least think for themselves... often the loud ones become the leader. they may not have GREAT ideas but they become leaders becuz they know how to express their thoughts. they know how to be social.. how to attract a crowd. They have the talent of being able to be the leader but sum of them lack creativity. it`s just sad that sum of the quiet ones are so creative but don`t have the guts to express their own opinions.. if i had to choose a valedictorian i would rather choose the quiet chick at the back of the room than the one that always raises their hand in class. They prolly have more to say if only given the oppurtunity..
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Jul 03, 01
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That's jus like me, I'm -normally- shy when I first meet someone, and quite a few ppl have either thought I wuz a bitch or mad @ them... but I am a nice person, and then when I get 2 know ppl better I totally open up and am outgoing~
I prefer non-shy individuals, but most shy ones I don't have a problem with cuz they usually open up when they feel more comfortable around ppl. ~breezy
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Jul 04, 01
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i am really quiet around people i don't know very well, and sometimes it bothers me. it's just shyness, and it really hurts my feelings when people assume i'm a bitch or a snob. i'm not--just the opposite in fact. i definitely don't think i'm better than anyone else. a lot of people just kind of intimidate me, and it takes a while before i will actually express myself around them. but eventually (especially with other quiet people) i do, and then i can be obnoxiously loud. not very many people ever see that side to me though. its a little lonely. so be nice to us quiet folk!
-lauren
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Jul 05, 01
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I used to be soooo incredibly shy, especially in front of guys. Going to an all girls private school until grade 10 didn't really help that. But once I switched over to public school, and once I started partying, I've opened right up. I'm still shy, but nobody believes me! *hehe* I guess it depends on who I'm with, if they're shy/loud, if I feel comfortable, etc. Sometimes when I meet someone for the first time, I'm super loud and outgoing. Other times, I'm just quiet and reserved, and don't know what the hell to say. So for me, it's situational. I click with some people right from the first second, and for others, it takes a bit longer.
Erica :AZN:
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Jul 05, 01
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I'm not quiet.
I am very outgoing ans don't have problems talking to other people. Even when I don't know them all that well. It just comes to me. I'm a very easy guy to get along with. Fake? Far from it. I come to everyone being myself and nothing else. I don't put up any barriers or hide anything. That's me, and I like it. I consider myself to be a very good judge of character and I have noticed that most people that seem really snobby at first are just uncomfortable in a new situation. Once they get to know you, that usually disappears. Around a girl I REALLY like??? Same as usual, but somewhat toned down. I will talk to the individual, but I hold back some stuff I would usually do. I can get pretty crazy but some of that is temporarily put on the shelf. I also fumble words, in my brain that is. When I talk to her, my mind is goiing a mile a minute, but whatever comes out of my mouth is well thought through. My expression or body language don't give away a thing. Even the most confident person loses it in that situation. That's the only time I get anywhere close to shy. -Dwight:Somatic:
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Jul 09, 01
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I think there is something wrong with me
I've told this to several people... I think there is something wrong with me. I'm shy to some people but not to others... I think if its cause I'm intimidated by them. it doesn't matter, who, if I feel the need to make a good first imperssion, I get quiet. quieter than usual. I get real shy. But for almost any other reason, I'm not very shy. I mean, yesterday, i went up to random people asking them "to support a raver" so I could get my friend in to a party.
But anyways, on to the topic on hand... Quiet people are sometimes taken as jerks cause they don't say anything or they avoid it. Thats why people often ignore quiet people cause they are afraid of not getting a response. Anywhos... my computer is getting messed up again, so I'm ending this post. Peace out me :016: computer
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Jul 10, 01
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There is a fine line
shy and talkative
i think I'm in the in between but I like people who have something to say.. but I'm not a big talker either But I used to be really shy so I have nothing against shy people I love everyone
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Jul 10, 01
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my thoughts exactly!
i am very shy, well i wouldn't say shy, just really quiet if i have something to say, then i will say it...... just 75% of the time i can't think of anything to say! i always try to explain to my close friends that i feel like i come off as a snob to other people because i don't talk .....but they can't understand why people would think that i'm a snob.... but thats just cause they know me .... i have this stupid thing where if somebody doesn't talk to me, i don't talk to them cause i think that they don't want to talk to me....and if i start talking to them they'll be like " omigod...why is she talking to me??? what a loser!" i think i'm a good person and i try my best to live by plur..... i believe i'm a very introverted person when people first meet me, it takes a while for me to open up...but once i get comfortable with someone, i can have alot to say.... i like everybody no matter if they're shy, loud, obnoxcios, inbetweenie, quiet...doesn't really matter to me.....as long as they're nice and have an open mind.... i'll get along with them :279: :220: :Acidic: Last edited by starburst; Jul 10, 01 at 09:02 AM.
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Jul 11, 01
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I'm not very quiet...unless I'm in a really bad mood or sumthing...but one of my good friends is totally quiet!! sum ppl find it kinda wierd but shes just sorta shy around a lotta ppl. i think sum shy ppl can also be confused with snobs..i've assumed b4 that sum ppl who dont talk at all 2 me are just complete snobs when they r really just shy. i try not to do that nemore. I find one way to be more outgoing is just to smile at ppl. if anyone smiles at me i'll immediatly go and talk 2 them. smiles can break silence and not make things uncomfortable!
i think sumtimes i can be a bit too loud though... :p :Kimmie:
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