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Jul 03, 01
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~my heart hurts~
i dont know what to do.....my heart doesn't really hurt, it's just my feelings or emotions i guess that hurts. so many things are goin on right now that i can't handle....the weird thing is that i'll be watchin tv or talking on the phone and i'll start to cry for no reason at all. it's really scary cuz i don't know if i have a problem or what?!
i don't really want to or haven't talked to my friends about this cuz i just think that they'll like laugh or think i've lost it or something. i don't kno what to do........i really need a hug! anybody wanna gimme one? :027: 
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Jul 03, 01
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aaaaawwwww
never knew why didn't u say something we ya friends we wouldn't laugh at dis u just need someone to talk to aight if u need to talk just icq me or sumting <----- look 600 posts woo hoo hehe ne ways yeah need to talk my icq is right below this post ok *hugz*
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Jul 03, 01
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aww first off.. *BIG SQUISHY HUGZ*
ya. it might not do much cuz it's hte net but still.. anywayz.. i dunno u that well.. but i do hope things get better... but it's okie to cry.. sometimes crying helps... just talk 2 someone about it.. even if they can't give you advice it might help you sort it out in your own mind (it helsp meeh) and they might be able to see some things you don't.. i'm sure your friends won't laugh... just talk 2 one you trust.. *more squishy hugz* i hope things get better for you..
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Jul 03, 01
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*HUGZ*..
there is nuthin wrong with the crying thingy..i went thru that a lil while ago and it jsut gets u all upset and confustrated..then u start to get paranoid about wuts wrong with u but nuthin is wrong...maybe there is tooo much goin on and u just can't ahndle it all..or maybe ur sad over sumthing ur unsure of..or??..but yeah..i hope u get to talk this out with a friend and figure it out~..if u'd rather talk to a stranger about it...then..hey..feel freee to icq me or wutever..but yeah..*hugz*..hope u figure stuff out~..
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Jul 04, 01
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thanks guys~!!
*hugz* to all of you!! thanks so much! i know you guys are here to help me and i can talk to but i don't think i can....it just won't come out when i start to talk......
trevor....i know ur there but i don't know how to talk to you about this....when i can start to talk i'll come to you don't worry!! ~hugz~ the stupid thing is that even my best friend wouldn't understand me, she wouldn't laugh, she'll just keep quiet and think that she understands but she doesn't really......so i can't really talk to this to some friends yeah i used to cry over relationships too but i think i'm over that.....well hopefully i'm not crying bout that or am i? argh.....so confused and my heart really hurts!! ~*JUST A BIG HUG TO EVERYONE...THANKS!!*~
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Jul 04, 01
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this has happened to me many times before? i used to just sit at home at night and feel like shit and i couldn't really understand why i did. its so bloody annoying and its the worst because you are just sitting or lying there wondering why you feel so down. so if you don't really know whuts bothering you then there's really no cure to it. just take your mind off things or sleep to pass some time.
:Peenutt:
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Jul 04, 01
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Ohhhh sweetie . Ainslie!!!!! why didn't u tell me? ahhh are u turning it to me ...... oh hun u know i'm always here for u and i don't ever want u to feel that u can't come to me ..... i know i'm a way better listener then steph ok . hee hee u totally fooled me, i guess u picked up some tips from me. But u know what i have to say , i'm here to listen to u and i'm ALWAYS behide u , ok ..... pls phone me ( i know it is always busy) well we can go for lunch and have a good gurlie talk , ok ?
luv yeah *super big , almost suffercating hug*
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Jul 04, 01
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Re: thanks guys~!!
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but what usually works a bit for meeh.. i think things over for a few days.. and sometimse then it helps meeh.. either figure things out.. or helps meeh tell someone.. usually with meeh i'm just to scared to let my feelings show.. even to someone i trust.. it's just something you gotta learn to do. sometimes i find it easier to talk to someone i don't know.. like.. on the internet y'know? someone you don't know.. you know you won't ever see and you don't even have to talk 2 them again (if you don't want) and y'know.. even if the person you're talking 2 won't understand.. they can still try can't they? you can't always understand someone's situation.. but you can still give your opinion kinda thing about it. like especially a best friend... she'll know more about you as a person.. and she might be able to help you figure it out.. or just tell you how she sees it from you've said.. she might be able to help or she might not be able to.. but even just talking about it 2 someone might help u think it thru.. i hope things start looking up for u.. *big hugz* if you ever wanna just talk 2 someone.. you can icq meeh okie? and whoever it was who said it was quite pitiful as a guy 2 cry.. um.. i don't think it's bad for guys 2 cry? guys have emotions to. you cry when your over come with emotion.. and guys have emotions so who says it can't happen 2 them? meh.. id on't think it's bad for guys 2 cry...
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Jul 05, 01
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glenda i know ur here for me but this just never really bugged me until lately.......u'll always hear what i have to say way better than steph........just that emotions start pouring out and i can't stop it cuz i dont' know what it is. i'll call you for sure and we'll go have lunch and have a gurly talk but i'm afraid that i will start to cry when i talk about it.......but i will try....you don't suppose that it could still be u know what could it? i'm lost glenda!!
i do seem to find it easier to talk to ppl that i dont' know, thats y i'm postin this to get some feedback on what i'm goin through cuz i hell as sure don't know what it is so i hope that someone might.......i agree with i friend being there but i know her well enough that she will zone u out and not understand...........oh well you guys are here to talk to and to listen i try do to other things to get my mind off of it. i work 2 jobs, i'm goin to school, i'm skating and tryin to sleep it off but it keeps me up at night.....lying in my bed lookin at the ceilin trying to figure this all out.......nothin comes to me at all just tears........ i dont know what this is and i'm really scared.....could it be a big depressing stage or what? i think i'm thinkin too hard cuz i can't think of a solution, just the same thing goes over and over in my head i think it's totally fine for a guy to cry, it shows that they are sentimental and i like that in a guy....they do have feelings too and they cant' keep them all in, its just that guys have this image that its not manly to cry.........oh well
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Jul 05, 01
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just.. ya.. jsut wanted 2 say that... i hope you do get things figured out tho.. and about ur lunch thing with glenda.. maybe if your scared you'll start crying during you gurly talk.. just.. go somewhere quiet where no ones around.. like a park and have a picnic lunch? the weather is nice enuff.. ya.. just a suggestion.. good luck!
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Jul 05, 01
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thanks!! *hugz* i try not to push it off, i try to find out whats going on but i can't cuz it gets me more frazzled than i already am and i just give up......the thing is that i can't take off work really cuz my parents would kinda wonder and the last thing i want to do is me parents being in this.
has this happened to you? did you find out what was buggin you?i'm really trying to deal with it but i have to know what i'm dealin with first right? but that's the problem, i don't know what it is that i have to deal with.....? this whole thing is makin me so confused and fustrated and lost and totally not myself..........WHY DOES THIS HAVE TO BE SO HARD!?!?!?
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Jul 05, 01
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whoa......where's all this commin from? never told me anything......yeah this is wat i was goin thru a while ago.....the whole "wtf is wrong with me" stage........sux doesnt it? u sorta feel different from everyone else......like all ur friends are stupid.....and there is no one really to talk to.......icq me sometime and we'll talk if ur willing
-adam
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Jul 06, 01
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my butt hurts.
well my butt hurts cuz i sit funny.
whenever im feeling heart break i like to break things, rip things, burn things, basically destroyyyyy. to see something else break besides me.. so im not alone in the breakage. :Kimmie: after that i'll punch a wall or 2 then maybe cry for a bit, get fed up with crying and go find some comfort food or drink. and play video games till i pass out. in the morning i'll get up and have a long ass shower, just stand there till i turn all prune-ish. then go out and see friends. repeat the cycle till i feel better about myself. crying sucks cuz it makes me feel like a worthless emotionally retarded geek. so yeah. thats just me though. i usually get more pissed off if i cry. .end.
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Jul 06, 01
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np.. *big squishy hugz*
but try not to just give up.. i mean your confused int he first place..so when you first try to work things out..more things might cum to you and it'll get more confusing... and it's like ahhhhhhhhhh.fjsdklfjklsejk.xjvk.xufils3u lixjvm.jfes... but try not to give up on thinkingb out it. i mean you maybe confused but this confusion might lead to some answers.. i mean with meeh, things keep cummin 2 meeh when i start to think and it'sj ust like ah wtf... but sometimes if i just let those things keep cummin into my mind, they'll sorta help sort out other things y'know? and if you don't wanna do that.. like.. push some things outta your mind for a bit.. and focus on just one thing at time.. i mean it's like multi-tasking.. it's hard and can get confusing! it's sometimes just easier to focus on one thing at time..then maybe once you've figured that out i'tll make the others seem easier.. i dunno.. cuz things are dif for everyone.. and ya.. this kinda has/is happening to meeh.. i have alotta problems i have to deal with.. and i've put them off for so long they're all starting to catch up with meeh. and half the time i just get so blah and i don't even know why i'm just ugh! so i kinda know what you're goin thru.. i haven't figured things out yet.. it does take time.. and i know how confusing it can be to even try and figure things out when you don't even know half the time what exactly it is that's bothering you! it's just like so confusing..makes meeh wanna break something (i'm destructive..) just try figure things out.. take it step by step... go slowly.. and things'll start to take shape..make more sense and it might becum easier... just take it step by step.. cuz every step you take is a step closer to the finish... and about ur work.. ya if your parents would notice then.. arg! maybe not such a good idea... cuz i know the last thing i would want is my parents to get involved.. that'd make meeh feel even worse... if ya wanna talk more or anything u can always icq meeh.. or email meeh alrite?? take care..
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Jul 06, 01
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Ainslie remember when i went through that weird/sad/confused/depression stage? i didn't know what was wrong w/ me and i didn't know who i could turn too because i didn't think anyone could help. Well i know that everyone goes through that stage and it is so hella hard to get over because u don't even know what is wrong w/ ur self. When i went through it, it took a lot out of me but when i got through it i really felt good about where i was . I just want u to know even though it seem like there is no light at the end of the tunnnel , there actaully is ...... everyone goes through this but everyone get through it . For me i found out that i did need the support of my friends but i really needed to listen to myself ..... so u know where i am and i totally understand if u don't want to come to me because i too went to other ppl ( it really did help) but pls don't leave me completely out , at least up date me .... ok luv u lots .:027:
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Jul 07, 01
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i am trying to work this out and thinkin bout things. like i would be sittin there talkin to someone and then i would totally zone out and i'll be sittin there all quiet tryin to figure whats goin on. i'm gettin closer (i think) to the light at the end of the tunnel..........
destroyin things would help in some cases but in this case i don't think it's gonna happen.....i've tried but nope didn't work...........i am takin whatever this is step by step and tryin to disect the problem and finding what's wrong i know i can totally come to you guys for help and to talk to but like adam says, i do feel sorta diff then everyone else.....but i'll come to you glenda to talk when i feel i'm ready to talk.......=) *hugz* yeah adam, this totally sucks and of course i'm willing to talk, just didnt tell you cuz didn't think you'd really care
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Jul 07, 01
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thanks
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Jul 07, 01
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whats the "thanks" supposed to mean? i'm willing to talk to you about, i didn't tell you cuz i really didn't think that you would wanna hear me cry or whine.......?
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Jul 10, 01
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~update~
alright guys.....it's been a while since i last said what was up with me
i'm still lost and emotions are still hurting.........but i'm gettin better even though i really don't know 100% what is botherin me like the other day i came home from work and my parents were askin me questions and i was just like "uh yeah.......iono........" like nothin seemed to care in the world enough for me to get outta that weird stage that i was in that night......i had no emotions either......like i didn't laugh when my dad said a joke, i wasn't feeling hungry or thirsty or whatever after work cuz usually i am.........? nothin was going on in my body, it felt like i was dead maybe it's all this school work that i'm doin thats' just pullin me down and i don't care about ne thing? that could be it.........i've tried goin out and forgettin bout everything and so i went to the beach but that didn't help cuz i was worried that if i didn't do my hmk i would not pass and not get into a good university and my parents would disown me and i'd just sit there and i almost started crying...... omg........promised myself i wouldn't do this but i'm freaking crying right now!! WTF!!!! man i need a smoke right now:029: .......even though i don't smoke?? whats wit me?
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Jul 10, 01
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u ever smoke........i swear........
-adam
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Jul 11, 01
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adam.....if you know me well, you know that i would not even come close to picking up a cigarette....i would not even go anywhere near smoke right? u've been through this so what is goin to happen now to me? i really need ur help on how you overcame this....
kimmie thanks...ur right i do have alot goin on in my mind....i'll come and talk to you
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Jul 11, 01
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hmm how i came over this......
massive amounts of drugs! haha no......uh i guess i just realized that my friends dont have to be like me, in order for us to be friends........i think ur just @ the point where ur noticing u and ur friends differences.....just sorta hits u like "y am i friends with these people"......and always remember that these are not ur only friends........try hanging out with other people.......then once u start "missin" ur other friends u can go back to them and realize that they are infact ur friends............hopefully this is what u r goin thru and i was somewhat helpful -adam
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