Excessive Amounts of Rejection.

Rasputin · #1 (**permalink**) Jun 25, 01

I keep getting rejected, and it's damaging my mind. Rejection is what led me to become evil in the first place. I don't think I can stand any more rejection, but if I stop trying, then perhaps I have truly failed. Any ideas?

EminencE · #2 (**permalink**) Jun 25, 01

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Originally posted by Rasputin
I don't think I can stand any more rejection, but if I stop trying, then perhaps I have truly failed.

nice...
i like how you put that...

by giving up you -have- truely failed...
i guess it depends how big a deal you make it tho... personally, i think making a relationship work, hence, over coming rejection, isn't as huuuugeeee of a deal as some make it out to be. then again, that's only -MY- thing... other's may think differently..

my motto: if it doens't work out, it wasn't meant to be.

-TiFF-

acidic_liquid · #3 (**permalink**) Jun 25, 01

shit wrong thread.

hard_curls · #4 (**permalink**) Jun 25, 01

maybe your asking the wrong type of girls...

TiSty~ · #5 (**permalink**) Jun 25, 01

I agree with erin!
yoo will find the right person eventually dun wurry!

yoko* · #6 (**permalink**) Jun 28, 01

failed?? failed who? failed what? failed urself?

; )

i *fear* rejection that's why I rarely *ask* lol

Spaceman Spiff · #7 (**permalink**) Jul 01, 01

Stop feeling o god damn bad about yoursefl ya dumbass.
count the # of g/f's youve had in the last years.
it's a fuckload more than more people.
so stop yer fucking complaining, get off your ass, and keep trying!

so what if a few turn you down. that's what life's all about! failing! rejection!
it happens to EVERYONE.
fuck it happened to me just today.
do you see me moping about complaining about it? NO!
so get a brain. or at least use the one you've got.

Porpentine · #8 (**permalink**) Jul 04, 01

hahaha

(relating)

-lauren

Rasputin · #9 (**permalink**) Jul 05, 01

Yay! even more rejection today! happy happy me, I have rejection, and I have to go try to get another job, and job interviews are wonderful ways to get rejected.

cLinK · #10 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 01

you are so right.
job interviews are the perfect way to get rejected.

that is why i avoided them for 2 years, staying at my shitty ass job, because i fear being rejected if i try to go somewhere else.... aaah, the nice security of my shitty job

but, i went for an interview today. and weird enough, i am supposed to call the lady back!!! so i get to set up my own rejection.

fucking shit. i hate rejection. i don't know why

((sorry i am so bitter right now))

Serotonin · #11 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 01

It's better to strike out than not go up to bat!:BeatFarme

**sNyx** · #12 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 01

I have a few ideas why . . . .

*addy* · #13 (**permalink**) Jul 10, 01

I'm with Yoko on this one.
I never ever ask out guys. (well I never like any so...)
But not just talking about relationship shit, anything I really want, or want to do, my stupid passive and skeptic attitude gets in the way because i have a total fear of rejection.
It sucks...
trying to change though...

Rasputin · #14 (**permalink**) Jul 11, 01

Why's that Snyx? Cause I'm an arrogant asshole? or cause I'm a lardass? or cause I'm a bastard? or cause I think you should be thrown in a lake for being all gooby?

cLinK · #15 (**permalink**) Jul 11, 01

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Originally posted by *addy*

But not just talking about relationship shit, anything I really want, or want to do, my stupid passive and skeptic attitude gets in the way because i have a total fear of rejection.
It sucks...
trying to change though...

oh man, that's EXACTLY how i feel!! i think about doing something or going for something, and then i end up getting all skeptic about it, and worrying, and thinking to myself "well, they're just going to reject me anyway" and then i just don't do it.

well, either that or i just go "oh, i'll do it later", "i'll call later" , "i'll ask him out later" , "i'll drop my resume off later"

later never comes.
procrastinating is just an outlet for fear of rejection. it temporarily solves the problem

Serotonin · #16 (**permalink**) Jul 11, 01

Lived life like it was "now" and not tomorrow you would have an easier time dealing with opportunities.
luck is when preparation meets opportunity are you prepared?don't think about that cuz you already are.:Kimmie:

**sNyx** · #17 (**permalink**) Jul 12, 01

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Originally posted by Rasputin
Why's that Snyx? Cause I'm an arrogant asshole? or cause I'm a lardass? or cause I'm a bastard? or cause I think you should be thrown in a lake for being all gooby?

yeah, anyone of those should work.

Rasputin · #18 (**permalink**) Jul 12, 01

you're not worth the effort. I could have thrown you in while we were at the frasier, but well, it would have meant giving a shit, and generally I don't bother.

3dee · #19 (**permalink**) Jul 12, 01

if you want Rasputin you can throw me in a lake!!!!!
i love to swim
hahah

walkin · #20 (**permalink**) Jul 12, 01

why can't girls ask out guys?
it would make things a whole lot easier on the meee...
(i hate rejection also!)