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Mar 20, 03
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Giving up .......
on relationships and finding someone right 4 me...... i know this post has been made a billion times... now its my turn....
I GIvE UP ON IT ALL !!!! like seriously..... its fucken impossible to find someone that i'm compatible with..... i knwo the saying " oh wait for someone to come to you... " i've done that for 2 years....and its all BS !!!!! chicks are all head cases..... they give you mixed msg's... balhblahblahb....fuck it all..... RELATIONSHIPS SUCK ASS !!!!!!! PERIOD !!!. or even just trying to find a fucken date sucks ass and i've had it !! :finger: :finger: :finger: 
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Mar 20, 03
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awwwwww Tim *huggles*
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Mar 20, 03
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i'm not giving up
like there's not much to give up in the first place, right? i get hurt by guys i'm not even going out with, it scares me to think bout how much i'll get hurt by someone i do go out with but when someone comes along, it's a risk i'm willing to take but it is frustrating... i go out a lot (school, clubs/bars, gym, work) but i never meet guys well guys that seem to be interested :( but bitching won't get me any closer
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Mar 20, 03
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It's okay Tim. Chris and I have been bitching about this for sometime now. But the worst is when people tell you "as soon as you stop looking, you'll find someone." I always want to throw sharp objects at people who say this to me.
Because It's a LIE!
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Mar 20, 03
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OMG I'M 19 AND STILL HAVEN'T FOUND MY SPECIAL SOULMATE FOR LIFE THAT I CAN LOVE FOREVER AND EVER!! LOVE ME!!
Two years is nothing, some people spend their whole lives looking for someone and never find them. You're expecting too much from your relationships I think... Relationships don't suck, people that make relationships sucky, suck. I think you're trying to find an easy scapegoat to point your problems to, relationships don't suck if you know how to handle them, date people worthy and don't get into pointless relationships you know are just going to fuck you over.
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and i mean it if we say "stop looking" in the sense that we meet people without constantly having RELATIONSHIP tattooed our fuckin heads shit happens. just go with the flow.
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Mar 20, 03
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you think i'm a whiner.... uhhh NO ! i'm not whining about this situation... i'm just putting my view on how i feel about women n relationships n dating... as for rhianna's reply..... i know exactly what you mean... i just hate it when peps say that... i even say that to myself.... IT AIN'T GETTIN ME NOWHERE !!! for what Klaus said. how i'm just saying that to prepare for failure.... buddy i'm already there..... i've said that many times to prepare myself ......... BOTH FUCKEN WAYS DON'T WORK !! let me clear things up here...... i'm not lookin for my soulmate/ "THE INE " i'm just looking for a female that i can chill n hang out with, n be compatible with........ I don't ask 4 much i just as for the bare minumum..... i'm not picky at all ... make it simple I JUST WANT A GIRL WHO LIKES ME JUST AS MUCH AS I LIKE THEM.... or not even... i just want a girl who LIKES TO CHILL WITH ME !!! thats all.......... is that too FUCKEN MUCH TO ASK ???????? is that being sefish of me ?? i hope not...
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You give up WAAAAY to easy my friend. Thank god for your right hand eh? :kam:
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Mar 20, 03
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Tim that's deffinitely not too much to ask. Where do you try to meet girls usually? Maybe try somewhere completely different than usual?
I'm not sure what your confidence level is like as far as aproaching girls goes, but if you can do it, go for it. Just introduce yourself or whatever, and I'm sure with in a few seconds you'll be able to tell if she's interested in you. If she's not interested in you that's her loss, not yours! It's easier said than done, but try not to get discouraged because I'm sure if you act confident and be yourself, there are plenty of girls around that would be interested in you. Hope you have some luck.
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Mar 20, 03
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warning: since i don't know you, i will be judging you by what i've seen in your posts (so don't be pulling all that, "you don't know me" crap out of your hat)
it doesn't seem like you want a relationship at all, i mean, you refer to girls boobs as *ahem* fiegs... i mean for god sakes, what kind of girl finds that attractive? you don't seem too smart when it comes to the opposite sex, maybe learn a thing or two first, then try again. quality girls want quality guys, simple as that.
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Mar 20, 03
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^ thx :) i definetly with take that into thought.......
k as well lemme clear up this 2 year thingy.... it's been 2 years since i've been in a relationship... i mean a real deep intimate relationship...... and by my saying giving up.... i mean i've just had it with the whole wanting to date/ get into a relationship... or whatever you wanna fucken call it..... if anyone knows what i mean i don't have to explain it any further..........
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Mar 20, 03
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*heh maybe not appropriate now...but still funny*
maybe if you stopped referring to chicks as "FEEGS" then maybe we would appriciate your attempts at being serious... it's like you have a little devil...or two...on your shoulders yelling "FEEGS" into your head...*hahaha* AND YOU LISTEN!!!!
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Mar 20, 03
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FEEGS = Pussy in Italian ( I hang around with a lot of italian guys so i've kinda grown adapt to their lil burnaby lingo lol.... hahaha
howeva.... i use Feeg a lil more loosely..... Feeg = chicks, girls, pussy, hotties... etc.
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Mar 20, 03
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i'll tell ya this much......
all girls say its all about personality to them..... you wanna know what... thats a bunch of BS and you know it....... i've seen the hot girls go out with " HOT " guys...or " BAD" boys...... or i bet you if you had a " UGLY " guy and a " HOT" guy beside each other and you had a girl choose... 100 bucks says they'd choose the hot guy.... LOOKS DOES MATTER ! and don't tell me it doesn't cause thats a crock of shit :P ! and you girls know it. If your a hot guy = more girls hang out with, go out with, fuck em, etc..... make it simple... if your good looking you don't have as much trouble as a " UGLY " guy. so thats what i have to say about this whole personailty BS thing. like i said i'm not asking to find miss right or nufin...i just wanna enjoy chillin with chicks........... AT LEAST !
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