feeling all alone

GoGo_Gurl · #1 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

I knew this move wasnt going to be easy, i knew that there were going to be times when i just needed to cry.

Now is one of those times. But i'm missing a shoulder to cry on.

Timdareez · #2 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

where you living now ?

mojo · #3 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

i have 2 shoulders
pick one if you like.

GoGo_Gurl · #4 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

downtown van

Timdareez · #5 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

ahhh thats nothin.... just walk outside and theres a million things to do n people to meet...

GoGo_Gurl · #6 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

Have u ever felt like u just needed to cry. Not really for n e reason. Just needing to cry and hvaing someone hold u tight and tell u everything will be ok

Cowboy · #7 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

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Originally posted by GoGo_Gurl
Have u ever felt like u just needed to cry. Not really for n e reason. Just needing to cry and hvaing someone hold u tight and tell u everything will be ok

actually...my ex gf was like that.....except without the holding thing...she would jus want to cry for no reason and she would get pissed off if i tried to figure out what was upsetting her.......

i can't handle freaks like you guys.....get a grip..hehe im totally jokin bout that.....

so in a way i kinda know what you mean....but not first hand...

corrie

GoGo_Gurl · #8 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

this being 17 and living on ur own is alot harder then i thought. Not saying i cant do it. But i'm used to having my mommy right beside me .... wow what a child i must have sounded like.

I dont know i guess i just need to feel special or safe. I'm needing some form of security

cyberdog · #9 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

I know how U feel, babe...been there, done that, more than once...but I'll be home soon hun...and U can have either shoulder, I'm not picky...and U are special, and there's no reason U shouldn't feel safe...

Timdareez · #10 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

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Originally posted by GoGo_Gurl
Have u ever felt like u just needed to cry. Not really for n e reason. Just needing to cry and hvaing someone hold u tight and tell u everything will be ok

kinda.... except replace the cryin with depression... then your right on the money............

GoGo_Gurl · #11 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

^^ i have been doing that one for the past 3 months. i think it has all finally caught up to me though

Ree Fresh · #12 (**permalink**) Mar 30, 03

Look on the positive side! I traveled all alone for over 6 months on the other side of the world. It realy scared me at first, and had its realy REALY loanly times. A phone call helped but i had to find other ways to make new freinds constintly along the raod. I got use to it fast and did my best to ignore the sad feeling.

First off your lucky you live dt. Go out! You have such an opertunity to make heeps of freinds in the centre of Van!

Get a flat mate! I lived with 4 others for 41/2 months in a 3 bedroom. Therefore most the time I had someone to watch tv or talk too. Getting along at times was a difrent story.

Invite ppl over! Soon enough youll have to meny ppl stoping by to see yeah or crash when ever their dt.

But stand tall and be proud of what you can acomplish. You must of always dreamed to have a place all on your own. Its all in the mind.

Other wise a good cry never hurts.

sungoo · #13 (**permalink**) Mar 30, 03

...
I remember when I was away from my friends and family for 3 months, when I got back it made me realise how important they were to me.

Ragga_Wh0re · #14 (**permalink**) Mar 30, 03

poor girl *hugz* keep ur head up sweety ur a lot better off over here than u were over there :) dont forget why u came here

dj4mula · #15 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

call me!!!!!

I need something to do on Wednesday.

wigglesworth · #16 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

"The time in your life when you feel the most lonely, is the time when you most need to be alone."
Or something like that.

Its true, because when you feel lonely, you tend to think a lot. Think about your problems, whats going to make you happy, the future, etc. Being alone during this time gives you MORE time to think about your life.

I went through it, and it helped me more then i can express.

take care, you'll figure things out eventually.

Crazy Dave · #17 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

If you are ever freaked out or board, and you see me on line go a head and call. I'm up late hours and normally I'm only 1/2 working. (604-597-3110)

I'm stuck in delta, with most of my friends working day jobs, and/or living downtown. I have a lot of time Monday-Thrusdays.

Fuck I remeber my first place, I left home in a big fight, took 2 large friends late evening to grab my shit, parents did not have the balls to face me. Stayed till the end of the month at a friend, and then we moved in to a new appartment. It was weird, total head fuck standing in my own home, my home, my own place, with no parents to even talk to, tell me what to do, or to know they where if I needed them.

Candy-Kid · #18 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

Yo call me sometime. I'll come over and bug ya. Love yas V

strawberr_E · #19 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

awww poor girl! *hugz* here maybe you'll be entertained by this *does a funny dance*

miss.myra · #20 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

Not to sound harsh, but why would you move out if you're not ready to emotionally or financially?

Yeah, we all end up loathing where we grow up, but I think being truly ready to embark on something like this truly outweighs other urgencies (boredom, etc.)

Jingles · #21 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

^ but Myra -prepared or not the feeling of lonliness can be overwhelming when you move out all on your lonesome. I was totally ready to do it when I did, but at first I knew few people, had no cable, no parents and what not - just me and my kitty and that's very isolting - Loniness doesn't = immaturity, she was expressing emotion that is by no means uncommon for someone first out on their own, especially while still a teen - I think over the last while we have heard that she felt the only way to stay sane was to move out - ready or not those were her feelings and she made the tough call to act on them......and she has every rigt to come on here and reach out for human contact - I did the same with LX until I got settled, cause it was long distance to call home and sure didn't have that money to burn!

Jingles

miss.myra · #22 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

Being ready emotionally doesn't necessarily mean that you won't be lonely, though.

BabyBlaze · #23 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

it will all be ok...im 17 and i wanted to live on my own for the longest time....but i think i will wait...yea i know exactly what its like when u move away and dont know any one and shit its sometimes hard and other times great...but yea ive moved a lot in my life and been to 14 different schools...and sometime s the stress of everything and not having ur close friends around any more makes u want to cry...but it always gets better....and i dont know what im rambling for...but i hope it all works out

bebu*funfun · #24 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

its 8:02 ..i feel like crap right now. i wish i wasn't an over emotional girl who feins for company. right now i just need a shoulder to lean on.. theres too many couples who surround me... grrz. damn ya all.. yes im bursting with jealousy.

zarlon · #25 (**permalink**) Apr 02, 03

Yeah. I feel ya. twenny fo' seven... man.

:sick: