some advice please.......

[knome]

my parents have been spilt up for a couple of years and every year in the summer i go and visit my father in quensel,and i would always come back in september because i had too go to school, now that i graduated my father and mother are fighting over me were iam going to live....i dont wanna have to choose between my parents and i dont wanna make anyone unhappy.do you think iam making a little thing into a big thing or what ?
huz and kandy kisses
nichole

[bebe]

i dont think ur making it a big deal or whatever.... its rite to think abt it throughly since it is a very important decision.....i understand that u wanna please both ur mom and ur dad, but u also have to think of urself......
u gotta ask urself a few questions.....
-where do u like living better?
-where r most of ur friends? etc.

maybe u can live here and visit ur dad during vacations... or that kinda stuff.....
but one thing is that dont 4get urself when ur making the decision.... ive been through the same thing myself....
so just take some time and think abt it.... hope everything turns out ok... *hugz*

~elmar

[mister-peenutt]

i agree with bebe. you will have to give some input to your parents about where you want to live because you are really going to be happier at one or the other place. think about it thouroughly and talk to you parents about it. tell them how you feel and why you feel like that. they should understand. BUT don't make a desicion just to make one side happy. because you might not be happy and that would suck

:Peenutt:

[~lazee_grrl~]

no i don't think ur makign a big deal outta this becuz it sorta is a big thing goin on in ur life...when my parents were about to split..my mom gave no choice but for all of me and my sisses to stay with her and she even wanted us to testify in court against him for stuff..but yeah...sorry..off topic...but yeah..where do u plan on goin to skool or wutever ur doin since u've graded??..is it gonna be near ur mom or ur dad?..it all really depends on u but as vince and elmar have already said..don't do it just to make parents happy...ur gonna hafta let one of them down...they shouldn;t even be fighting over u..ur not no trophy...they just luv u and wanna live with u..btu yeah...take ur time to think about it..and make sure u explain to both of them why u chose where to go...its harsh..but i wish u luck on ur decision and hope u make the rite decision for ur sake...ever need to talk then msg or or sumthing.....take care~..

[Mand-E]

i agree with all of the above advice...u just gotta all sit down and talk it out, so everything works out for everyone's best intrests.
------remember 2 discuss and not argue!! luv mand-e

[knome]

thanks guys !!!things still haven't cleared up but iam sure everything will work in the end !

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