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May 14, 03
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I need ur opinion
i have a close friend thats like a bro to me .....recently he heard sum shit said bout his family and gf that i trashed talked them . i tried to explain myself but he didn't let me . so is it my fault that this problem is getting bigger ? well i didn't intend in any way to say mean shit if i did, but i know i never said any bad shit behind their backs. i think this is elementary shit and i feel like i should drop it and leave cuz i don't need this immature shit in my life . he should know me better ! well why would i trash talk my own friends gf and family what kind of frien would that make me ? and what kind of friend is he if he jus heard second hand info and never heard me out. well what should i do ? i say its his loss !tell me what u think?
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May 14, 03
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What kind of friend would you be if you just tossed the friendship away without trying to keep it together? A pretty shitty one... I think you should just confront and have a talk with him and if he's too immature to wanna give you a chance to talk it out, then yah, just ditch the bitch and move one.
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May 14, 03
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thats what is actually happening thats why i wanna drop the friendship i know i aint doin anything wrong so if he was a friend he would hear me out so i guess i jus wanted to hear what people had to say bout it .so far 90% of the people i talked to said fuk it if he's being immature so yeah i guess i would fuk it cuz its jus a waste of time and its not my loss
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May 14, 03
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I say just give it time. But why's he being an ass? Like, he's totally listening to other ppl and rumors but he's not listening to you? When you're like, one of his closest friends? Doesn't make sense...but don't drop a good friendship over something stupid like this.
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May 14, 03
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if hes like your brother, then he should know you wouldnt say shit... its kinda trite and immature. granted fight for the friendship but what kind of friendship is it if he thinks that lowly of you? if one of my closest friends believed someone else over me, and it was a lie, then i think id come to the realization of who that person is. sounds like grade 6 to me.
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May 14, 03
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his gf was the one who made it worse she hates me . she gets jealous that i spend one time every 2 months to chill wit him so i dunno thats fucked. i didn't throw anything away he ended it with that . being kinda immature the way i see it . he aint my friend cuz he should know me by now. why would i do this now? it doesn't make sense and i'm fuken sober i don't start shit i like helping people but i don't need any of that shit cuz there is no more trust
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May 14, 03
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if he just found out and won't talk, give him a few days or something. he might just be really pissed off about it. given a few days to cool off he might come to the realization that as a good friend, you wouldn't do that.
if he's already had sometime to cooloff and is still being immature, drop it. if he wants to be friends again he can come to you.. you tried and gave him a chance. if he doesn't want to take it, his fault.
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