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when they dont like u back..
I liked this guy..that is to remain namless for a while..and he was so wicked..but then he says he doesnt like u "that way"..and then u look like a love sick fool..that just chased him like a lil school girl all over the playground..and u wanna hide under blankets..because u feel like an ASS you ever thought of him like that! Sheesh! has this ever happened,u put your heart out and then got it stepped on..and u dont even have ur pride..meh I'm getting over it...just feel like an ass is all..but it kinda broke my heart
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That is pretty much a perfect description of what happened to me in highschool (with the guy/girl role reversed). It's all part of the "learning" experience, or so they tell me. |
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you will learn this as you get older that guys are like that they give mixed signals and you dont know what to expect.I have done this to girls in the past and i know that they dont like it...thats why you cant give your love out to just anyone!
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Yah it sucks to put your heart on the line and then having someone tear it down, throw it on the ground and beat the living bloody shit outta it.. I've had this done a couple of times by girls who don't wanna "risk losing the friendship".. it hurts like a bitch but wouldn't you rather take the chance and lose than alway's regret not trying? Never knowing if there could of been more? I hate the wondering more than the rejection..
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Him not 'liking' you in 'that way' is the suck - but at the same time, it may just be a matter of him getting to know you --so try to put him on the back burner and go persue other male options and ya just never know what the future holds - Ultimately if he doesn't want you as a girlfriend at least he was good enough to say something, giving you a chance to move on
some guys don't offer that courtesy, they string ya along Que sera sera whatever will be wil be..... |
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Magi is right, it's all a learning experience,
I went through similar situations when I was younger and I'm sure most people have. Unfortunatly it's had a pretty bad impact on me in a sense that I've pretty much withdrawn myself emotionally from any situation where there is possible love or romance involved. I began dating when I was way too young, and I used to totally fall for guys and get all caught up in trying to find the perfect relationship or whatever and I got hurt at a really fragile time in my life. So take it easy hun, don't let it effect you the same way shit like that has effected me. |