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Jul 19, 03
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attraction/infatuation? (someguy's kinda topic #2)
dood. connor if ur reading this...haha.. i know u'll answer!
everyone else... please emphasize and comment freely! so when ur mind has been infected with one person and it eats up ur thoughts when u wake up to the time u sleep.. and u've talked to that person for roughly a month... is it infatuation? this is somebody that has attracted u not sexually. but more like.. u would actually wanna go out w/ this person or be a good friend kuz u have much in common. and is it worth giving this person a shot? especially if they share relatively the same feelings about you. usually i would think infatuation with someone is when u just dream about screwin them or something (or for guys and nymphos anyway). thoughts? although there are total dead ends blocking the way.. i still wanna know thanks. Last edited by ty:rone; Jul 19, 03 at 12:56 AM. 
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Jul 19, 03
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infatuation is (well I think so at least) when you're all dreamy and shit about them.. like, when you get butterflies when you think about 'that person'. Shrug guess it's different for everybody though, and I find infatuation wears off reaaal fast
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Jul 19, 03
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umm... infatuation and attraction are the same thing
infatuation vs. love, now there's a real comparison john 2899131
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Jul 19, 03
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^good point/comparison.
i would totally go for it. it's just so darn attractive and great to be lusting after someone you see day-in/day-out! it's not love but the feelings you feel when you're like that are way more intense then some loves. if you feel that intense towards someone then you should so go for the person! if you're such great friends and have so much in common then there should be no problem.
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Jul 19, 03
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still some hurdles that are kinda hard to jump..
habitat distance between us ok i guess it'snot lust then... plus other stuff i haven't mentioned ... kinda mite scare people away. and i would kinda know i would get more negative feedback maybe if i threw out the other realities i'll see in a month :p
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Jul 20, 03
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wow tyrone is liking a girl? tehehe amazing.
ty, just dont get wound up in obsession or thinking too much about it. there will always be obstacles in every relationship, but its just the matter if you are ready and willing to overcome the obstacle. if you think she is amazing and you are "infactuated"... that is (to me) a total form of lust. im a big luster... every guy i lust have qualities that i admire.. but be careful dont blind yourself in their positives and perfection.. open your mind and let things flow and let time tell you what is right and wrong. listen to your gut feelings... thats what ive been doing.. and currently its making me really upset...but its better than getting myself hurt even more in the end.
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Jul 20, 03
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i think if a girl is on your mind that much you should definately do something about it
i mean hey, even if she doesnt feel the same way, atleast you'll know so you can move on right? john 2899131
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Jul 21, 03
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but she does feel the same way
but she also knows why i can't fall for her and damn... bev if i told u.. much rather anyone.. they'd all be like.. whoa ty.... easy man... r u crazy!!?? it sucks to find someone that matches u so well... to find out that to work it out.. is like tryin to win the lottery
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Jul 21, 03
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it sucks to find someone that matches u so well... to find out that to work it out.. is like tryin to win the lottery
so feeling u on that one!:(thats what happened to me when i was in calgary. I wih u the best of luck
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Jul 22, 03
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i dont think that infatuation and attraction are the same thing at all. when i think of attraction i think of having interest in a person ... wanting them, loving them etc. if you are attracted to someone they posses a quality that you admore therefore wich to be with them. where as infatuation is usually thought of as more of a short lived passion .... foolish, unreasoning, or extravagant passion or attraction. So infatuation can involve attraction but the two are completely different.
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Jul 22, 03
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tyrone tyrone tyrone........girl troubles hey...........shiet.......well....everyo ne has written down what i would have written if i read this before they did...hahaha......infatuation is short lived.......that shit will pass ........attraction is way different......if u want to be with someone....share the same interests ect.....that's another level itself....which i find is more important that infatuation or lust as some people said. Being able to connect with another person on any level weighs more then infatuation definately. You should go for it......what have u got to lose.....if ur still not sure if it's infatuation or attraction....wait it out a bit......i'm pretty sure one day it will just click in your head....you'll know you want more then just sex. It's better to give it a shot then to not try at all......it's better to have tried then have regrets. :smoke1:
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Jul 22, 03
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Infatuation usually comes on fast and hard, and ends alot sooner than real love or interest. If you barely know the person and you are thinking about them all the time, including lusting over them (but not soley or that IS just plain lust.. trust me I am constantly lusting over people I meet) than it is most likely infatuation. If you get to know the person very well, including their faults and you still can't stop thinking about them and wanting them around you (not just for sex) then that is something worth taking a chance at.
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Jul 23, 03
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i think i wil gib it a shot. and ignore all those boundaries that are limiting us from seeing each other
we miiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight give it a shot it's not really infatuation anymore bev... gosh. we should trade sad stories .. on saturday or something. .
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