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I can relate to how you feel. Time just goes way too fasy for its own good. But have no fear, you will sumtime or another grip on to what you want in life and everything will seem to fall on track. But also think that working and partying isnt a complete waste, as least you are going out there and giving er! and haveing times were you can actully find youself. These are the best years of your life,as long as your surrounded by good friends and goodtimes maybe its not a complete waste..and maybe your not completely lost...just miss guided like a raver on a mission for water that gets side tracked! hahaha sorry I had to add that in!
I hope you find yourself and good luck..but for now enjoy these werds of advise and a massive hug from hers truly HUGWHORE! *SQUEEZE TIGHT AND SHAKES* |
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I'm reading the same book these days, its pissing me off. I feel like i'm on the brink of something, something big. I've felt this feeling for a long time weird |
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the only way to have you sense any kind of direction in your life is to have things to look forward to in the future. those things are able to guide your focuses and not let them run wild. you can reach a goal (example..getting a job).. be fulfilled and think you've found yourself. but when the job get old.. you lose ureself again. its a big cycle
that makes sense to me..cuz i know thats how i get lost all the time. once in a while i make myself name 5 things that makes my life worth living for at the second.. sometimes its tough to even name 3, but i force myself to reach out and think of EVERYTHING that is around me. the main key thing that i look forward to is a "successful" future... career. and to that ive commiting almost everything towards it. and im DESPERATELY looking around for hobbies.. because like you said.. partying, working, now schooling.. doing those 3 gets old FAST. im done my babbling.. my advice to you.. get to know yourself better, think of possiblities of things that might fulfill you and see if those things can get you back on the yellow brick road. once ure on teh yellow brick road.. you have to fight to stay on it. human beings get lost a lot.. its a typical thing. all that might take a while, but drowning sorrows and thoughts with alcohol ALWAYS work. Last edited by bebu*funfun; Aug 20, 03 at 01:09 PM. |
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Don't worry Adam...
When you start elementary, you have to decide: felts or crayons. When you go from elementary to high school, you have to decide which clique you wanna associate with... you wanna be popular but you like playing chess, you know? When you graduate high school, you're pressured into the "what do I want to be" syndrome. Some go straight to college/university almost certain that the career choice that they've wished for is suddenly crashing and too hard to keep up with; or some take a break from school, and try to explore their options, but find themselves hitting brick walls cuz, nowadays you either need the education background to get yourself anywhere, or need to know somebody who knows somebody, right? When you finally feel like you're in the right place at the right time, there's is that moment of peace... THEN you're bombarded with more intense life decisions, such as... finding your soulmate, "is this who I want to be" syndrome, "is this where I want to be" syndrome, life-long career, etc. It's natural that you have all these feelings of confusion and uneasiness. You just have to take this opportunity to really assess and truly ask yourself.... ARE YOU HAPPY? Go after your dreams.... try new things... explore. It's never to late to do those things if that is what makes one happy. :kimmie: |
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I thought Adam's big weekly life decision was deciding between girl #1, 2, 3 or working out on his forearm. I myself am still working on deciding which breakfast cereal to buy at Superstore.... Honey Nut Corn Flakes seem to be best right now. |