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Aug 31, 03
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girl problems... need advice
alrite... il make this short and sweet...
ive known this girl for like a month now but ive actually seen her countless times with friends but we never really had the chance to chat... funny thing is that she lives in coquitlam.. well whoopty fuckin doo.. i live on coquitlam too.. she knows all of my friends and i know all of her friends so theres nothin that could go wrong.. so we got talkin and started meeting up and we have everything in common.. and i mean everything... its fuckin awsome and shes soo hot too... but shes been havin trouble with guys cuz eariler in the summer she got drunk and made out with one of her guy friends while her boyfriend wasnt there... so she tryed to explain to him what happened but he didnt care so he broke it off and bla bla bla she has a bad rep with the south central burnaby ppl cuz her ex was spreadin shit about her that wasnt true now and she said that she cant wait till school starts so she can get her mind off men cuz its been hell for the rest of the summer .. and thats a bad thing cuz next summer shes goin to europe so i dont really have a chance to actually "date" her ... fuck ... and ive asked her out and shes like Partizan u know i would but i cant u know why bla bla bla.. and im like :soak: fuck so is there any way to get this girl ??? seriously.. this is like my dream girl here... 
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Aug 31, 03
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alright if snow white says so...
we'll see what happens.. yeah she is trouble.. shes the type of person who can have a crush on one guy one day and other guy the nextivana day.. anyways... she chose me over one of my friends who was seeing her before and now schools gonna start.. and im pissed...
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Aug 31, 03
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Veni c is right, and tell you the truth, dont hold your self to just wanting one girl, she is starting to confuse the issue. Get out before you get in to deep.
Theres still life in the shallow end. Dont go to the deep end unless you know you can trust who you will be swimming with. Ohhh, and thanx for what you said in my thread. I agree, and im glad there is mutuals out there.
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Aug 31, 03
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yeah but shes like .. one in a billion !!!!!!
ahhhhhh this is driving me fuckin nuts.... ideal girl for me.. likes everything that i like... speaks my language... get along realllly great... flirt alot and tease... and i got a special relationship wit her cuz out of all of her friends she talks to me and her best girl friend when she has problems cuz she knows im not gonna use it against her and backstab her like her ex did.. yea... awsome relationship
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Aug 31, 03
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as i said we'll see what happens.. but still.. its like.. damn..
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Aug 31, 03
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i know your a great person..but think about it...all her friends are against her and everything...so she doesnt really have very many friends anymore...right?......so mabie she is using you?sounds like she is needing someone right now to fill her void.
just be careful man. i can see this going bad. after she has seriously hurt you :-( ~V
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Aug 31, 03
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alright, fuck all these other lame asses.
if she is one in a billion.. DONT LET HER GO. get together for coffee or something go down toenglish bay and be straigh up.. that is the only thing you can do. Tell her that she means so much to you and that your not gunna end up like the last fucking knobbs shes been with. dude trust me...if she means that much, you have to let her know. it will make you feel better for getting it out and her for knowing. if it all goes to shit, then you already feel better cause you have let this huge weght off your chest, if it goes good and she decides to give you a try, then kudos to ya brother.
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Aug 31, 03
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aussies_angel ... yeah i was thinkin bout tellin her how i feel but then tha'd be fucked for her cuz schools starting and she doesnt want none of that right now... so if i tell her shes gonna be totally messed up...
veni c... it wasnt actual "dating" it was more just gettin together and spending some time together shit i dunno what to do.. im thinkin bout waitin till christmas or somethin.. the thing is i totally doubt that im gonna meet a girl like her again.. im pretty damn sure she isnt using me right now cuz we talked about it alot and what her ex did to her and shit im pretty sure she isnt using me shes not the type of person to do that
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Aug 31, 03
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DUDE!! thinking about it, her fucked for school come on what the hell kindda cop out is that shit. its not gunna fuck her up knowing that someone cares about her, give your head a shake.
TELL THE GIRL and stop being such a pussy, its not going to fuck up anything, its not telling her that will fuck shit up.
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Aug 31, 03
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haha
see the thing is im afraid that if i say that it wont be the same way from her... then she'll be like lets just be friends im gonna be hella jealous of every guy who puts his hands on her i think i need to give her some time to recover from all the shit that happened in the summer.. get her mind together.. then il tell her how i feel about her cuz shes not gonna go for men till next summer for sure so i sorda have an advantage
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Aug 31, 03
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your a fucking fool! did you just read what you said!?!?!?
i think you should call me so i could put a lil perspective on things for you... *shakes head and mumbles to herself* these fucking idiots and relationships... why dont we all just fuck sheep!
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Aug 31, 03
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so you think you should sit there and fall in love with her more and let her tease you?!! what if she says no after all of this? girls do shit like that man!! im telling you! then your gonna be all heartbroken and shit. and you dont need that. seriously you should talk to her now. just think about it...if you get yourself in deeper and if you get rejected in the long run (which i am not saying is gonna happen for sure..but IF) then its gonna suck soooo much more. :-(
~V
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Aug 31, 03
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^^^^ true true...
its all fucked haha.. all odds against me il give it some thought cuz this is seriously fucked what if i tell her tomorrow and get rejected??? cuz i dont wanna come on too strong damnit... how could i tell her how i feel without makin her think i just want a peice of ass..
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Aug 31, 03
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ok i just come out and tell her im crazy about u ur my dream girl bla bla bla il make up some cheesy shit that would work with any other girl but the thing is she doesnt wanna be in love right now she doesnt want a relationship and if i tell her she'll know that i want a relationship and shel remind me that thats not wat she wants and probally tell me no
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Aug 31, 03
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you tell her staight up...say this is how i feel. you dont have to be all crazy about it...*no make out music nessecary*....if you being honest with someone RUINS something...then thats not a good thing right there....and mabie its not worth the heartache. (getting rejected now is better than in like 6 months when your in complete love with this person....if that happens)
~V
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Aug 31, 03
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hmmm... thing wit me is i fall in love very easily... so does she.. thats one of the bad things we have in common... i dont know if its worth the heartache either and im totally confused about this... this are bound to go wrong either way...
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