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Old Apr 13, 01
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For all the people who say "I love you" when they have no clue what love is exactly!!! Something to ponder upon.....
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?? It isn`t love, it`s like. You can`t keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?? It isn`t love, it`s lust. Areyouproud, and eager to show them off?? It isn`t love, it`s luck. Do you want them because you know they`re there?? It isn`t love, it`s loneliness. Are you there because it`s what everyone wants?? It isn`t love, it`s loyalty. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?? It isn`t love, it`s low confidence. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don`t want to hurt them?? It isn`t love, it`s pity. Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat??It isn`t love, its infatuation. Do you pardon their faults because you care about them? It isn`t love, it`s friendship. Do you tell them every day they are the only one youthink of?? It isn`t love, it`s a lie. Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?? It isn`t love, it`s charity. Does your heart ache and break when they`re sad?? Then it`s love. Do you cry for their pain, even when they`re strong?? Then it`s love. Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soulso deeply it hurts?? Then it`s love. Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you closeand holds you there??Then it`s love. Do you accept their faults because they`re a part of who they are?? Then it`s love. Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?? Then it`s love. Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?? Then it`s love. Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why? The answer is so simple - cause it`s... LOVE.
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~breezy


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Old Apr 13, 01
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A lot of people mistaken infatuation for love. It's a word that's taken too lightly these days. And because of that, I feel that it's lost some of it's meaning.
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Old Apr 14, 01
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the word love has lost alot of meaning...more to certain ppl then others.

i've known to ppl to tell they're bf or whatever that they love htem...not even after a week...how can you love someone like that?? i don't get it...

but with certain ppl i know, i know they take it seriously because well..teh way they will talk about it and what not...

but i lvoed what that was...if you wrote it? good job....it was really nice...

teh last part totally described how i've been feeling 2.. *sighs* i really liked it.. =]
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Old Apr 14, 01
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ya.....the word love is pretty much meaningless.

only cumming from certain ppl for meeh it has somewhat meaning. but it never does that much.. it's only words. anyone can say anything, but can you show it? can you prove it to meeh? can you act upon it?

actions always mean more then words...

words are nothing..ntohing but sounds cumming from out mouths.....meaningless...absolutely meaningless....
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Old Apr 14, 01
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We need to speak spanish or italian or something that has more words for love. =) Like even viet has about 5 different words of love
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Old Apr 14, 01
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I've never been in love so i wouldn't know.
but I'd imagine it's like an orgasm...
if you're not sure you've experienced one.. then you haven't..
heeheeheeheeheehee!!!!!!!!! :031:


--Joanne :P
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Old Apr 14, 01
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like an orgasm? hehe

i think is love is better then that..cuz the feeling last longer and it stays with u....hehe

but orgasms are great 2! woo.. :023:
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Old Apr 14, 01
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I think it has something to do with sex...
like for instance...making love....??
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Old Apr 15, 01
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Love is a sentiment that acquires & combines devotion, hatred and grief.


On the other hand...
Love is an activity that can allow more than 2 parties to participate in order to kill time in a somewhat productive way.


Chao-O
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Old Apr 15, 01
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Quote:
Originally posted by bananasinpjs
I've never been in love so i wouldn't know.
but I'd imagine it's like an orgasm...
if you're not sure you've experienced one.. then you haven't..
heeheeheeheeheehee!!!!!!!!! :031:


--Joanne :P
:026: hillarious joanne!!

i knew that would only come from a person like yoU!! haha.. and THAT's why I love ya!! hhaha

-TiFF-

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Old Apr 16, 01
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Love is a powerful feeling.. it can overcome anything..

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Old Apr 16, 01
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Um.....

Uh...not all the time...some things it can't overcome...

Even when two people truly love each other...Trust me
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Old Apr 16, 01
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I second that Kimmie... :P
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Yeah...well...if it could overcome anything...then life would be a lot easier for a lot of people...

I guess you learn this with experience...and life itself
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Old Apr 17, 01
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I'm in love with Jen!

-Kam
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Old Apr 17, 01
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love = poo.

love is a 4 letter word. kinda like pain, hate, lust, like, pity, give, take, play, work, etc. you get the point. society has planeted in our heads that love has to be flawless, that it will occur naturally. that to be in love, you have to be 2 beautiful ppl with perfect lives, nice cars, and lotsa money.

i've never been in love before... i dont like love and i'm pretty sure love doesn't like me... it seems every guy that goes out with me thinks they love me.. [wtf] i've heard it all before. but none have lived up to it. ive heard it all so much... it almost means nothing to me.

fuck that. fuck it all. you wanna know what i think love is?? devotion, loyalty, honesty, affection, good sex, physical, emotional and spiritual balance. love is watching the them in their fuckin sleep in such an awe cuz you can't believe they are there with you. you are so fuckin' mesmorized by them and you dont want to sleep because you wanna watch over them incase anything bad happens. protect them. love is fuckin' not caring what others think, who they think is better for you, who is hotter than your other half or whatnot. but knowing that. even if there is. it wont matter to you cuz you love the person and to you, there is no better. no comparison. love is fuckin' dropping everything, your fuckin' life for them. because without them. there is no fuckin' life. i could go on forever.. but why bother. love is different for each person. to me, love is fuckin' living in fear of falling too hard for the person that i would avoid them.. yet it will hurt me more than anything to see them slip away from me. i dont know how to love. i dont know what it is. i'm still trying to understand myself... so why should i put that aside so i can understand someone else. i'd rather love myself. someone i know will never abandon me. than love some fickle hearted romeo wannabe player.

then again.. all those things i said could just be obsession too... oh well. it's easiar to hate than it is to love.

i'm not saying there is no hope for me to be in love. but someone would have to really knock me over to prove to me that love exsists and maybe i can second think it. until then.

love is for suckers. it is just another word that means the world to some and nothing to me. a word with so many meanings. no words to describe. so i will end it now.

(stabby is out)

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Old Apr 17, 01
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um......

i really don't know?
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Old Apr 17, 01
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stabby...

ah, what you said makes sense 2 meeh! and i think you'll fall in love some day. but heyi t's good to know that not everyone out there just automatically says "i love you 2" back 2 someone when they say "i love you".

fear of falling 2 hard...i know what that's like..but it hurts even mroe to let them slip away. i seriously never thought i would ever love someone, let alone actually have someone love meeh. but when the time came, things just changed and i couldn't let this person slip away. i was falling to hard, and i didn't wanna hurt, or hurt this person.

who knows tho? maybe it'll happen 2 u one day stabby. but until that day, you'll never know..

meh..it's so pissing when ppl think they love someone after a week or summin. like bf's have said that 2 meeh and i've gotten into a big arguement about it. i'm like wtf?! how can you saying you love meeh? you barely know meeh! wait..barely know meeh? fuck you DONT know meeh. and the thing that bothers meeh is that if they say it after a week, it's oh-so-obvious they don't mean it. but maybe one day they really will mean it and when they say it..it's totally meaningless..totally fucking meaningless. and all they've done is gone and ruined it for themselves..

*shrugs* oh well..let ppl fuck themselves over. it'll allg et back to them in the end.
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Old Apr 25, 01
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once again there is just so many words to read and i get bored of reading them all so will we ever no what the meaning of love is????
even tho i use it lots i want to know what it really means this is what i feel like when the topic is brought up to my attention


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Old Apr 26, 01
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love to me..is being totally n'sync with that other person...

u completeing their sentences and them completeing yours...

accepting that person for exactly who they are..yet always encouarging them to be the best they can be...

to feel an unexplainable feeling which hightens when you look into their eyes =)

to laugh, smile and cry like you never have before..
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Old Apr 27, 01
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to me....

love isnt neccessarily a feeling, it's also a desicion.

i know. but i doubt it. even if mr.right for stabby came along, which he might of already. i'd be too pessimistic [refer to post in gripe.] about relationships to even let him in my head or heart. the only way he would be able to do that is if he's a doctor and preforming surgery on me. errr... i would never be able to fully open up to them. everytime i open my mouth and say something. it always turns out sounding wrong or stupid. so he might as well shove that cock in my mouth so i shut up. [sorry, i'm looking at some porn on stile where this girls got this huge cock shoved in her mouth and looks so fuckin' funny.] errr... anyways..

love makes ppl worry too much. and i think those that say they love a person but dont trust them. it's more of maybe they dont trust others. but they should really learn to trust their lover around other ppl. even if others have nasty intentions. i'm sure if their gf/bf cared about them, they wouldn't let others carry on their nasty intentions. maybe it's more of a worrysome, paranoia thing. kinda like how a mother or father can love their child but not trust them...

you have to let them slip away to really know if you loved them or not.. there were times where i thought i "loved" someone. but once they slipped away, i let it happen, and i didn't care, just went on, nothing. you know you really care about the person when you go out of your way to maintain conversation, contact, whatever with that person.

bob told me this once a while ago... "i've never been in love. the real me at least. how can i be in love if i'm not myself? true love in its purest form - two people real as they can be, connected by a spiritual bond. untouchable, unbreakable by any force." you do not simply fall out of love, how do you fall out of something and then fall into it with the next person you meet. its like how you say you'll never love like this ever again and then love the next person greater than you did the last. if it is love, it is there forever, or for a really long time. blah. i dunno what i'm saying. i'm outta here.
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Old Apr 30, 01
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well u know how puppy love/crushes gives u those damn butterflies in ur stomach.....i think that love is like having teradactyls flying around in ur tummy....its quite overwhelming and can cause indigestion...bleah:023:


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Old Apr 30, 01
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Love is what you make it
there are totally different kinds of LOVE out there

the type that you can love.. and it never changes.... ( that's true love)
"love is not love if alters when alteration finds" -William Shakespear

... I think that;s the quote
there is Friendship love.. where you do it cause you care.
and there;'s family love and there's love love where you are scared and not scared

I say I love you... in meaning.. I care.. and want nothing to happen to you.. and if something does.. I'll be there when you call... and .. kinda saying.. with out you... a part of me would be missing..


I LOVE YOU ALL! heheheh ^_^
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Old Apr 30, 01
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I love you too BB Yung Yung

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Old May 01, 01
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Something that's the most wonderful feeling in the world and you think you can't live without....

Something that makes you wanna wake up everyday and face the big bad world cuz you know that special someone's out there possibly thinking about you...

Something everyone searches for but most of the time doesn't know it's there until it's gone...

Something I would give my life for...

Something that hurts like no physical pain I've ever felt before...
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