Grrrr I Have Never Been Soo Mad

[Pussy_Kat]

i am not the type of person to get angry....its really not in my personality.....but my parents seem to do the trick.....i ask for NOTHING in my household i basically do everything myself...i may ask for a ride to work here or there or for there help with stuff around the house but NEVER anything big.....but today when i wanted to use the computer downstairs (its the only one my mMP3 hooks up to) everythings gotta hit the fan...OMG OMG SHE NEEDS THE COMP.....ahhhhh i dont see y we cant be normal ppl and get me a comp thats compatible with everything a teenager needs but no i need to get yelled and screamed at untill i dont want to do what i needed to do anymore....HEAVEN FORBID I GET MY WAY FOR ONCE IN THIS LIFE TIME.....thakn you for listening to my sob story and im sure its not a big deal to you ppl out there but i feel beetter now that i have talked about it :kimmie:

move out.

i moved out so i didn't have to deal with that crap.

its the only solution, or else suck it up sweety.

[Pussy_Kat]

good point good point.....did yours moving your solve anything? cuz thats what im a little worried about plus your a good 6 years older then i am

[ebbomega]

At 16, you really on the most part get to just cope.

Trust me. You might as well. You'll appreciate your parents a lot more when you move out but in the meantime you get to go through what we all go through, which is known as "adolescence". It's that time where you want to be treated like an adult and seems like the last thing people are treating you like.

When you're paying your own rent and bills and scraping out a living for yourself, you wish you didn't spend so much time being pissed off at little inane things. It's true.

[Prissypants]

I agree with Lady Venom...I moved out over 10 years ago and it was the best decision of my life...

[Pussy_Kat]

again tho u guys probally have a good couple years on me right?

[Jibo]

Im 17 and im lookin at how much its gonna cost me to move out and lookin at places to stay as soon as i graduate.

[Pussy_Kat]

well u and me should move out together then both of our problems would be solve :D heheheh

[Jibo]

well the first thing you need before you move out is a job. Or a bf/gf thats totally in love wit you to let u stay at their place and eat their food.

[Jibo]

But i think moving out over a fight about a computer is a little drastic. I want out cuz I need more freedom, and my parents can't deal with me.

I guess im a handful :c-tard:

[Pussy_Kat]

o no its more then that me and my rents dont get along at all i mean tonight was probally the first time ewve spoken in a good couple weeks......i have a job abut not a bf but im independant i dont need to bum there food

[Tux]

my sister is the same age as you and my parents treat her like she's 10, and this seems like a typical situation she gets into, so i think the only way parents will treat you fairly is if you age a couple years and become an adult or something.. but look on the bright side of things, at least you get free room & board until your old enough to move out on your own. What i would suggest is just save up and buy your own computer, and whatever else you need. thats what i ended up doing when i was about your age, i had everything i could ever need in my room even my own mini-fridge.

[Prissypants]

Although I do have quite a few years on you now, I moved out when I was 17...I was ready to move out when I was 15 though, I just needed to find a roommate and a place to live...If things are really that bad, moving out is the best thing to do...

Originally posted by Pussy_Kat
good point good point.....did yours moving your solve anything? cuz thats what im a little worried about plus your a good 6 years older then i am

yah it did solve some of it...the only thing is your on your own.

oh and i was 17 when i moved out..soo yah.

[ppcock]

kill your folks

[Jingles]

Moving out sounds like a super 'solve it all' idea - but while you are still in highschool I oersonally feel unless it's an abusive relationship then yu are likely better sticking it out at home and just trying to avoid conflict.
If you are grown up enough to consider leaving, then you are grown up enough to realize that computers and t.vs and MP3 players are not necesities, they are toys and a billion other kids your age won't ever have access to them - so just cause you can't use it the moment you want to ...it's not really that sad and in our society we have a billion other distractions to amuse you ---

You certainly don't get the choice of who your parents are - and whether you realize it or not, it's really normal for a 16 yr old to be in constant conflict with their parents -- If you are honest with yourself, truly honest - do you think your parents love you? Do you think maybe they just don't know how to communicate or act with a 16 yr old - Or do you think they are honestly trying to treat you poorly??
I say - ride it out, write the feelings down and do your best to be 'adult' avoid conflict and hopefully - things will work out in the longer haul
there's nothing like moving out when you really didn't have to -- it's real hard to find a place when you are young, and it can be really hard to finish highschool when you are trying to afford a place and food -- so if possible . Avoid it :)

If you can handle living with your parents during the highschool years I highly recommend that you stay at home. But my relationship w/ my mom back when I was living w/ her just wasn't good and I had to move out, for our self well being. I wish that I had the oppertunity to milk it to the limits as much as i could have but my mom was a single mother....so it was just me and her. I had no escape, no brothers or sisters and it was horrible. But if you can handle it..then by all means stick it.

Im just very independent and don't like being told what to do.

[PokemonMasta]

things will be alright sweety