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nice guys finish last
So my GF broke up with me friday for a bunch of retarded reasons one of which is i dont do drugs anymore so we just dont have that much in common. How could anyone break up with a person cause they stopped doin drugs!!?? Im am getting so fucking tired of breaking up with girls its the worst feeling and it just lingers for weeks,specially during christmas what a fucked time for this to happen. And the sad part is im the kinda person that need a GF all the time i feel lonely or something when i dont have one but in the end there never worth it, yet i keep doin the same shit every time. And on another note some of my buddies treat all there GF's like trash and they always stick around, i treat my gf's awsome and they never stick around :), so this gf was the final straw, from now on girls get nothing from me im gona treat them like a slampiece and nothing more.
fuck :finger: girls :finger: and fuck :finger: relashonships :finger: 
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i hear you man. my ex broke up with me like a week and a half ago because shes going through shit. She told me a bunch of retarded reasons as to why its over now. Its especially hard cuz she fucked me over once and now i hear that shes "friends" with this person. Like right after she dumps me. Fucking makes me pissed off. Plus it been one of my longest and most meaninful relationships where i can actually say that i still love her. Feels like shit without her so now im gonna have to be different i guess in other relationships. Thers so many things i did for her and it doesnt mean anything now u know. :finger: it
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Easy there. Not all girls are trash. However, I'm sorry but your x kinda sounds like she was. To break up with someone because they don't do drugs is the stupidest reason I've ever heard. Do you settle for girls just to have a gf? Because if you do that could be a huge part of the problem. I don't understand why some girls like going out w/ assholes but I doubt you want to be with one of themn. So just hold out until you find someone that you are 100% sure you want.
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Well in my case she said i cheated on her at a party. I wouldnt ever do that so i was like ?. I was drunk but still why would i need to do that when im with her for a reason. I didnt believe her so i asked almost everyone that was there and they said they never saw anything like that. I even asked the girl a couple days later and she said nothing happend and that she was willing to talk to my ex about it.
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Hmmmm, not all girls are like that, really. A lot of girls want some one who treats them good, someone they can spend time with and be happy with. I guess all I could suggest is the take things slow and get to know a girl before completely committing yourself - then you'll know where her head is at, if she is mature enough and wants a committed relationship.
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if you need a gf to feel a sense of validation, or have a sense of self-worth.. or even just to feel better about yourself and less lonely.. if you need to rely on some one else to feel complete than that's an issue that maybe you should consider to solve first before you jump into aonther one. Maybe you end up with shitty girls because you get so desperate to be with someone that you run to the most convenient oppurtunity instead of what is right for you. I mean, what kind of lady is one that dumps you for your choice to be sober? Shouldn't she be supportive of you, especially for doing something that is most healthiest for your body?
I think that it's more likely that you'll wind up with the "right girl" that will treat you well if you learn to be a little more independent and gather up the will power to be single, despite loneliness. Whether it be relationships or drugs, it's easy for us to want to jump to temporary comfort when we feel shitty but in the long run, we're bound to feel even worse about ourselves for enduring long term pain for brief and rapidly passing comfort.. Try to be single, and ok with it.. and when you find the *right* lady, and not just any lady, give her your all. Just don't waste your time on trash.
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i completely agree. If you can feel complete and satisfied when single.... when you enter a relationship, it is just going to make it that much better. Just make sure you really find out who the person is first. Don't jump straight into anything... people tend to hide their traits and real personality before the relationship, to get into it. Then once it is going smoothly certain things all of a sudden pop up and you might find yourself saying "This isn't the same person i wanted to be with". Happens quite often so keep an eye out :soak: Another good thing is to not expect much of the relaionship when going into it, then when or if you guys break up... it's not as hard.
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girls do suck man. as far as i know, they're all backstabbers. every girl i have ever been involved with (or tried to be involved with) has turned around and stabbed me in the back. no exceptions. once you stop looking for a good girl, one will present herself (eventually) but trying to find a good girl is impossible. so just give up trying, cos nice guys DO finish last.
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I know exactly what ya mean dude, it fuckin hurts. Just one of those things in life that u have to go thru. Being single is great but sometimes you just crave that companionship, somebody thats always gonna be there. Just sucks when u can't find the right person, or who u thought was right ended up being wrong.
Money~
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Girls are EVIL! While you sleep the secretly steal your will to live... this is why they generally live longer then guys
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well done!!
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good call, good call.
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^lol. but anyway (crackdragon) I swear we don't! :kam:
but I agree with yoko I have gone through the dependant stage and have been fucked over royally as well. it goes both ways. You really can't go looking for someone to fill the void so that you can feel better about yourself. I know in the end I just felt worse about myself and heartbroken. people can sense vulnerability and will sometimes take advantage of that. or they too just don’t know what they want and instead of looking for Mr./miss right they just look for Mr. right now. that will never work out. unfortunately you have to just wait for it to happen. and you need to take care of your own issues before you can hold up a steady healthy relationship. You could go out and be an asshole, but are those people you see really happy together, or are the girls dating these jerks just like you. Dating someone that is wrong for them but too lonely to wait for the right person so they are clinging on to whatever they can get. The mean guys probably don't have anything on you. Well I know that cuz mean ppl suck. they are probably just better at finding someone in the same lonely situation as yourself. Last edited by Kandyapple; Dec 02, 03 at 05:43 AM.
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buddy you cant be dependant or seek validation throught your relationships with a significant other, because more often then not your dependance leaves you vulernable to abuse dealt by significant others, that honestly your better then. Also like yoko said you may rush into relationships that ulitmately will be unhealthy in the long runm, only because you seek the comfort of knowing that someone is there. knowing that you have someone is a great feeling, but sometimes its just not worth the heartache
like money said, this type of bullshit is a fact of life that we all go through..all you can do is pick of the pieces of your heart, and move on to find someone who will treat you right. oh yeah and soma is right....ravers are generally fucked up, i eman look at the pictures in the photo gallery haha...though i know a few non raver girls that are absolutely horrible to their signifigant others. its a good idea to just stay away form manipulative, insecure, bitches, in general. Last edited by SEAN!; Dec 02, 03 at 05:32 AM.
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