nice guys finish last

[Tux]

Originally posted by hardstylin
So my GF broke up with me friday for a bunch of retarded reasons one of which is i dont do drugs anymore so we just dont have that much in common. How could anyone break up with a person cause they stopped doin drugs!!?? Im am getting so fucking tired of breaking up with girls its the worst feeling and it just lingers for weeks,specially during christmas what a fucked time for this to happen. And the sad part is im the kinda person that need a GF all the time i feel lonely or something when i dont have one but in the end there never worth it, yet i keep doin the same shit every time. And on another note some of my buddies treat all there GF's like trash and they always stick around, i treat my gf's awsome and they never stick around :), so this gf was the final straw, from now on girls get nothing from me im gona treat them like a slampiece and nothing more.

fuck :finger: girls :finger: and fuck :finger: relashonships :finger:

dude i used to be exactly like that, couldn't even imagine not having a g/f, until my last one broke up with me, after i had treated her like fucking gold for the more than 2 years we had been together. didn't really give me a reason either. Now i've been single for over a year and couldn't be happier, girls really are evil and will just take advantage of you if you are a "nice guy". Best thing to do is just to forget about her, and if you continue to persue relationships, don't get too attached cause 90% of them result in a shitty situation in the end.

[crackle]

hey guyz..... not all girls are evil.. many girls get treated like shit.. just like u guys are saying that these girls treated u badly even after all the things u've done for them.. also in finding a g/f u prolly go for the ones ur most likely attracted too... could be that u want a hot g/f or some shit like that... maybe try meeting a girl that isn't ur 'type' and maybe u'll end up liking them and even just giving them a try as a friend at least... u never know wut u might find in a chick, if u don't go by the looks etc...

[MONEY]

... u never know wut u might find in a chick, if u don't go by the looks etc...

I dunno about that, didn't work for me. Pursuing a girl based on looks is easy, u give it a shot and get shut down who cares just move on to the next one. If u get to know a person and start to like them for deeper reasons and then it doesn't work out it hurts.

Money~

[Jingles]

Originally posted by Tux
dude i used to be exactly like that, couldn't even imagine not having a g/f, until my last one broke up with me, after i had treated her like fucking gold for the more than 2 years we had been together. didn't really give me a reason either.

Maybe this is a little off the post topic..but just because you treat someone well doesn't mean you are meant to be with them. And just because you are a "nice guy" doesn't mean every girl you choose will be a "nice girl" or perfect for you. There are thousands, millions of nice people out there for the dating - but just cause they are nice doesn't make them perfect :)

And even if you are nice it doesn't make your partner nice..you know what i mean?
Utimately people treat us the way we allow ourselves to be treated - if you chooce a woman who is the 'walk all over you type' there is a good chance she will do just - And the same works with jerkface men..you choose a jerkface...you'll often find he acts just that way.

Being single is not the end of the world - it's a journey of self discovery - you don't need to define yourself by being the partner of someone else
Be you - be the best you that you can be and a girl who is into that will come in due time.

[stringbeans]

i was going to post with "damn right, nice guys always finish last!" until i read jingles' post :)

[rawb]

if im ever single im going to do one of these nice guy posts.

'OMG I HAVE THIS HUGE COCK AND I AM A DOT COM MILLIONAIRE WHY WONT ANYONE LOVE ME ALL I NEED IS A NICE GIRL?>??'

[bob]

^^you haven't lived until you've tried it

[e_BoY]

i really beleive in the "nice guys finish last thing" im 1 of those guys, maybe its because were too nice we let everybody go ahead of us then we just fuck ourselves over

[Belms]

yeah man i totally agree with u on that one. Fuckin being nice never works out.

[bob]

i love boys who convince themselves that they're nice guys and think they treat girls really good and stuff... those are usually the guys that blow up in jealous fits and pee their pants crying themselves to sleep at night.

IMHO, "nice" guys finish last because they're all spaztards who never got that extra hug from their mom when they were young. if i was a chick i wouldn't wanna go out with a guy who carries more baggage than a bellboy. sure it's cute in high school, but who wants to stay with an unstable crybaby?

nice guys finish last because it takes them 100,000 heartaches to finally realize women don't need another pussy.

[Kandyapple]

someone told me once.
nice guys may finish last but they finish better in the end.
I hope one day all you nice guys find a nice girl that knows and understands what your going through. I'm sure you will bump into her when you finaly stop looking.

[bob]

Originally posted by Kandyapple
someone told me once.
nice guys may finish last but they finish better in the end.
I hope one day all you nice guys find a nice girl that knows and understands what your going through. I'm sure you will bump into her when you finaly stop looking.

so true about the STOP LOOKING part... an old friend of mine was such a "nice guy" wreck. finally he gave up, and about 6 months later he met and married his dream girl. totally picture perfect.

[MONEY]

nice guys finish last because it takes them 100,000 heartaches to finally realize women don't need another pussy.

Very tru. This is just one of those subjects where both sides can make a good argument about. I guess it all depends on personal experiences.

Money~

[rawb]

the problem isn't that someone is too nice a guy, the problem is that they lust for shit chicks.

[Kandyapple]

Originally posted by bob

so true about the STOP LOOKING part... an old friend of mine was such a "nice guy" wreck. finally he gave up, and about 6 months later he met and married his dream girl. totally picture perfect.

yup for sure in the past year i've been filling the void with people that i thought could save me from my lonelyness. But I realized that I never really knew these people at all and I wasn't taking the time to let old wounds heal I was more picking at it intead and making it worse. But when I took the time to step back a bit and deal with my own shit, I got a chance to be with someone that is way more what I wanted deep down and really just awsome for me.

[Goat]

nice guys do finish last. *wew* thank god i'm a cheuvanistic fucking cunt with being an asshole issues.


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[bob]

Originally posted by JADED_MONEY


Very tru. This is just one of those subjects where both sides can make a good argument about. I guess it all depends on personal experiences.

Money~

word.

i could probably argue on both ends, depending on my mood swing. but seriously, i'm not gonna waste my life preaching about how i'm a nice guy and whine about how i deserve such a great girl. i'd rather be a notsonice guy to all the girls who i don't feel are right for me (and then they'll dump me for that nice guy waiting in the corner), and when the right girl comes along, i'll know it and just shut the fuck up and stroll off into heaven with her.

it all works out in the end. some people just like to bitch about it on the way.

[wigglesworth]

Losers finish last actually. Nice guys get accociated with losers way too much. the guy who just got dumped thinks, " im such a nice guy. if i had just been a jerk i would've kept her."
wrong
asshole's get the girls (usually stupid ones) but never keep them.

whats the middle ground here? Being a MAN. You can be a nice guy, but you HAVE TO stand up for yourself when it comes to girls.
girls WILL NOT respect a guy that lets them walk all over them.
also, DONT be BORING. girls hate that.

for more info go to www.sosuave.com
best friggin site....check out the bible.
good luck

[crackle]

good way to put it wigglesworth.

[SEAN!]

Originally posted by bob

word.

i could probably argue on both ends, depending on my mood swing. but seriously, i'm not gonna waste my life preaching about how i'm a nice guy and whine about how i deserve such a great girl. i'd rather be a notsonice guy to all the girls who i don't feel are right for me (and then they'll dump me for that nice guy waiting in the corner), and when the right girl comes along, i'll know it and just shut the fuck up and stroll off into heaven with her.

it all works out in the end. some people just like to bitch about it on the way.

haha i love it..

and wiggles is right..in my opinion thats how it is

[wigglesworth]

hardstylin.
i think you have it wrong. that part about fuck relationships. thats no good. turning into an asshole wont solve your problems either.
i think what you should be saying to yourself is FUCK YOUR EX GIRLFRIEND! Girl dumps you because you dont do drugs anymore, so you dont have anything in common? WTF? you're trying to do something better for yourself (which is the most important thing) and she breaks up with you because of it? this girl is NO good for you. She did you a favour breaking up with you trust me.

dont lable all girls as fucked up, because they really arent. i dont have any problem finding great girls. its really not that hard.
read that link i sent you. it'll be the best thing you'll ever do for yourself.

[Kandyapple]

^yah I agree, don't put all girls down. leave the problem with the person it belongs to. If she is leaving you for that reason then hey you dodged a bullet. if you have quit drugs and are feeling good about it how long do you think it would last before you realized that you had nothing in common with her anymore?
It's easy to just cling onto someone for companionship. But I think in the long run if you really think about it your better off this way. now you have a chance to find a better person to be with (after you take some time to think about what is best for you) and hopefully you have learned something from all this.

every relationship is a learning experience. Make sure you don't pass that up. Take the time to think about what happened and what you can do to change it next time. what did you like? what went wrong? and what are your needs for next time. don't just get mad and blow it off as she is a bitch, or all girls suck. take responsibility and acknowledge your own mistakes as well or you will never learn and you will continue to find yourself in these situations. You aren’t an ass hole if you stick up for yourself and you get more respect if you are just confident, not a jerk. girls will notice that.
good luck :)

[hardstylin]

im not bitter because im a nice guy im more upset with the reasons she gave me for ending it. stupid junkie bitch.

[wigglesworth]

Yah thats the spirit! mad at her. NOT the female population. if you let this girl make you bitter towards women then she's won. dont let that happen :c-tard:

Originally posted by hardstylin
im not bitter because im a nice guy im more upset with the reasons she gave me for ending it. stupid junkie bitch.

[ebbomega]

Why is it that when people date the type of girl who would break up with you because the only thing you have in common is drugs that you don't do anymore blame the failure of the relationship on them being too nice?

Christ almighty. Maybe it's not that you're too nice, maybe it's that you have no pulse on your relationship and just have no clue how to have any self-respect so you pin all of your insecurities on a significant other?

Please, people, the more you TRY to be in a relationship the less you're going to succeed at it.

Relationships happen because you WANT to be with THE person, not A person.