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Sep 28, 01
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gaining trust
this topic just popped in my mind about 2 minutes ago... my bosses called me up for a "meeting" just now, i was kinda freaked out, ehehe... but all they wanted to talk about was trust. basically all they asked me was "can we trust u?" and i said yea (what, was i gonna say no!?!)... with just that said, they gave me a key to the office, and they took off for "a few hours". apparently they're gonna be spending a lot less time here, maybe only an hour or 2 every day...
now what my problem is... is that i cannot gain an ounce of trust with a girl!!! i have some sort of curse or something... most people start to trust me shortly after meeting me, but not girls... GIRLS NEVER TRUST ME... that pisses me off. cuz i don't look like a player, but some girls get the impression that i am. i dunno why, i'm not rich and i'm not good looking... otherwise i'd have a girlfriend right now... and i always have girls concerned about me cheating on them. once again, i dunno why... it's not like i have a lot of friends, and it's not like i go out and do "stuff". if i go out, and my girlfriend asks, i tell her where i went and what i did... why they never believe me, i dunno... this sucks... so now i have a key to my work. and there's no alarm on the building. HOW DARE THEY TRUST ME!!! i'm totally gonna throw a party here... yeesh... i really wish a girl would trust me, just once... but then again, if she trusted me, i'd probably start to get the impression that she doesn't care if i was cheating on her or not... maybe i like the fact that girls don't trust me... i dunno... in my opinion it shows that they care enough about me, not to want me to run off with some other girl... but still... how do u gain trust!?! all i do at work is keep my mouth shut, and work my butt off... act like a geek if they ask me any questions, and *kablam* i'm the dedicated, trustworthy employee they've always been looking for... but girls... "hi my name's bob. nice shoes. wanna fuck?"... and they're all over me... interrogating me like the FBI... going apeshit on me for having coffee with my best friend... eeep... 
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i think the two trusts issues ur talking about are sorta two totally different things...maybe u are a trustworthy employee...a good worker..haha..responsible and stuff....thats good ur boss guy trusts u!..i mean..its ur job rite?..
but as a bf..trust means a hella lot more..cuz a lot of emotional shit is put into..while for work..it is where a lot of financial shit is put into it.. sum people trust others really easily..too easily..and get hurt!...others don't trust at all..and that in the end..gets them hurt..maybe the girls u've ever met have trouble trusting..and u haven't met neone who trusts easily or completely..i mean..there is always gonna be a lil suspicion behind everything..no one really *completely* trust sumone else..unless they know them really really well..and have a lot of faith in them.. but while u say girls can't trust u....u say they can...but do u trust them..or do u have trouble trusting too??..usually..if u prove urself..u earn ur trust...~
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*u no trust* + *they no trust* = NO TRUST..:D:
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heh. well there must be a reason for all these girls not trusting you if there really are that many... maybe its just some of the things you say, or the way you act, or something you said without realizing that it could suggest you, being a player of some sort..
or maybe, just maybe you tend to attract girls who just happen to be really insecure.. *shrugs* :)
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