girls

[vangroover]

Originally posted by Cheez
im kinda seeing this girl, and i dont know if i should try to take it further or cut it off. she's a very fun girl and she's EXTREMELY hott (shes a bikini moel) :trippin: but im not sur eif i can trust her, cos the first time we hooked up, she had a boyfriend. plus ive heard some skanky shit shes done, and im not sure whether i should just cut it off or talk to her about it to find out the ruth, or just forget about it and stay with her..... :284: confused.

not everything you hear about someone is always true , give the girl a chance!

[Bevvy Swift]

yea i think i will, but im not gonna get attatched. cos then if she fucked around it would bea big deal and i would be all pissed off and shit.

[zarlon]

Here's an idea.. talk to her about it, see how she feels. If she seems really insincere, or you really think she's going to cheat on you after a while, fuck it. (not literally, haha. though thats good too) A relationship is nothing without trust and if you can't build that trust.. yadda yada yada... you know how it all goes I'm sure.

There are plenty of women out there, and beauty is great but if she's incredibly shallow and flits around from man to man with no sense of consistency or comittment, what's the point? Would she be someone you'd want to have a relationship even after knowing that about her?

"Oh, I'll change for you!" <-- lies, people only change for themselves.. hehe.

[Lady Dame]

cheeze... you want a nice, loyal, honest girl....
dont date her just cause she's hot. What can she do for you as far as long term happiness? :keebler:

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally posted by revolvers_angel
cheeze... you want a nice, loyal, honest girl....
dont date her just cause she's hot. What can she do for you as far as long term happiness? :keebler:

that is true. but its not just her looks, shes a great girl, shes alotta fun and shes smart but im just not sure if i can trust her. i think im just gonna leave it the way it is, keep hittin it while i can, and if things dont work out, meh. im not too attatched.

[zarlon]

^ Well then you didn't really need our help did you?!



;P

[Bevvy Swift]

haha if i REALLY needed help i wouldnt be posting it on a the internet. this is just something i wasnt sure about. it wasnt a life or death situation or anything

[g l o w]

i'm too lazy to read the whole thread but read ur first post..

i'd say just do WATEVER that will make u feel comfortable..

if u feel better to be with her, then do it..
if u think this and think that and don't wanna be with her, then don't!

i'm not trying to tell u to be selfish and ONLY care about ur feelings..

but the game/ situation that u r in now, i'd say this would be a good solution method.. nice and simple..

cus sometimes u r making urself think more than it actually is..

but picking a "Yes go for it" is always not as good as a "No i won't" or "i'll decide longer"..

cus at the moment u still haven't went for it.. u can ALWAYS still have the choice of going for it or not..
but after u have gone for it.. the whole situation is different and more fuked up if u make the wrong decisions of continuing on or leaving the game for any reason..

so this is my suggestion.. do wat makes u feel comfortable..
but if u r still in the middle point of an X
then step bak and take more time to think it over...
but don't use TOO much time... cus it mite be too late.......
gd luk bro..

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

Originally posted by Lady_Venom
it's all about trust and communicating...without that u have nothing.

^^ agreed
no trust no relationship

[teknokid]

giving girls a chance just lets them know they can walk all over you - ive given girls a chance once or twice, and ive come out more angry then when i started.

this could be my fault for becoming attached... but isnt that ultimately what you want? to be together with this one girl, that you like? there's no point to continue if its one sided, definately talk to the girl and find out whats up. no bullshit.