girls

[Bevvy Swift]

im kinda seeing this girl, and i dont know if i should try to take it further or cut it off. she's a very fun girl and she's EXTREMELY hott (shes a bikini moel) :trippin: but im not sur eif i can trust her, cos the first time we hooked up, she had a boyfriend. plus ive heard some skanky shit shes done, and im not sure whether i should just cut it off or talk to her about it to find out the ruth, or just forget about it and stay with her..... :284: confused.

[MC Hammered]

If you have doubts about her already the relationship will never last.

Verdict: :n:

[mugsy]

so basically the chick is really hot and you just want to hit it?

if you cant even begin to trust her then there isnt really a foundation fro a relationship.. then again people have been known to change. but if shes young, she wont be changing any time soon, every girl needs a time to just go out and hit it.

[Bevvy Swift]

nono she's not just hot, she's alot of fun and i realy like her personality, shes a great girl. but the trust isn't there.. so i dont know whether to give her a chance to earn it or not even bother

[mugsy]

hmmm well trust isnt something that is fully there right away.. it does have to be earned, but if you have the feeling that she may get physical with someone else then dont do it.
find one of the other hundred beautiful ladies out there who are single and lookin who don't do "bad" things.

[sweet~kandy]

I think you need to talk things over with her, find out the truth about each other and then if it feels right then take it further.

[tufflove]

just hit it and peace out
do it like a man

it's all about trust and communicating...without that u have nothing.

[ebbomega]

I disagree. Without that, you can always just hit it and think nothing of it.

Then you scored a bikini model.

There's one to tell your grandkids.

[decypher]

just dont think about it, way easier.. worrying about this stuff is such a hassle, just go with it and dont get too attached.

[Veni*C]

Originally posted by MC Hammered
If you have doubts about her already the relationship will never last.

Verdict: :n:

ditto.....
girlz are evil....she'll screw u over.

[jawa]

well i dont agree with any of these guys. You like her, why not ask her whatever you want to know. Ive dated people and gotten into another relationship right afterwards and i dont fuck with peoples feelings, i tell them whats up. Also youve "heard" about skanky things shes done. Thats bullshit, unless you know for sure from a reliable source, theres always bitchy people out there who make up rumours. I say talk to her, find out the truth. If she acts all sketchy and awkard then ditch the bitch. I cant stand it personally when guys get all freaked out and ddont ask the girl whats going on, and just stop calling. Sketchy behaviour sucks :(

Originally posted by Cheez
im kinda seeing this girl, and i dont know if i should try to take it further or cut it off. she's a very fun girl and she's EXTREMELY hott (shes a bikini moel) :trippin: but im not sur eif i can trust her, cos the first time we hooked up, she had a boyfriend. plus ive heard some skanky shit shes done, and im not sure whether i should just cut it off or talk to her about it to find out the ruth, or just forget about it and stay with her..... :284: confused.

[Carmen]

Give her a chance. You never know what's gonna happen.

[mojo]

Originally posted by ~Veni_C~


ditto.....
girlz are evil....she'll screw u over.

hahaah

spoken...like...a true....girl.....

but correct..have ur fun man then say later

[Jingles]

Are you basing your mistrust on the words of other people?? You've heard she's done skanky things ...you haven't talked to her about them
and so you can't give her your trust??

Don't make assumptions - talk to her, if you think what she tells you is sincere...then forget skanky rumours and move along

if you aren't even willing to talk to her about your feelings ...then march on out of there right now :)

[Bevvy Swift]

im not just basing my mistrust on what ive heard. the first time we hooked up she had had a boyfriend for almost a year. she didnt even tell me until the day after too. and as the old saying goes, "once a cheater, always a cheater"

[cyberdog]

I'm of the opinion that if U're really into her, speak to her and get her perspective...everyone should really have the chance to give their side of the storyI'm sure U can weigh waht she says against what U've heard and make a decision that makes sense for you...

But...that said...if it seems that your info is more realistic than her explanations...she probably won't change for you. No offense, just human nature and statistics...so steer clear unless U wanna be the next guy she cheats on...

And if U're not even willing to hear her side of the store, then U likely don't care enough in the first place...so may as well move on to someone with a better foundation in the first place...

[Lush]

Originally posted by ~ASH3~
just hit it and peace out
do it like a man

haha ashlee that was hilarious..

but seriously, she cheated on her bf with you..
I dunno see when it comes to guys that whole "once a dog always a dog" saying definitely comes into play, I seldom try to pursue a relationship with a guy that I know has a bad reputation, because yes I know that it may be talk, but there's also a chance that there's validity to the rumours.
If he's really special, i'll take the chance to find out myself, but most of the time I don't waste my time..
that's just me, you know this girl better than any of us, it's really up to you to determine whether she's worth your time.

I just wanted to add that everytime I've disregarded those rumours, tried to find out myself and gotten involved i've gotten screwed over royally.. maybe that's why my opinion is a little bit jaded.


Good luck

[Hot Karl]

in the words of luda: you's a ho. HO you's a ho. HO you's a ho. HO i said that you's a ho. HO.

DO IT MAN, but you clearly aren't the fuck and chuck type. especially when dealing with a girl you "like". soooooo you should avoid her, or else you'll be back here crying about it in a week or so, when she finds another flavour of the month. SUCKa

[Mc*Phee]

Talk to her, hear what she has to say. In my books communication is the key. But so is instinct. Go with whatever feels best/right to you.

[decypher]

Dont fall for the evil ways of girls...

[junglequeen]

forget about the skanky stuff youve heard about but worry about her cheating again - for this girl there are always greener grasses

[Sykonee]

You snooze, you loose, really.

If you're coming on the 'net to ask for opinions, I think you've thought about it just a little too much, and have some reservations about the whole idea. While it's good to be cautious in some situations, if you're being cautious when it comes to a relationship, it more or less says you are afraid of getting hurt/hurting some else. Props for being careful with emotions but, to be cliche, nice guys do finish last for this reason.

Do what you have to, but don't wait it out. Things can only get more complicated that way.

[Bevvy Swift]

nono, im not despertate or anything, it's not really a big deal, im not in love with her or anything, i was just wondering what others would do in my place. i've already hit it, obviously, but i do kinda want a gf. but if i cant trust her, then shes not really girlfriend material i suppose. mmm

[junglEst_gurl]

jeez cheez......u need sum advice why dont u just call me!?
Im hurt :soak:
just kiddin
call me though ....:toasted: