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Feb 27, 04
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No need to blush --
OK - so i have spent my life listening to stories of cumming on chicks, morning wood, cumshots, having to pull over while a boy pisses on the side of the road, pee writing in the snow, popping a woody when we dance too close and SO ON ..I have spent my life listening to tales of the penis
and nowhere did the guy blush and tell me that i should cover my ears that it was boy talk SO WHY THE HELL IS MY PERIOD GIRL TALK? And if I hear 'you can't trust anything that can bleed for 5 days and live' I'm going to kick that person in the chin It's subtle repression - it's a put down - we can all bleed for days and live, the amount of blood is teaspoons, not litres I don't need to sit down and have my own vagina monologues -- i talk about my pussy enough as is, I haven't had a real issue wth that for a while -- but i'm not going to pretend I don't bleed and that it's only my business..that we should never talk about it with boys present..or that if we do we should lower our voices they don't :) It's not some shameful secret - boys don't get one, sometimes i wish they did - maybe they'd be less whiney if they did-- we go through pain monthly millions of women experience pain that would stop men in their tracks (not that men wouldn't also get used to it over time) But we're reasonabley silent about it - we just endure quietly take some Advil and carry on, and we are expected to carry on -- pain that if caused by anything else would keep us home for the day but when it's your period - you must pick up and go on ..calling into work because you have cramps isn't seen as a valid reason not to be there but think about it - it's mini contractions if you were going into labour you certainlly wouldn't have to go into work (extreme i know..but it's my random thoughts here) Womens periods are like mens erectile dysfunction the think we don't talk about But there is Viagra now Yes, there is Tampax commercials..but seriously ladies - look at a man when one of those comes on -- see the discomfort it's going to happen to me almost every month of my life for like 40 years, and it's going to happen to MILLIONS of other women for the same time everyone - get a grip it's just a little blood! Last edited by Jingles; Feb 27, 04 at 03:34 AM. 
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Feb 27, 04
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^ and you think talking like that won't make us "go crazy" either?
I won't waste my time on you, I'm sure you know what a pig you are already. And as usual, I agree with you Maryah. Yet another ridiculous double standard in our society. I remember in highschool, boys walking down the halls with hands down their pants, itching or whatever it is they are doing. Announcing to the whole world details, although often false or exagerated, about their genitals and it's functions. While most girls are even afraid to go to the bathroom with their purse in case anyone suspects they have their period. Oh and can't forget people asking/assuming its "that time of the month" if a woman gets angry, or stands up for herself or her beliefs.
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Feb 27, 04
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'you can't trust anything that can bleed for 5 days and live'
OOPS :) Ive never been weirded out by period talk or fucking when a chick is ragging :) but its is girl talk guys dont get peroids, ya you have to listen to guys talk about there hard ons and shit but if a girl wanted to talk about how wet she gets which is the same thing for a chick i dont think any guy would complain.
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Feb 27, 04
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hmmm ya. Amen to that Jingles! Thank you for bringing that up! I just wish that guys would get a period just once and see how painful it can get. Just once. I don't think any man could take it! Not just talkin aboout cramps, but also about dizzyness headache, pain in the back so bad you can't walk straight anymore, Feeling like a knife is being turned around in your lower tummy or getting really sick and puking. Hmmm... not nice. But it does happen. :finger:
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Feb 27, 04
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im lucky i guess...when i get REALLY bad cramps, to the point of tears.......PAIN!! my man spoons with me and puts enough pressure on my bowl to make the pain subside.
i think he feels sorry for me. its nice having men understand that we are their reason of existance. we create life...and fuck, that can be a real bitch of a process..men just sit back and "jizz" lucky fuckers.
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dont get me wrong a guys part in the process of life is only a tiny tiny fraction of what a girls is but when it comes right down to it you need a man just as much as a girl and vise versa for anything to happen so lets not get to high and mighty with the girl power talk. peace
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Last edited by Scarface; Feb 27, 04 at 08:20 AM.
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Well I'm like the next guy...I get squirmish when I see a tampon commercial. Especially what ever the hell Scarface here just posted. But having a long term relationship desenetised me...and I dont care so much when girls talk about it... Althought I can understand where the bitchiness comes form...some times it's too much & I feel like breaking out the midol tranquilizer dart gun. I'll treat a girl nice if she's having her rag...It's only fair. What do us guys ever complaint about?
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Man, you guys get some uber cramps!! Once in a blue moon I get them bad enough to send me home, or cry a little. I usually just jump into a hot bath and I'm fine. I no realize I'm lucky as hell. I remember a mom of one of my friends was debilitated for a week when she gots hers. Couldn't walk, drive, work. She tried everything and nothing helped make them easier on her :(
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i agree with what maryah said. i've been lucky enough to have good guys in my life who have no problem hearing about it. my dad's always been cool, but he has no choice living with 3 females for ever. the only male here is our bird :P my bf is just as great. he even buys me tampons. haha. but he'll sit and listen to me complain if i have cramps or anything else and not get grossed out. <3
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Feb 27, 04
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personally, i don;t think having your period is a big deal.
then again, i never get cramps and all that other crap you other girls seem to be complaining about. honestly, i think yeast infections or bladder infections are waaaay worse. just my two cents
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Feb 27, 04
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^^ shut yo mouf bitch before you i slap you
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Reason of existance? C'mon. Takes two people to make a child. Lay back and jizz, eh? I won't touch that one. I'm not sure how things like peeing in the snow/allies, morning wood and erectile disfunction compare to a few teaspoons of blood. I really don't see the connection here. I'm not sure how many guys actually sit around talking about how they can't get their dick up, but none of my friends do. In fact, I'm pretty sure that none of them have erectile difficulty to begin with. If that is all your guy friends talk about, maybe it's time for new guy friends, you know? Like the kind you can talk about menstruating with. I'm sure the conversation will be absolutley riveting. You can never devote enough time talking about bodily fluids ;) Oh, and if you are bumping and grinding with a guy and he gets an erection, take it as a compliment, it's clear he's attracted to you and thinks you're hot. 10 years from now if you're with the same guy, you would be pretty lucky if he's still popping wood and good to go, know what I'm saying?
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