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Oct 18, 01
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romance
...is it dead?
...alive and kicking? i see romance everywhere i go... but there's so little of it... 1 couple walking down robson out of 100 couples, doing "geeky" things... u know... i used to be a hopeless romantic... but what geeky teenager wasn't like that? to me, it was all a fantasy. when it started to become reality, i found it pretty hard. trying to be a perfect gentleman all the time, trying to do romantic things for a girlfriend, it's hard work sometimes. i got pretty lazy, and eventually turned into a jackass... which i regret... in the "rave" scene, i don't see any romance... everything seems to me, either REALLY FAKE (i.e. people making out in the corner at party), or it's just not even there. people in the scene seem to have no care for romance, or just believe it's crap. i know my ONLY relationship with a partykid was quite an abusive relationship. no wonder i used to keep telling myself "never date a partykid. never date a partykid"... but it's not like i regret it, it was an experience, and i've learned from it... i guess i'll just add a poll to this... cuz i'm just curious as to how many people here care for romance... some opinions would be nice to read too... my opinion: well, i like romance... and i would like to find a relationship that had that 'simple kind of love' aspect... buying flowers is fine, doing stupid things is fine, but i think it should only go so far... i don't think romance should be so complex that one person would have to go to so much trouble to make someone else happy. i think that's just plain WHIPPED... i don't think romance is dead... i think everyone has a little bit in them, it's just shaped differently to suit one's taste... ahhh shit i forgot to add a poll 
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Oct 18, 01
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hmmmm...romance...i also see it everywhere...but as for me..i'm still one of those geeky teen hopeless romantic people..sorta...but i dunno..i never really find big things romantic..its all the lil things that the person does..cuz it all adds up..
haha..i always tell myself too..never date a partykid..yupz~ :284:
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Oct 18, 01
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Oh my.. I wish I had some romance in my life right now... well, maybe not.. But sometimes it's like I just wanna have someone there for me, you know? SOMEONE to hold on to.. fall asleep with.. (Still haven't done that yet...)
I don't know.. I think romance is there.. It's just sometimes.. ... so hard to find.. but when you do.. it's WORTH it... :Kimmie:
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Oct 18, 01
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hey crunchie man, did u write the poem urself or copy it off the net? heh... fess up! i know i did that in high school... works pretty good... but, hope it works out man... don't wet ur pants when the moment comes :) *ah hem*, not like that ever happened to me... @_@
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Oct 18, 01
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awww jeez there i go... just wet my pants again... the falling asleep thing... that's the best... damn, sometimes i wish i had a bed... oh well... i guess i could push a couple of my couches together
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Oct 18, 01
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My opinion
Romance...I believe in it, I see it occasionally...but romance is exactly that...and once it's gone, the true test is keeping things going!
I find that sure it's great to wake up to someone's voice on the phone, fall asleep in their arms...have someone there for you. However, to an extent I don't want it! *Reasons not going into* My mindset is all good things must come to an end sooner or later, and I think I'm too young to worry about having such things in my life anymore! It's a lot of work to keep things going...I'll plan wicked things out, yet get no respect for it! I work my ass off to make things sweet and show that I appreciate those in my life...however there's only so much you can do or take and then it's up to the other party involved. I think one day I'll meet that person whom I can share such feelings with and do romantic gestures for, but until then, fuck it! I'm young and I'm only young once! My focus is on school, working for the website, meeting some wicked people and enjoying the time left I have in Vancouver. :)
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Oct 21, 01
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does crunch remind you of your ex-gf or something? CAN I GET IN ON THIS HOLDING SESSION!?! right now i'm clinging on to a huge orange pillow... it looks like i'm gonna be single for a lonnnnnnnnnng time...
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Oct 21, 01
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hmmm.....
i don't want to speak for all, but i think everyone wants romance to happen in their life, but it all depends if they actually try for it or be patient about it. im currently single rite now, but i'm not desperate in searchin for romance or stuff... just hoping the right one would just come to me i guess. i totally think when u're in a relationship doin romantic lil things is a must, just spices up the relationship. but as bob said it just depends how far u take "romance" to.. and i agree to not over do it.
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Oct 21, 01
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Re: hmmm.....
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But Bev hunny, you're still young...VERY young! Silly girly my bro is your age and he still hasn't ever had a gf! Like hum...I donno. When you get to be my age, and you have a mindset like mine, all you want is someone to hold and to love forever and ever. There's none of this "casual relationship" crap going through my mind. Like I said in the other post, I couldn't be in a loveless relationship, because although there'd be lust, it would seem pointless to me to be in lust when I could be in love. Ergh.
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Oct 21, 01
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yea i totally agree with u natalie...
i don't wanna go anywhere near a casual relationship anymore... not that i ever really had one, but i've never had a STRONG, SERIOUS relationship either... most of my relationships have just been high school drama episodes... i'm not quite at the "fall in love and live happily ever after" stage yet... cuz i am still a little too young for that, and cuz i don't even have a gf yet, let alone someone to fall in love with... right now i just wanna take it slow with someone... i don't mean like, waiting 3 years to kiss them or whatever... i mean that i just want something simple, but fullfilling, and could possibly lead somewhere... a nice girl with a good heart that just wants to settle down and chill i guess... and ALOT less arguments would be nice... someone that i would actually be pleased to get a phone call from... or show up at my doorstep at any given time... *sigh* fluff in my mouth... i should stop making out with my pillow...
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Oct 21, 01
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i think romance is still alive and kicking..
but i don't think romance should be hard work.. it should be something enjoyed.. and just little thing you do for each other y'know? some ppl over do it.. i don't li ke that kinda thing.. i like hte little things more..they mean more.. but meh.. i don't think to many ppl are to romantic nowadays cuz to many relationships are like fake.. y'know? they're just casual reltionships with not to much meaning.. so why be romantic y'know? it's not a big deal to me.. right now tho i'm still very young.. so when the time is right, it'll happen.. i've had a more serious relationship.. but only one.. if anything i would consider him to be my only real boyfriend.. other things were just like casual reltionships and i wasn't happy.. but with him i was totally happy.. ahh.. i miss him so much.. =(
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Oct 21, 01
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If there's one thing I really miss, it's just sitting there watching TV or listening to music with my arm around my ex gf. I mean I miss other things as well, but I think it's the really subtle, minor things that you take for granted that you end up dwelling on.
The contact is just necessary. Oh well, I'm doing fine now anyways, lots more time to get drunk and spend money on records :P
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Oct 22, 01
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WERD TO THAT
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Oct 22, 01
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Glad you can relate =) I used to maybe go out, once every 1-2 weeks max, otherwise I'd just stay in or go to dinner/movie/etc with my girlfriend. Now I'm partying 2-4 times a week...
Wait a minute, maybe that's NOT a good thing. Ah, fuck it, it's fun :P
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Oct 22, 01
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But don't worry, I'm in same sitch as you!
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Oct 22, 01
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But ya, here's to partying it up. See you at the 7 on wednesday, if I can get someone to point you out to me I'll buy you a drink. I owe Kimmy a round of Tequila so you can get in on that, the more the merrier =)
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Oct 22, 01
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As to 7 alexander...I icq'd ya, well requested your auth....I don't know if I'm heading down there or not! But auth. me and we'll figure something out! Talk to you soon. :Kimmie:
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Oct 22, 01
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Re: Re: hmmm.....
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hehehe nat, we need catch up a bit. i know i'm young, but i've experienced a lot. i've been through those dreadful "casual relationships" and the many countless flings and pointless relationships. all i want now is just that person to love forever and ever... even though i'm young, doesn't mean i don't have that mind set. hehe no worries though, when ppl meet me they treat me like a youngin... but after they get to know me they find my mature side... (hehehe don't get me started on u're bro! hehehe j/k!) haha i remember seein him at a party a few months back! hahaha tat wuz funy when i saw him. (lets hope i have a good memory)
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Oct 22, 01
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awww dawl!
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NEWAYS...good luck with the hunt bebe =) You goin' to Spooky? Call my cellie 604-783-6631 sometime on Saturday and maybe we can meet up before! *muah*
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