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Oct 19, 01
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"never date a stranger"
so i've been told a million times... NEVER DATE A STRANGER... and yea, i don't think i would... but how else do u get to dating someone? i'd like to go out with someone that i don't know too well, so i can actually go on a date with that person, and have a conversation for once, and find out about the person...
i really don't know how the dating game works... i don't know how to just walk up to a chick i don't even know, and be like "hi i'm bob, how bout we go have dinner tonite? pick u up at 8. btw, nice butt... bye"... sometimes i get really frustrated and i just wanna say to a girl OK FUCK I DON'T KNOW U AND YEA YEA YEA BUT I THINK UR ALL THIS AND ALL THAT AND I WANNA HAVE DINNER WITH U OR HAVE A DRINK WITH U OR SHIT CAN U JUST MARRY ME AND WE CAN FIGURE IT OUT LATER!!?!! that's the kinda person i am i think... i don't like to INSPECT something before going for it... i'm like that with jobs, i take a job no matter how crappy it sounds and how low it pays, and i end up making the best of it, and it turns out to be a great job. HAPPENS EVERYTIME. same thing with finding a place to live, i saw an advertisement, called them, went to have a look, didn't even really look around, just said "yea i'll take it, here's a bunch of money, give me a key, i'll be moved in by tuesday", and it turns out that i'm really happy with the place. HAPPENS EVERYTIME. i guess i could say that i'm good at making the best of a situation. or, i look at the bright side of whatever situation i'm in... but this isn't the case for me with girls... i SUCK with girls... cuz a girl is a completely seperate, independently thinking human being. i always stress about what they're thinking... with everything else, it's easy because it's just what I THINK, and i don't have to worry about anything else. there are no other factors... anyways that was a mouthful... what's your take on going out with a stranger? 
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Oct 19, 01
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well BOB im surprise not 1 girl has got mad at you.
You make girls sound like objects. they arn't hehe I mean make some friends with girls get to know them and if you like their whole "thing" then go for it. i may still be young and might not have very much experience but i know a little : )
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Oct 19, 01
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uhhhh ok... well i tried to make a point that i don't think of girls as objects by saying:
"cuz a girl is a completely seperate, independently thinking human being. " i was comparing things in my life, that ARE objects, to girls, which aren't objects... i'm not sure why u think i'm making girls seem like they're just an object to me...
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Oct 19, 01
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yea... i didn't mention blind dates, cuz that didn't really come to my mind at the time... but i did start thinking about that... it is freakin' scary... i met up with some girl at richmond centre once, she knew what i looked like, but i didn't know what she looked like... she was FREAKING HOT! and i totally choked when i saw her... neeeeeever saw her again, phew! hahaha... i hate HOT girls... @_@
i really shoulda mentioned blind dates... cuz a lot of people have different opinions on that...
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Oct 19, 01
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I've been on a blind date ONCE in my entire life... What a horrible experience!!! I think I've been traumatized by it actually.
:snyx: *The date from hell* :snyx: Started off lame, ended lame, and then he wanted me to kiss him good night... Kiss the dog shit on the bottom of my shoe numbnuts!!! *kiMMie shivers at blind dates*
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Oct 19, 01
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NICE!
i'm pretty much afraid to kiss on a first date, LET ALONE A BLIND DATE! especially if it doesn't work out! what the hell was that guy thinking!?!?! i mean, MAYBE if i totally hit it off with a girl on a first or blind date, MAYYYYYBE i'd kiss her or let her kiss me... but not often... i may be desperate, but that doesn't mean i don't have standards or morals... "Kiss the dog shit on the bottom of my shoe numbnuts" bwuahahahaha that's gold kimmie...
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Oct 19, 01
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AWWWW... i think bob has a crush on sweetAZNbear!!
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW....... i'll make a better reply later.
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Oct 19, 01
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Who tipped you??? *Gasp* When I find that person... *numbnuts*!!!
In relation to your topic... really? You don't want to *inspect* a person before going out with them? What happens if, within the first ten minutes of the date, you find out that you really don't like the qualities of the person... Are you gonna politely sit there and slap on a fake smile til the night is over? I don't know if I could do that. If it was felt mutually, then it would be easy to get out of, but what happens if the person is totally into you, but you're staring at her as if she was *dog chow*? And ever word that comes out of her mouth sounds like the teacher off the Charlie Brown cartoon? *Wonk wonk wonk wonk* Don't think too hard... don't *try* to figure out what they want or need so quickly. It's supposed to be a step by step process... A girl shouldn't expect you to read her thoughts or know everything there is to know about her in a snap of a finger. That would be ludricrious!!! :284:
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Oct 19, 01
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kimmie, maybe i should've said CLOSELY INSPECT... cuz i mean, sure i'd like to know what they look like, and get a general idea of their personality... i can usually get a rough idea of someone just by saying hi... well, that's assuming... but i'm good at it, haha...
and i mean, a date's a date... i'd stay til the end no matter what... i'm not gonna walk out on a girl like that unless she tries to stab me with a fork... *2 hours later* ok thanks to translink's wonderful services, i just got home from work... at least i got to think for a while... kimmie, ur right about most of the things u said... but u know what, none of this is really related to the topic... i shouldn't have even added 1/2 of my original post... all the topic is ... or SHOULD be about is dating a stranger... i trailed off and yapped about something i wanted to get off my chest, and it came out kinda bad now that i've read it over and thought about it for 2 hours... well, my points related to girls at least... i'll just say ... IGNORE the comments i made earlier... it didn't make much sense, and i shoulda thought about it a little harder before i posted it... i was thinking of going in depth about what i meant, but... i don't think my explanation belongs in this thread, and i'm gonna keep it private anyways... this thread is a disaster... but i think i'll spare it... Last edited by bob; Oct 19, 01 at 07:29 PM.
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Oct 19, 01
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My opinion is that if you only date people you know, you are either going to risk a great friendship, or mess up other ones in the process....
...Dating a stranger is tough, however you just need a good judgement of character!!! I mean, if the guy/girl is a creep/freak...then you'll be able to tell, and know not to go out with them.... ....However, if you're not willing to date someone you don't know, how are you going to meet anyone in this world. Best advice, first date with that person, do something in public, like coffee or something...just to get a feel for the person and make sure they're not a creep or a freak!!! ...Some of the best dates I've went on, were with guys I just met! Best of luck, and explore all the options....dating shouldn't have huge boundaries! *in my opinion*
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Oct 21, 01
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dont worry sweetaznbear, it happens often or something like that.. hehe.
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