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Oct 19, 01
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love..lust..crushes......
what do you find yourself getting most involved with....
love is so hard to tell....for me its lust..no its crush..no..see im just confuzzuled. <sigh> 
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Oct 19, 01
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See...
For the past 2 years almost, I've just "seen" people, so it was always lust! I'd get sick of them after a few weeks and that's that!
Love occurs once in a blue moon in my life! And when it does, it hurts...so that's when I know it must've been....cuz they say "love hurts" and it does & it's not easy! Crush...hmm, well that's obvious, you like the person, and it's more of a game, once you get 'em that is it, it's over! AHHHH life huh? :035:
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Oct 19, 01
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Jess .. i so know what you mean
lust goes away..then you move on
crushes..yeah, youre right.its all a game
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Oct 19, 01
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yeah..i agree with wut jess said..
lately..i just have crushes..but once i feel like i can get the guy..i don't like him anymore..not that i plan it..it just happens..so yeah..like it was mention above..sorta like a game..~ :035:
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Oct 19, 01
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it's usually just crushes for me...
sometimes it mutates into something else if i actually get a chance with the girl (and it never seems to work out)... but most of the time i'm just sitting around staring at some girls' picture all nite long... but i haven't really been crushing on girls lately... well i have a crush on someone now... and i really hope it goes somewhere, otherwise i think i'm just gonna sit around and rott away and try not to think about lust...love...or crushes anymore... cuz i really hate playing this game. but that's life... i've had lust before, and that was very unrewarding... just left me feeling like shit the whole way through... and love. well, not yet...
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Oct 19, 01
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bob thinks pete should come back to vancouver...
those calgary girls are doing harm to your mind :( hahaha pete i just remembered that time we were at the croatian, and we were talkin' in the lobby, and u were gettin' all emotional about girls, then u started mackin' on winnie's friend and gave her a CD aahahaha...
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Oct 20, 01
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Well......it starts out as a crush, but for me it's all about love.
If I don't love the guy, I can't stay in a relationship with him, it's just not fulfilling enough. It seems like a waste of time, why be in lust when I could be in love? Ahh....I like being in love :229:
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Oct 20, 01
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I've been blessed... not once but twice with :370: love :371:
*knocks on wood* But I've had good and bad relationships in the past... and yes, at a younger age, most of them were crushes, and was more concentrated on the *chase* of things...
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Oct 21, 01
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love is for saps and yuppies. so i laugh. HA - HAHA.
back when i was a bit younger, i had crushes.. then i grew out of that and became kinda bitter about relationships, thought i was in love a few times, but they were sucha plastic form of love and i knew it. then i grew out of the whole "love" phase and became lil miss bitter relationship-ist and was quite happy single. had a few obsessive stalker psychos, clingy bfs, a lot that thought they were in love with me (gags), and now everything seems alright.. yeah the whole lust thing, not really.. im usually not that attracted to the guys i date.. haha.. but yeah.. everything now is good.. and im happy..
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Oct 21, 01
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Bob
haha I so remember that. That was halarious. She was like huh?? Anyways Thankssssssssss... PETE is the king of macdaddys! haha
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Oct 24, 01
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I have been pretty happy being single.. it has its advantages and disadvantages...
My parents want me to stick with one.. girl and leave it at that.. lol.. like for Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc.. I might bring a different one.. lol they get confused.. :) Still looking for that one.. lol like that will happen.. I did meet one playing softball nonetheless lately.. that seems near perfection... playing sports.. like softball and golf.. and stuff... enjoying computers is a plus, having the same type of hobbies.. and can dish out the smart ass remarks! that rocks.. lol downside.. with love.. or anyone.. is time.. I find that if you don't spend enough time to gether... you grow apart.. even as friends.. you grow apart. I make it a ritual to try to stay close with friends.. guys and gals.. Getting ready to take on a job that will have me traveling the US.. on a weekly, bi-weekly basis... it will be fun... but.. geeze unless I can do like the sailors and have a girlfriend at every port.. as they say.. lol.. might get lonely.. but.. hopefully I will only do that for a few years.. and maybe find someone to travel with me.. any takers :)
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