coming out by accident

*spacecase* · #1 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

So I was at school today (Saturday) working on a bunch of assignments. Three of my classmates were here in the same room working on their stuff.

We started talking about gay marriages because it was a topic of an assignment a guy was doing.

He started saying things about gay people and everyone was sort of agreeing. Eg: "Gay people seem to get more FLAMER-ISH as they get older. They shouldn;t be able to get married. It doesn;t make sense."

Which kind of got me going... so i said : "OK!!! Both of my best friend's are GAY. I have a LOT of gay friends!!! and I'm BISEXUAL, so sterotyping and that shit REALLY PISSES ME OFF!!!!!"

:soak:

they all just STARED at me with their mouths wide open.
"WHAT?!?!?! REALLY?!?!?!"

it was kinda funny....

I had never planned on telling people in my class or my school about being Bi, cuz they are all very conservative people.

But i guess I'm "out" now..... :kam:

class on monday should be interesting.... i'll get to see how fast the word spreads....

:298:

cheebus420 · #2 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

Quite frankly the world needs more bi-women.

Amen.

Dice_ · #3 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

but your a girl, most peps are cool with bi girls nto bie guys.. my old room mate was a bi guy...
why is it that most gay guys have good style but when they are bi it's like oh my god they still seel that crap

*spacecase* · #4 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

yeah, most people are more relaxed about Bisexual girls... but the people in my class are mostly upper middle class / rich white christian kids. so.... yeah... they have fairly conservative views about life and all that jazz. it's just what i have observed from spending 7 months with them.

rawb · #5 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

if i had a dollar...

Dice_ · #6 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

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Originally posted by rawb
if i had a dollar...

buy a condum

shorerider · #7 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

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Originally posted by rawb
if i had a dollar...

I'd use it to see pics of her in action.

NeVeRLooKBacK · #8 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

hahah
good job
put them in their place!

Rhianna · #9 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

I think it would have been a way bigger deal to them if you were a gay male. I think bi- females are a lot less threatening to people like that.

Lunch Box · #10 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

how fast what spreads... ? the legs of the other girls in the class..

mojo · #11 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

wow ur bisexual
wow
wow

Lunch Box · #12 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

i know i don't know any bi's its a cool thing at least you keep your options open

Lunch Box · #13 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

and your legs of course

cheebus420 · #14 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

^^ what are you guys 12 ?
I think she was genuine in this post.

Sykonee · #15 (**permalink**) Mar 14, 04

Seems to me the reason bi-girls are more socially accepted is because girls tend to be kind of huggy and kissy with each other anyways. So, seeing a girl kiss another, then go and kiss a guy with just as much affection, doesn't really seem so big of a deal.

Guys, on the other hand... (well, unless they're French :p )

ebbomega · #16 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

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Originally posted by cheebus420
Quite frankly the world needs more bi-women.

Amen.

Sorry? Have you even been paying attention to the trendy-bi thing? I think we're doing with a bit too much overflow of girls who say they're bi just to get attention.

We need less guys who automatically think that bi girls are therefore better and easier in the sack.

ebbomega · #17 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

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Originally posted by Lunch Box
i know i don't know any bi's its a cool thing at least you keep your options open

Ya, you do.

ebbomega · #18 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

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Originally posted by Lunch Box
and your legs of course

Oooo. Case in point.

Go back to High School.

Lunch Box · #19 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

well then... purdy interesting stuff there ebbomega, its almost like you have GED or somthing. WOW... back to high school... well said

Lunch Box · #20 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

and yes i am 12 years old...

Rhianna · #21 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

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Originally posted by ebbomega

Sorry? Have you even been paying attention to the trendy-bi thing? I think we're doing with a bit too much overflow of girls who say they're bi just to get attention.

We need less guys who automatically think that bi girls are therefore better and easier in the sack.

Thank you! I'm getting really annoyed w/ all the littol girls out there that say they're bi just because they know guys will think it's hot. If you're really bi that rocks, sometimes I wish I could be bi.

The thing is I know not every girl out there that says she's bi really is. There were a lot of girls in my highschool that never liked other girls. Well that was until they were drunk at a party and had a bunch of guys telling them how cool it would be if they made out.

robyn · #22 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

I have a friend who's bi when she's paid to be.

crookedking · #23 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

i thought this thread was about boobs coming out of bras by accident :soak:

ebbomega · #24 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

^^ Jello Wrestling Thread in Hey You.

I'd post a link but I'm lazy.

*spacecase* · #25 (**permalink**) Mar 15, 04

Quote:

Originally posted by Rhianna

Thank you! I'm getting really annoyed w/ all the littol girls out there that say they're bi just because they know guys will think it's hot. If you're really bi that rocks, sometimes I wish I could be bi.

The thing is I know not every girl out there that says she's bi really is. There were a lot of girls in my highschool that never liked other girls. Well that was until they were drunk at a party and had a bunch of guys telling them how cool it would be if they made out.

i agree that chicks like that are annoying.

thing is, i am being genuine. if i just said it to get attention from guys, i would have done it a long time ago.. like at the start of the school year last august.

the whole reason i decided to finally speak up for myself is that my class has a bunch of people in it who are extremely homophobic and they make stupid, immature comments about "fags" and "homos" and "dykes" all the time. i was getting really sick of it because I FOUND IT INSULTING TO MYSELF AND MANY OF MY FRIENDS.

i didn;t do this for attention....

christ, throughout high school, people thought i was gay and i got teased and threatened to get beat up because of it. i didn;t win any popularity contests, to say the least.

i'm not some freakin twinky barstar annoyance who told people i was bi "just to be cool."

i'm in college. i'm not in high school. i'm twenty. and i've FINALLY accepted myself for who i am.

if people assume that i'm doing this so guys will think i'm hotter or easier or some bullshit, thats fine. but it isn;t true.

i just thought that blurting out "i'm bi!" when i was arguing about gay marriage and gay rights was kinda funny. cuz i had NEVER PLANNED ON TELLING people at school about my sexuality.

end rant.